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writes:Long story short, me and this girl went from talking to each other every day to completely stopped talking the next day. One day its all fine then, she starts ignoring my messages... Please dont judge me. Also I havent sent this email. I have written this message, I wrote it like a week ago, its been sitting on my desktop for a while and I dont know if I should send this.... :/ "Please read this… what happened to us, Karena? I mean, I thought u and I were doing really well. We used to talk a lot and we loved talking to each other… Every day, I used to wake up with a smile when I saw a message from you. You used to message me every time u were online… it was kinda sweet and also I used to wake up at 5 am in the morning, just for you. I used to have fun talking to you. Also I know someone told u something about me, and whatever they said was a lie… I never hide things from anyone. I don’t need to know who they are and what they said, I also don’t need things to go back to the way it was, I just wanted to tell you, just say hi once in a while… I know you probably won’t message me back or that you probably have ignored this message. I am not expecting a reply, but if you did read this I just want you to know that it’s fun talking to you and I loved talking to you. You used to be a good friend… goodbye." Btw, Karena is a fake name... I wouldn't post her real name on the internet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): Oh why didn't you send it? It's so romantic
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (19 February 2012):
 Did you date her? I hope we wern't a bit rough with you. Just trying to give an outside view of things.
Do you see her in your day to day life? Maybe it isn't too late to get things started if you keep your cool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh thank god I didnt send that mail before :P thank you. I loved her and she knew it, and I thought it was okay to send it... but guess it isn't.
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reader, eternallyinfinite  +, writes (19 February 2012):
I wouldn't send what you wrote. If someone sent that to me, I'd be a bit creeped out. It's really intense and a bit melodramatic to send to someone who you just talk to (as opposed to someone who you're in a serious relationship with).
I'd just ask her why she wasn't talking to you anymore and if she doesn't respond, I'd just leave it at that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI had a thing for her... she knows that. Okay I wont send this afteralll then... thank you
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (19 February 2012):
If she was someone you just used to talk to, the e-mail comes off a litte desperate and heavy (sorry).
Basically you want to know two things.
Is she ever going to talk to you again and why has she stopped talking to you.
Email her short and sweet ' Just wondered why you stopped talking to me and also wondering if we can still be friends cos I liked your company'
Short, sweet, to the point and not remotely desperate sounding.
If she replies then that is your way back into friendship. If she doesn't answer then accept that she doesn't want to know and you arn't going to be able to take things further.
Spilling your guts isn't going to work...keep it simple.
Good luck.
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