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*B85
writes:Hello people, I'm 24 year old male engaged to my beautiful finance of 21 of age. Ok the question is why is it that when I see other females I get attracted so fast and a lot of sexual thoughts run through my head? I know its wrong but its something that happends automatically. And does watching porn adds to the problem? I really would love some opinions.. Please help.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 You are welcome, I hope things sorted themselves out and everything is in order.
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reader, JB85 +, writes (14 June 2010):
JB85 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Chigirl.. my problem is gone. thanks for all of your inputs..
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 June 2010):
It could be you just aren't quite ready to settle down, and so have a slight panic going on subconsciously.
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reader, JB85 +, writes (10 June 2010):
JB85 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wasn't always like this but when got engaged it started growning more.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 June 2010):
Have you always thought like this, or is this something that happened after you got engaged? How did you cope with this attraction when you entered a serious relationship?
I don't know why you think this way, but I will bet my money it is because you are a young male and your body/instincts is telling you to breed breed breed. Just remind youself of what you really want, and not just what your little head wants. A good, stabile relationship with a loving woman. Not multiple one night stands. Right? Then just give it time and hopefully these attractions will fade/wont be so strong that they tear you apart.
I don't see this as a reason not to get married. As long as you are an honest man who won't cheat.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 24 is really young to get married these days.
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