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Do guys prefer innocent or not so innocent girls?

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Question - (22 August 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2007)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

I'm wondering do guys prefer innocent looking girls or girls who dont look so innocent?

It seems to me that guys only like girls who dont look innocent. I myself look really innocent and this annoys me because guys seem to not go for me, they go for a lot of my friends who are rather not so innocent looking and skanky.

I know its not because i'm ugly or anything like that or have a bad personality, because every one tells me i'm pretty and that im super nice and stuff.

Why do guys not go for innocent looking girls?

Any advice?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007):

Different guys are as different as various girls. There's all types with all types of preferences.

Don't be fooled by what "seems" to be the case. That has a lot to do with which type of person is loudest/most attention-getting in public, but it's not the whole story.

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A male reader, Cloud_Strife United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

I hate this lol. I'm a guy 17, and I prefer the innocent girls. I just don't get along with skanky girls. Just I've been heartbroken by two innocent girls because they don't want a relationship, but clearly led me on anyways. That won't stop me from changing my taste though, because well... skanky girls aren't my taste. Here you have decent girls such as your self worrying about guys not "noticing you" and I'm a guy who goes for the innocent ones, and has never had a girlfriend :P Go figure. Funny way the world works don't ya think? Anyway, just live your life, the right person will come along.

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A male reader, AndreC. Canada +, writes (23 August 2007):

AndreC. agony auntWAT! I LOVE INNOCENT GIRLS I FIND THEM MORE ATTRACTIVE AND WAY BETTER TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH DNT WORRY PPL WILL NOTICE U MORE WHEN THERE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE SERIOUS WITH A GREAT PERSONALITY msg me back if u wanna talk

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

Hey honey. I have the same problem. People tell me I'm pretty and sweet looking. But no guy likes me! It's so annoying. It depends how old you are. At high school, guys do like the 'bad girl' more, but it changes when you get older, when you get to like 19ish they're more mature and then they like the innocent looking girls. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

Be yourself & the right person for you will come along. No sense in faking who you are to impress a guy who isn't right for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

I think most guys see it like this:

innocent looking girl: take home to mom, marrying type

not so innocent girl: have fun with for one night

This sucks... but you just have to wait for the guy who likes you for you! I dont dress trashy and in high school everyone thought I was miss goody two shoes, but when I like someone I wasnt so innocent once they got to know me!

Just be yourself... keep smiling... you never know when someone is falling in love with your smile!

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A male reader, Dominoid United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

Well thats down to the guys you're looking at. Personally i love an innocent girl but i know that the same cannot be said for alot of my friends. Just be true to yourself and you'll find someone who loves you for you and not for what you try to be.

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A male reader, Dr Pete United Kingdom + , writes (22 August 2007):

Dr Pete agony auntIt's in your head. There are millions of people in the world and those millions go for millions of different kinds of people. There's definitely no logical reason why more guys would not want to go with innocent looking girls.

You have most likely fancied one or two guys that have not been interested in you back, you've seen the girls who they are interested in and wrongly decided it's because you look differently than how they look.

Don't let one or two rejections make you think there is anything wrong with you because from the sounds of it, there isn't.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

love-him agony auntmaybe ur tryin 2 hard? be ur old self.. dont try at all.. if they dont like you then thats tough for them.. u will find someone.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

Im not innocent and yes lads go for lasses who are up for anything because at the end of the night they know their going to get something..

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