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Archived questions from: 15 April, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I missed her birthday, so thought I would give her the chocs as a special way to say I love you and an apology, even though we are not dating yet, what do you think ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 596 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - Background info for this post:(http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-gf-is-still-very-rude-to.html). Dear All I wonder if you could help me please. Basically everything was going great for two years with this awsome girl, we were in love! I ...

I didnt like her still being in contact with the ex so I broke up, now I have the chance to date her again, but the ex is still there! What can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - Last year I went out with this woman for 8 months. 2 things caused us to split up. The fact that she keeps in touch with an ex-boyfriend and secondly she moved away because of a job. 9 months on, and she started texting me again, saying she is ...

Been dating 2 months and hes still checking his online ad, do I have a right to tell him to stop ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - I met this wonderful man (we will call him - Man) 10 months ago. We hit it off right away, about 4 weeks in to the relationship a woman approched me and told me to leave him because he had a singles ad on the internet and was checking it everyday. I ...

I want to date him again as I feel hes changed, but I dont want my friends and family to be cross, any advice what to do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - My problem is really confusing, I was goin with my BF for 18months bt we broke up jus over a year ago, the last three months we've been seeing each other a couple times a week and have been gettin on really well. I think were kind of planning on ...

He checks with his freinds before doing anything with me! Why does he put his freinds before me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been togther 3 weeks, but known each other for 14 months. he seems to put his friends before me. He will check if hes doing anything with them before he agrees to see me. Am I wrong to feel upset about this? Also last week I ...

She says she loves me, she doesn't want to date anyone else but she wants a 'break'! An advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - hi all can anyone help me clear my head on what has happened to me in the last week, my girlfriend has txt me saying that we need a break, she is all confussed and her reasons for having the break are these, she wants to have her young life as sh...

I'm 17--she's older, she lives overseas, we come from different cultures. Should I ease out of this as I feel my family won't approve!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - Ive been talking to this Lady online for quite a while now, I feel I know her pretty well. The problem I have is that I dont feel my family would understand if we started dating due to three factors: Im 16(nearly 17 and Im quite mature) and she's ...

What do men like in a woman? A strong woman or a girly type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - being a young lady growing up in todays society I feel a little confused as to what a womans role is anymore ? or what do men find attractive in a woman ? I am very aware of womens lib and i do support it, but a little part of me can't help bu...

We both feel like everybody in our families don't want us to be together and we are wondering why? How should we handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months now an we are really serious about each other and i mean really serious. i am 14, 15 in november, and he is 16 just. i live in wakefield and he lives in sheffield and we see each other every ...

I'm thinking I should distance myself from him and let him meet more with his friends. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - i posted a question previously but i dnt think i made my point clear enough. facts: - my boyfriend doesnt see a problem at all. - He only has one real friend and a brother, in a band and works. - were both very serious, especially him. - we...

He shouts at me-calls me a parasite-criticizes me, a lot! Should I just leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Should I leave my boyfriend of 3 years because I can't see him changing his ways? He shouts me down, does not take me seriously, points out the fact that he has to pay the lions share of the rent and calls me a parasite (Im a student), he tel...

Lately his explicit past has been really bothering me and I can't see us ever getting married. How do I get his past out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Hi, i have no idea who else i can ask, but i feel sometimes its best to get advise from strangers, hope you understand. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i really love him. he is my first real and serious relationship. im 19 and ...

On and off relationship has made me feel dissatisfied! Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Hiya, I'm 18 and I've been with a guy on and off since June last year. Until yesterday I had not seen him for six months and I'm no longer sure about my feelings for him. I've called a halt because of this, but I need to decide soon and my feelings ...

I'm still worried about the blood clots...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - This goes with the blood clots did he tear me question. I wrote that. It's still bleeding after two days after fingering how long can I expect it to bleed for and if it doesnt stop could it be my period because i should be getting it in a week or ...

I messed up and she said if I can't gain her trust back in a week, we're through! Help needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - well my girlfriend can't trust me anymore cause i did something.well she said if i can't gain her trust back in a week were through. just i don't no how to gan her trust baack Can you give me some advice on how to gain her trust back? bi...

Am I pushing my other friends away because of my bf? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Hey, I have a bit of a problem going on at the minute. I find that I see my boyfriend alot, like on a regular basis and this makes me really happy but my sister makes digs at me that I never see my friends anymore which is untrue becasue i do seee ...

Moved to Germany to be with her. After finding pics of her and a guy on her computer, I am thinking about leaving!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - i have been going out for a long time with my GF, and after some time now i moved out to her home country, (Germany), and been feeling isolated and lonely as i have nothing to do while she is at work, so anyway i started to look at her pics, and ...

My bf split with me because I looked at his phone messages from other girls! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend on thursday because i looked on his phone and he had messages from another girl on there and now he has finished with me because of it. he has lots of girls as mates and im meet most of them i wish i never looked now ...

He seems shy but interested but I'm not sure. How doI find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - How do you know a man is interested in you? He seems shy but interested but I'm not sure. In conversation, he remembers every word I've said. He holds my gaze. Has personal conversations. He smiles at me more than other people. We are in a ...

My ex bf told my new guy, I was only in this relationship for the sex and that he should back off! What's my ex bf's game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - My ex bf and I broke up in October, but we have a habit of having sex everytime we meet up, and we're still really good friends. Now he's finally going out with a girl he's been pursuing for months so we're not having sex, but he introduced me t his ...

I'm angry at him for pressuring me to take my pants off, after I said NO! Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - I'm so confused. I am 18 years old and about 2 months ago started a relationship with a guy. We met through university. Anyway, he is my first real bf, my first kiss etc. Hes had 2 girlfriends before me and I assume hes had sex with them, but I ...

What are your thoughts about a 16 year old girl dating a 19 year old boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - hey.. i'm just wondering what your thoughts are about a 16 year old girl dating a 19 year old boy? He's turning 20 in december..? Personally i thought it was fine because he's gentle, fun-loving, kind and doesn't expect too much. I have fun wit...

My bf found old sex pics of my ex on my hard drive! Now he doesn't trust me..any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend (of 9 months)recently found old sex videos and pictures on my hard drive my ex-boyfriend and I took back in 2004. I meant to delete them, but never did. Now he says he can't trust me and I think he wants to break up with me. Am I ...

My gf is very submissive and doesn't express her own opinions! How can I get her to share her feelings more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - Ok, my girlfriend is really submissive and never voices her opinion. She always says "I don't care" when I ask her opinion on anything. Because of this, we never have fun together. So how can I make her share her feelings since her dad constantly ...

He hates that I help my troubled family! Is he wrong or should I stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - I need some advice, I've been in a relationship for the last 11 years I've dedicated myself to my boyfriend always there for him putting up with so much abuse and financial distress. Within the last year he has really changed for the better, but now ...

Since I have a new bf, Dad has changed his mind and does not want me dating until I leave school! What is Dad's problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - ok im actualy 14 but i ticked the box wrong by mistake. The problem: my dad has let me go out with boys in the past but yesterday when i told him about my new boyfriend he said he doesn't look your age, and even when i told him he still wouldn't ...

My guy friends tell me that I'm a huge flirt and that I confuse them. Should I change my behaviours?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Telling a friend you don't like him the way he likes you is tough. Most of my guy friends have confessed to me that they like me, but I haven't felt the same way about any of them. Some of them have been cool afterwards, but they seem awkward ...

I let him know some do's and don'ts about dating and he's upset with me! Was I out of line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - I met a guy at school and we've been hanging out when he confessed to me he like me and after 3 months of hanging out with him he told me he could see himself falling in love with me. We're just friends and I don't feel the same way about him. ...

Am I being too harsh to tell my gf to stop doing this thing that makes me very unhappy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is doing something that is making her happy and while im not happy and she wont quit because she loves doing it but it takes a lot of time out of being together but then she says she loves me more than anything... am i being to harsh ...

How do I get her away from her computer to pay attention to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - Every time I visit my girlfriend, she seems far more interested in her computer and different sites such as facebook and myspace than she is of me. Believe me when I say I am not a needy person, and it doesnt bother me if she hops online to check ...

He wants to know about previous bf's but I am not saying anything! Am i wrong in trying to keep these things from him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for seven months and we really love each other. am 19 and he's 23 but we wanna get married in the near future. my dilemma is that he asks me a lot of questions about my past and wants to know about every man i ...

I like being with him all the time and I feel lost without him. Should I give him more space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - iv been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half. wre both 18. were both rather serious about each other but latly iv began to relise im trying to control him. such as him going to be with friends or wanting to do something else rather than ...

Our first time together he couldn't stay erect! Now I haven't heard from him! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Dated a man for couple of months, finally had sex with him, while having sex he could not stay erect, believe me I tried everything, I had to finish him off orally, and that was 5 days ago have not heard from him since?? ...