A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am almost 22 and I have a boyfriend and I know he loves me, he is so kind and sweet and caring and we have been going out for over a year or so. But about April last year, I met this man one day, and he was fascinating and charming and I have never been able to keep him out of my head. We almost got together, but I reminded him and myself that I had a boyfriend and didn't want to do anything. He respected my wishes and since then we haven't met up or spoken. But I can't get him out of my head- I am infatuated with him. We aren't friends on facebook or have each others number and I really want to meet up with him, but I am afraid that this is a silly crush and maybe he doesn't feel like me because it has been so long (maybe I would have been a spur of the moment thing) and that I'd jeopardize my actual relationship.I'm so confused! Any advice- general/ specific would be appreciated! Thanks!
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (20 February 2012):
 Don't start one thing before you have ended the one you are in.
And honey, some times the grass isn't greener.
I think you need to take a good hard look at your relationship and figure out why someone else can turn you hear to the point this guy did. Something (IMHO) is lacking in your relationship.
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