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Archived questions from: 13 February, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I approach this situation for the best?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - God I'm in agony. Me and the major love of my life who I have been with for 6 years have had a major major bust up about a week ago (we've had lots of problems) and not spoken for a week (he stormed out of the house and said he was never coming ...

Why do guys always ask me out after the first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a guy asks you to be his girlfriend after the first date? This has happened to me 4 times now and I wanted to know whether I actually impressed these guys that much for them to want me to be their girlfriend. Or if it was just...

How can I make my bf more romantic??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and he has no idea about being romantic!! I don't know what to do i love him to death but he never does anything romantic. Now don't get me wrong he shows plenty of affection but he never su...

What to buy him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Ok i need help.........ive been dating this guy for about 3 weeks.......and valentines day is 2 morrow!!!! his name is travis............he has a band called blue tornado and i dont no what to get him for valentines day!!! he likes heavy metal ...

He dated my mum first. Is this so wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - The guy that I have really strong feelings for has dated my mom in the past over a decade ago. They were intimate and had a sexual relationship. This is not an ideal situation and normally I'm not interested in this type of dating, I don't like to ...

My BF's comment made me realise I need to improve my self image and confidence, how can I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - This is a silly concern. Today I was telling my BF I lost 2 pounds out of nowhere. He was happy for me. I've lost a lot of weight since we started dating. He's always been very attracted to me. We were talking about my weight and height... he not...

How come I haven't settled down with anyone yet do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I am an open mind attractive 34 y.o. woman. I am independent, work full time, have been in UK on my own for 10 years, inteligent, etc. but today i was struck with a question from someone i do care, he said: ' i really do not understand why you do ...

Is it too early to ask him to recommit to being my boyfriend? What is keeping him from asking me to be his girlfriend again if he loves me "with all his heart"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I had been living with my boyfriend for about six- seven months. We loved eachother and we spent everyday together---things seemed perfect. We talked about getting married one day, spending the rest of our lives together, about buying a house. M...

We want to move in together but cannot come to an agreement!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I had a really horrible childhood, my mum and dad split when I was little and he has barely been in my life, when he did arrange to see me and my sisters he would always let us down, my mum then went through 2abusive relationships and got into a lot ...

Should I ask him how he feels, or will this corner him, and if he doesn't feel it yet, will he ever? We're both divorced.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Hi Ive been with my bf for 7 months now and things have been great. He lives a bit of a distance which makes dropping by not possible but get together weekends. These are blissful even tho we dont do much just enjoy each other's company. We do ca...

Why does he kiss with his eyes open???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I'm with my boyfriend however the only thing I can't understand is when we're out and we kiss he kisses me with his eyes open. We are so close and love being with each other and I know he completly adores me but why does he kiss me with eyes open ...

Is she confused, scared or have commitment issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - I am writing this because I am currently at a point where I do not know what to do. My girlfriend and I broke up two weeks ago and I have given her the space she has needed however it is still hard to understand why she broke up. We have some ...

Do you think I'm being selfish here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Am I being selfish? I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years and we have a son together. now the whole time that i was with him all he really spend on me was about 100-200 dollars. THE WHOLE TIME. he dont work or anything...

I want to trust him but I'm not sure if I can...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm sixteen almost seventeen and have a wonderful boyfriend. Problem is I can't trust him. We've been together about 5 times before within the last 3 years, and everytime we broke up it was him who stopped the relationship. Our longest time ...

Things seem good but why does he say he can't handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - What does a bloke mean when he says he can not handle a relationship with not just me but anyone although things were so good?...

I'm anxious I'll be left on the shelf, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - Hi all, My mind have been in quite a whirl nowadays. I know it's kinda like V-day blues, I can't help but feel that I am fast getting left on the shelves. My friends are getting attached easily, and although I have had 2 relationships before, it left...

When we are apart, he doesn't seem to miss me. What Gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - My bf is so loving and affectionate when we are together. I notice a weird pattern when we are apart. With each day, he seems more distant and quiet. He tells me he loves me, but he doesn't act like he misses me the way i miss him. Sometimes he ...

What did this guy I like mean, saying if he was drunk, he wouldn't be able to help himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Last nite went to my local pub with a friend and her bf and his m8 who ive only met twice, anyway cut a long story short i really like this guy although his just split with his long term gf,ive been told by my mates bf that im his type of girl and ...

My ex is having Sex with somebody knew. It's upsetting me and is making me feel VERY jealous. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - I'm feeling jealous towards my ex. We've managed to be friends since we broke up nearly a year ago. Even though we are friends, I've never felt like I've truly gotten over her, even though we have both agreed that getting back together wouldn't be a ...

Is you're opinion he's cheating or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I need to know what you think, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Even though I've never caught him, I suspect he's cheating, I have checked his cell phone bills I never seem to find anything out of the ordinary. THe thing is, ...

What to do about telling my mum

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I am wondering if I should tell my mum about this new guy im dating. I am 18 years old and yes I know that since I am an adult I do not have to tell her, but it would be nice to be able to open up to her and have her blessing. And also my mum is ...

Take a chance and ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - There is this girl I know. She introduced herself to me online and at first I brushed off as nothing because there's weird people online. But as I got to know her through messaging and found out she goes to my school, we started talking in person ...

Did I miss my chance with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Over a year ago, I split with my ex. It tore me up pretty bad, and left me really out of focus. Not long after I met Mike, he was fantastic, atractive and it seemed like well, too good to be true to be honest. I pushed him away I suppose and over ...

She gives me mixed signals, I'm confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - Looking for any advise here, I'm really confused. And sorry this is long, I like to ramble, and there is a long ish back story. I met a girl about 3 weeks ago when I was out with friends. There was an amazing attraction between us both straight aw...

I want to send him a card for his Birthday, should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Okay, so I like this boy that I do theater with in my town. We're friends and don't go to the same school, but I really fancy him. I want to send him a card for his birthday, but I'm not sure if this is strange. Also, I want to instant message him ...

Valentines day gift!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and i have no clue what to get him for valentines day and its in 2 days. I know I waited untill the last minuet but i was tring to find a great gift, but my plan back fired today! I really ...