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writes:Hi. I'm sixteen almost seventeen and have a wonderful boyfriend. Problem is I can't trust him. We've been together about 5 times before within the last 3 years, and everytime we broke up it was him who stopped the relationship. Our longest time together was almost six months. Now we're together again, but I'm afraid he'll just do the same thing and dump me. I love him with every part of me, but I can't stop thinking he's lying to me about his past relationships, too. It probably shouldn't matter about the 'other girls', but it bothers me that he's secretive about it. I want to trust him, but I'm not sure how, or if I should. Help!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): Trust issues always seem to be solved by talking to each other, and this is what I recommend you should do. I'm not saying that people on here aren't helpful, because they are, they're amazing, but the only person that's going to reassure your worries is your boyfriend. So tell him what you've told us - it might be hard, but it could be the key thing to keeping you guys together. So go out there and talk to him honey. Good luck :]
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 It seems this little boy that you call a wonderful boyfriend is not ready and mature for a relationship. You are too young to be tied with someone and should be thinking about your studies.
There are plenty of more fish in the sea, when the time is right. Just dump this loser once and for all, as he has no shred of respect for you whatsoever. In time you will find a nice young man who will love you no matter what and will be mature enough to stick with you through thick and thin.
Good luck hun. Dusky xxx.
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