Is you're opinion he's cheating or not?

A female age 41-50, *herryChick28 writes:

I need to know what you think, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Even though I've never caught him, I suspect he's cheating, I have checked his cell phone bills I never seem to find anything out of the ordinary. THe thing is, it's kinda hard. He works in construction so I can't keep track. I catch him in lies, for example he tells me he's still on the freeway and still needs to drop his co-worker off when he is already in town. This has been more than once. Not all the times that he has lied I've caught him, but a couple times, I've checked it out and he is where he says he is, so it's unclear to me if he's really with his friends - why does he lie??? Just a few days ago, this text message came through on his phone, him not knowing I replied back, thinking it was him the girl kept texting back, adding "what's going on for tomorrow" I replied (pretending to be him) - "going out w/girlfriend, care to join us?" She replied back, "preferably without the girlfriend"...well after that it gave me that funny itch to keep on texting back....I kinda kept going along with her texting, "well, see if I can get away." and she text back"well, let me know if you can get away and will meet at the bowling alley" The thing is, he denies seeing her. I says she was an old friend, and he hasn't seen her since before me and him met.... she told me that he and her had sex before me, but whywas it so easy for her to be willing to meet him??? She told me that him and her ran into eachother at the bowling alley, the only time I have known of my boyfriend going toi the bowling alley was with me??? this was a couple months ago, but I know that he has been in contact with her since last year. He had told me he ran into an old friend when he originally got her number and she sent him a friendly text so I didn't think nothing of it. But now, it's clear to me what her motives are... and his too for that matter! I dont know what I shoud do? Is that grounds for cheating since I was the one pretending to be him, it was his cell phone, she was the one that said first "preferably without your girlfriend" but why if just friends, would she say that. For that matter, why if they haven't seen eachother for so long did she wanna meet up to jump his bones??? I don't buy it...and there is just something there...I'm not sure what. He accuses me of just being jealous and he says he would never cheat on me...i dont beleive it! What can I do to find out more and what do you think about that whole situation??? Is your opinion he's cheating or not????

View related questions: co-worker, jealous, text

Reply to this Question

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, BButters  +, writes (20 March 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, gal_crysal435  +, writes (14 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Dawnie  +, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, CherryChick28  +, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, ozzyhayley  +, writes (13 February 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer