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writes:Very quick question: How many dates would you like a man to take you on before he tried to kiss you/asked you out etc? I know it probably depends on different attitudes and opinions of different women but still, just want to know what you think. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011): By asking out that is just dating, I would say at least five dates, pretty close together before making it an official exclusive relationship, as in just the two of you in a serious committed relationship.
However everybody is different. For example I prefer to be friends with them for a few months before moving into dating and then relationship.
Whatever works for you. If you feel you are not ready, don't rush it, but you will just know yourself and go with the flow.
Good luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): I am vary wary of a man that wants to push the physical contact too soon. So I say five to six dates to get a better read of pesonalities meshing.
If a man is still interested in getting to know me, he doesn't mind the pace and understands its less pressure.
Hand holding is fine by this time and a kiss on the cheek.
I save kissing in such an intimate way for steady dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): Asking somebody out means asking them for a date. I don't think I would kiss on the first date. Maybe second or third.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 well if he takes me on a date he's already asked me out.
are you talking about asking me to "go steady"
I would think a light kiss after a date to say thank you and good night would be appropriate.
and after 3 dates if he's not tried to kiss me I'd think he's not attracted.
as for being exclusive... no earlier than 6 weeks of steady dating would make sense...
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