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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I inadequate - if someone's desires and wants I can not fullfil, am I just crazy to stay with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship for the past 2 years. Over the past couple months, several "significant" dates have passed by, and we have fought all the way to this point. My girlfriend has never felt I love her. I am not very emotional, and not one ...

How can I compete with the 'train wrecks'??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - Before I met my b/f he had a tendency to get involved with what I call "train wrecks", meaning women who were kinda bad, kinda bad for him, unstable, unpredictable, kinda wild, kinda raunchy, didn't have much of an education, sometimes didn't work, ...

How do I get myself back to normal after all the heartaches I've endured?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - ok here it goes... i fell out with my boyfriend of 4 and a half yrs about 2 and a half years ago and ever since i fell out with him ive realised what it is like to be lonely. one minute i am single enjoying the single life then next minute i a...

Should I go further with a co-worker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - Hi. I really like a guy I work with. We get on really well and I would love to take things further but don't know what to do. If he doesn't want to, i don't want working together to become difficult. We've been out for a drink a couple of times ...

My girl had a lot of contact with her ex when we first started, I don't know if it has continued

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - Do you think it is possible for a person to love 2 people at the same time? My girlfriend of a few months seems to have had alot of contact with her ex when we were first seeing each other. She is the one who pursued me, not the other way around. ...

My girl slept with someone else while we were on a 'break' and I cant get over it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - Heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4yrs and I had a break that lasted a month during the summer, during which we saw other people. When we got back together, I asked her if she had slept with anyone, to which she replied no.Recently she told me that ...

I don't want to make things awkward by asking her out if she isnt interested, but don't want to get stuck in the 'friend zone' if she is!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - Hello all, I am 20 and in college and i've got a crush on my lab partner from my BIO class and I dont know what to do. I am terrible at reading women (as i'm sure most guys are) and I cant tell if she likes me or not. We both like see...

I am confused and disappointed at this guys lack of attention

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - Hi, and thanks for deciding to read this. Today is valentines day and I'm not the lovey dovey type normally but I think it's contagious coz I really wanted to ask this boy in my class out... and I haven't asked a boy out for years and I don't know...

I am dating several guys at once. I am being honest with them all and not having sexual relations with any. My friend says I am a slut. I'm not, am I?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - Hi I came out of a long term relationship around October last year and have recently been going for drinks with a lot of different guys. There's 3 of them. I don't want a relationship right now because I feel I was tied down for a year and I just ...

I am going to a disco and need some tips on how to get to know some girls there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - Hey everybody happy valentines day first of all. I am going to this 'valentines' disco on the 15th Feb(?????) with a few of my mates from school and i was wondering any tips on how i can get to know some girls there? Thanks very much...

Should I go out with my ugly friend or hold out for someone better looking?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - my good friend bought me a valentines card and asked me out. i think hes ugly and am a bit embarresed by him but hes also sweet, funny and likes me for who i am on the inside. should i go out with him or wait for my ideal boy who would have my level ...

I just cant be single and happy! What am I going to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - I'm single, and I must start to just accept that and be happy. But how can I do this? So, it's Valentines day; A day to celebrate being in love with somebody and they love you in return. It's also an excellent day to cause lots of frustration to t...

My friend likes the same guy I do and is making me feel so guilty about it! I havent even dated him yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - I have liked a guy for quite a long time now, and I was thinking about making a move, and then my friend told me she likes the same guy! I explained to her that I did to, and she said thats fine, she will try to stop liking him (which was her ...

I just dumped him for the 5th time in 4 years! Do guys act this crappy on purpose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - I met an old flame a month ago in a club and he texted me to see if we could meet up again. I played hard to get because he has messed me about in the past. Anyway I gave in and let him come round. We just chatted, he said he had changed and we were ...

I feel like I give so much to this relationship and don't get as much in return! How do I change the balance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - My b/f takes me for granted! How do I stop being such a doormat? Again, this Valentine's Day he did nothing for me. He didn't plan anything special, cook me breakfast...it was just another day. Yet I found the time to get him his favorite ...

I like this boy, but am having trouble getting a relationship started

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - i am 13 and i fancie this boy loads and i know he fancies me. i told him I liked him, but since then we havent talked and when i tried asking him out his grandad died. on valentines day, when i knocked on his door he was gone. i really like him what ...

A man came to fix my fridge, we texted intermittently and now I am confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - 5 weeks ago a man came to my house to fix my fridge, we got on so well, we both felt we had known one another all our lives. He is going through a divorce at the moment, I have been divorces for years. He came back the following week and the same ...

How long should I wait before calling her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - Before I say what happened I would like to say I am a genuine person and not a player! rite.. I was out last nite and I gathered the courage to ask for this girls number. I know her friend and had a bit of a dance with her. I asked if she had...

Am I a stalker or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - I met this guy in December, had a great time (you know what I mean), and then he texts me, I meet up with him a one night. Then, we meet in a town half way, theres roses there (which I didnt notice at first), and the whole time is great. Now, I've ...

My life has turned upside down because of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - Well, there is this guy and he is my friend. and I'm crazy about him. but he just considers me as his sister! But I love him more than anything! and he knows this. I don't know what to do! I'm so confused!! I don't know how to make him fall for me. ...

I'm afraid I can't control my feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - This guy I used to like just got back with his ex-girlfriend sometime in december and we were not talking for awhile and now we started again. In the begining we talked on the phone and aim all the time. And now, the same thing is happening again. ...

I just feel like after 4 years he should just know I am "the one," after asking me to move in with him. Your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a rocky past, we have been together for over 4 years, The last time we got back together be told me that I was everything in his life, and that now he knows what love is, and that he wanted me to be his family. Things ...

Afraid I won't be good at kissing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - I kind of like this girl and well her friend knows it and keep trying to hook us up, and well it working. But she is playing hard to get, which i sort of enjoy. But her friend is trying to get her to just kiss me, and it was pretty close to ...