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Archived questions from: 7 February, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I a horrible person for thinking I can have my cake and eat it too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's a lovely guy who cares about me deeply but who doesn't want sex with me. We're affectionate but there's no sexual chemistry there at all. In the early stages of the relationship, I was always the one ...

Why do I seem to scare men away? Is there a hidden rule somewhere that I don't know about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - This thing keeps happening to me. I meet someone they flirt, they look for excuses to see me again, we end up having the longest phone conversation and they laugh and giggle and you'd think they like me and then they don't call back or they don't ...

Now he wants a relationship I'm not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Recently a man I know split up with his wife as she had been cheating on him for 6 months. He found out about it in the summer and she told him that her and the man she was seeing had feelings for eachother but neither were prepared to leave their ...

What is my friend doing wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - My friend wants to know what she is doing wrong. She likes older boys (1-5 years older) and most of them like her too. The problem is they always let her down and she doesn't know what she is doing wrong. They say they don't have a problem with the ...

My gf calls my best friend "hun," is that a form of flirting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - hey just want to know what you guys think, i just got back, i was away from my gf for a year and 4 months; i was reading some of her msgs and that's when i seen msgs of her calling my friend hun, for example "hun dont worry about it" - would u say ...

How do I go out with this guy I like and not hurt my friend who likes him, too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Im 13 and really like this boy at school, but one of my best mates does as well. Apparently he likes me as well but i dont know if this is true and i dont want to hurt my friend. Help me plz...

My one night stand ignored me for a while, but now has called. Should I call him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - About 4 months ago I had a bit of a one night stand with a "friend" - who we shall call James. I say friend very loosely though, we have only met eachother about 4 or 5 times through a mutual friend - who we shall call Darren. It was the most ...

He always puts his adult kids before me and does whatever they want

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - how do you successfully date an older man that is so much into letting his family control him. his kids do not like me and he doesn't want to upset them so therefore we will never get married. i mean for goodness sakes .don't let them be sad. he ...

Anyone know of any good websites to go to for fashion advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I like to stay fashionable. Im 15 and from Manchester, UK. Does anyone know any websites which are up to date with fashion and give ideas of what to wear, what not to wear sort of thing? Thanks...

I snogged a boy but now he is telling everyone I wasnt good. Well, he wasnt good either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Im 13 and i snogged this boy some time ago and even though i hadn't ever done it before i could tell he wasn't very good but i didn't say anything, and becuase it was my first time i wasn't very good either and now he has started to spread it and i ...

My girlfriend is lying about the places she goes and seems secretive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has been lying about the places she go to and when i ask she said she forgot to tell me, We have been in the relationship for four years, My question is whenever i ask for us to have a good time, she says she ...

How do I tell her I want to make love to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - how do i tell her i want to make love to her...............i feel realy stupid about this because i'm 45 and should no what i'm doing.i no she considers me more then just a boy friend we are even going on a trip to newyork in a few weeks same room ...

How do I convince my boyfriend to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - we have been dating for 7 years ,he had told me for several times that we will get married ,but last summer when i told him that i cant wait any more lets get married,he said "i am not ready for marriage" ,i love him so much ,and i know that he ...

A girl with whom he had casual sex before we met recently gave birth to his baby, how can I dismiss my sadness to be able to accompany him in his joyous time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Ok...to start off, I don't think many people have gone through this but I really need help. here's the situation: Well, my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. We are really in love (I know it may seem soon but it's real). Well, we ...

We used to be best friends until this boy (her ex) chose me over her. Now she won't stop flirting with him, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I am going out with this boy (lets call him danny) and his ex, (she can be maddy) won't leave him alone. Me and her use to be best friends until danny dumped maddy for me - now she won't stop flirting with him. What do I do?...

I'd like to ask her out but the age difference makes me hesitate. How should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I'm 35 yrs old and I am intersted in an 18 yr old. We've talked a few times and I enjoy talking with her. I'd like to ask her out but the age differnce is making me think about it. How should I handle this?...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend and should I tell him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - HELLLPPP!! so im in a relationship with this boy ive been seeig for 7 mnths now and a new boy who is older than i im 16 nerly 17 this new man should i say is 23 asks me if i like him and i cudnt lie i sed yes i do he sed good i like you wht do ...

He's not writing back, what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - so I had sex for the second time! and and this time it was with someone I REALLY care about! well once agian it ended badly! this kid is mormon, hes the shy type but not with me! hes very cute! hes kinda a dork! which is what I LOVE most about ...

Masterbating behind girlfriends back, bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I masturbate, maybe two or three times a week, I try not to do it so much, because, honestly, it makes me feel really bad about myself, being, that I have a girlfriend. I feel like I'm the worst guy in the world, and it makes me really depressed. I...

I love my x...I want him to be the one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Ok i am single and i am looking for the right guy. I think i found him but i am not sure yet. I am totally and completly in love with him but i dont think he loves me.. the sad thing is he is my x. I cannot give anyone else my heart cause it is ...

Why doesn't he want to call me as before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - i've been dating for 5 months he always called me when he got up, and 3 to 4 times a day just to say he loved me he recenty moved to arizona (new job) and paid for me to join him i stayed a month it was for 2 weeks bur he wanted me to stay more ...

We live apart, but have been meeting up for 18 months now, I want to get more of a commitment but not risk losing him, how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I'm 22 and have been occasionally sleeping with a man (my age) who I met in a club 18 months ago. We're both single and behave affectionately towards eachother when we're together but he rarely makes an effort to see me and I'm unsure how he feels. ...

Should I be more touchy feely with my new boyfriend, does it matter to guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - This is a question for guys...... i just started going out with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago.We had been friends for about 3 years before we started dating an our relationship is really friendly and not very romantic. We have kissed and what-not...

Buying a house with my girlfriend, how can I make sure she can't touch the downpayment which my parents donated?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are looking at purchasing our first home together. My parents have graciously offered to give us a down payment. They want the house to be in my name which I understand. What should I do if anything so she can't come and get ...

Why the change of heart once I actually buy the ring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 13 years and we just bought a house 8 months ago. She has been asking me about getting married for the past year and getting excited till she found out I bought a ring then I woke up one morning and she threw me ...

Too wet!!! Please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - When I have sex with my boyfriend I get really wet. I'm serious.... really wet but I usually don't even cum!! I just get very wet. My boyfriend says not to worry but I think it bugs him. How can I not get so wet during sex??? ...