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writes:Okay well for a start im the Darth Vader, Joker or Lex Luther of this whole thing! I was with a girl for 2 and a half years , She was very pretty typical blond petite girl, i was clearly under the thumb! Doing everything for her! we had our break ups! over another guy! she picked me 3 weeks after fooling around! Anyway we had a small break up and i was speaking to this girl who wasnt necessarily my type! she was ginger haired and wore glasses! she made me see that beauty isnt everything! however i still loved my ex! and she loved me! but somehow i was in a new relationship with this girl with glasses and ive now fallen for her! i know ive done wrong! and not sure how to fix it! my ex knows about the other girl and i cant help myself! im selfish and need to know what to do please give me advise!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (20 February 2012):
 Not sure what your asking. Which girl do you like best? Which girl are you dating?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 You have not done anything wrong. The love that you are talking about is a decision, in case something would work out with your ex in the future, therefore you keep each other in a string. In that sense it is not a true sense of love. If she really loved you she wouldn't have fooled around. She only picked you because it didn't work out with the other guy.
I am not sure if you are selfish. If you cut your ex loose and decide to devote to the girl with the glasses then you would not be selfish. But if you decide to go back to your ex then you would be hurting the new girl, just like your ex hurt you. Can't you see the lesson here. Indecisiveness hurts. Fooling around is not something you tolerate in a relationship.
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