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writes: Anyone can tell me their opinion about a 15 yr old age difference relationship i.e 17, 32 (older male) views from the male side are appreciated (even female), and what if the meeting was from internet that started as a joke and then became a serious relationship. feel free to leave any comments aBout the situation, maybe even say a similar experience. tks guys Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Dear , I am not preety sure that what the others says, but as i say becuse i am in love with a gal which is 10 years younger than me, but the important think for me is LOVE, if you guys love each others than no matter what others says go ahead and best of luck.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (23 August 2007):
Depends on where you two are mentally. Could also be illegal depending on where you live until you become 18.
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reader, supersquirrel  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 i'm 17 myself and have just started talking to a 33yr old over the internet.. we started talking on the 21st, and have spoken for a number of hours on the internet and a little on the phone too.. i'm almost ashamed to say that i'm actually getting rather attached! i feel like i just know him because we just clicked and i've had a little insight into the past few years of his life via his myspace blogs also.
but despite all this, i would be EXTREMELY cautious of starting a relationship with him even if i'd spoke to him for months over the phone and internet.
you don't say how long you've been talking? have you met him before?
i think 17 is too young to tie yourself down, least of all to someone so much older, we should be going out with friends, having bfs our own age and just having fun..not dating guys that old (i expect he'll be thinking about settling down soon? that would definitely be insane at this age!!)
hope i've helped x
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (23 August 2007):
 The first question I have to ask you is this... What do you think a 32 year old MAN wants with a 17 year old girl?...Next question I have to ask is...What do you think a 17 year old teenage can give to a 32 year old MAN?
Look age CAN be nothing but a number, but its not so much the age gap but rather the stage of life you two are in. Think about it...here is an example: nothing is wrong with a man who is 50 and dates a women who is 35. Why? because their both at almost the same level...they have an established career, has had many SERIOUS life experiences, dealt with major responsiblities, etc...there is much more of a possibility of a mature relationship to develop here because there is more that they could relate to with each other.
What could a 32 year old relate to with a 17 year old?
Mature or not your still considered a teenager who has not had nearly that much life experience under her belt compared to a 32 year old man!
My opinion is that the main focus for him is sexual gratification. If that is the case is that okie with you? Just sex? I would hope that at your age you have alittle more self worth then just being the young "piece of ass" for a 32 year old man.
I have dated a man who was 17 years older then me. He was a sweet guy, a handsome guy, who had things going for him. However, his intentions were made evident that sex was his main goal! As nice and funny as he was... i didnt just want to be a goal!
Think about it hard...for you to post a question on here about this...something in you feels that this situation between you two isnt right! Go with what your feeling!
~dee
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