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Is his ex trying to come between us?

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Question - (30 April 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I trust my boyfriend with my life. I just don't understand why when his ex that cheated on him with one of his best friends calls or texts him he answers or texts her back... should I hold this over him or be worried??? She has also been to the bowling alley were he's on a league and to the race track where he races...is she trying to come between us????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007):

I am in almost the same situation, but not really. My ex is calling me all the time even though he cheated on me. We talk all the time, about everything. I don't see anything wrong with it. He is my bestfriend and I am his, he has never been able to conect to another person as a friend - except me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007):

i love that answer

"if you are that botherd about his text messages tht he gets from her ask him if you can read them if hes not hidin n e thing im sure hed let you read them and if he doesnt i would have some doubts"

my bf ex i believe is still after my bf even if she already has a guy. peeps tell me that my bf wants to be friendly and not be like mean and just stop contact(i really wish he did!). then again if he starts to let you do the texting reading as well, THEY may switch to e-mail or phone conversations..i have my own drama.

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A female reader, elsie United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2007):

elsie agony auntyes shes definetly up to no good.she sounds pretty low anyway that she cheated on your man with one of his mates??doesnt sound like the ideal situation.id ask him to change his no.and just calmly ask what they have to be in contact anymore about.she treated him badly so ask him why he needs to carry on being in contact with her for?i think you need to get to the bottom of this before you get any more hurt than you already are.also you say you trust him with your life???i think you need to have a serious think about trusting any man THAT much!

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (1 May 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntThat does not sound too good when the ex-gf calls and he calls or texts her right back. I would be worried if I were you!! She apparently is trying to get him back...I wouldn't doubt it one bit!!!

Are you there with him when he's either at the bowling alley or the race track? If not...you should under disguise, of course so you can see if he is cheating on you. (Or get a friend of yours to go for you)

Just prepare yourself to that you might not like the results...but you need to know what the hell is going on!!!

Good Luck!!!

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2007):

Helen Help! :) agony auntI dont really like sayin this but i think that she is i recently liked a lad who had a gf and god i would of gone n e where to see him. if you are that botherd about his text messages tht he gets from her ask him if you can read them if hes not hidin n e thing im sure hed let you read them and if he doesnt i would have some doubts also if she txts him alot ide b quite worried but if she doesnt it might jus b friendship that they have jus ask him see what he says. good luck :)

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