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The man who's too perfect, or the man who's not perfect enough?

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Question - (10 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a huge problem. I have to choose between my boyfriend, and my ex. I love both of them and i dont know who to go with. I broke up with my ex because i thought it wasn't working, but am now realizing that im missing him terribly. But, i dont waant to hurt my boyfriend. He is absolutely perfect, and a little too perfect actually, and all he wants is what's best for me. But i have no idea what to do...the man who's too perfect, or the man who isn't perfect enough?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010):

let me begin by telling you this....... THERE IS NO SUTCH THING AS PERFECT..........if he say al he wants is what is best for you ,....THEN HE SHOULD KNOW BETTER !!!!!‚....... this so called perfect guy should stop interfering you and youre ex from trying to save what really matters to them........if he really wants to be mr.perfect that is what he really should do ..... as for you..... i would stop missing him by geting back with the one you LOVE....... YOURE ........EX........

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2010):

If you can't choose, it means that nether man is right for you and you need to be alone for a while.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (11 June 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntStay away from both of them for a period of time and see who your heart pines more for.

If you cannot decide now, let time decide who is the right guy for you .

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A male reader, Boombadaboom Belgium +, writes (11 June 2010):

Boombadaboom agony aunttake neither and see who conquers your heart most over time

and you should be careful because triangles usually get messy

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A female reader, jones15 United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2010):

jones15 agony auntwell you shouldnt just stay with your current bf just cuz u dont wanna hurt him if u dont love him your being cruel by stayin with him.

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