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*onkey man
writes:My best friends a girl and i fancied her for month, then another girl asked me out and I am going out with her now but my girl best mate told me she fancied me for months and still does, what do i do? Me and my girlfriend has had a lot of argument but i still love her but i love my girl best mate as well.
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reader, anon!hehe +, writes (23 December 2011):
you sound like such a sweet guy She's not worth it, and now you're single you can figure out what it is you want. Forget about your girl mate and just have her as a friend, and move on. Plenty more fish in the sea!
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reader, punksavage  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 in that case it sounds like you to shouldnt be together (you and your best mate that is) she clearly has alot to learn. and if shes still in love your just setting yourself up for more hurt. i say just stay friends
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reader, Monkey man +, writes (23 December 2011):
Monkey man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn the past she always dates the wrong ppl who messbher about i just want her to see sense and her to be my girlfriend but the thing is its like we are made for each other cos we are so similiar
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reader, Monkey man +, writes (22 December 2011):
Monkey man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnouther thing is loads of my favourite memorys is with my girl best mate am so confuised
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reader, Monkey man +, writes (22 December 2011):
Monkey man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso my girlbest mate really led me on to am her perfect boyfriend type figure cos we have the same personality but she really hurt me :'(
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reader, Monkey man +, writes (22 December 2011):
Monkey man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe kissed and got things down to me end up fingering her but the next day she meet up with her ex and told me she loves him but still wants to be best mates an heart broken and feel like crap and dont no who to talk to ? :'(
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2011): As a female i would say you need to consider which one you are going to have the most fun with and feel the most comfortable around. If it is your girl mate you need to break things off with your girlfriend now, its not fair to lead her on and the longer you leave it the worse it will be. It sounds like you have more feelings for your girl mate to be honest. Go for it, your obviously not 100 percent happy with your girlfriend if your arguing and your considering another girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2011): Being in love with your best friend in the world is a perfect dream for so many people. Previous advice is absolutely right, in that you are potentially gambling losing the most special person in your life - but wow, if it works out, it's simply the best there is. You have the advantage - you KNOW your best girl friend definitely likes you. Sometimes they keep it to themselves because of the risk.
Dump the girlfriend, why be with someone you keep arguing with. Leave things a few weeks, and then chat to your best girl friend and tell her you want to take her out on a date.
Envious. Good luck.
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reader, punksavage +, writes (22 December 2011):
the answer is really up to you. i was in a situation much like yourself. i was in a relationship for 3 years we argued constantly. like you one of my best friends was a female who liked me and the feelings were mutual. i eventually decided to break up with my girlfriend because we faught tooo much and was no use holding on. then i went out with my best friend and weve been happy ever since. this is my case. its very risky because if things dont work out with you and your best friend it will be a total disaster and will be very hard to recover from. your really need to decide what feels right for YOU. you may love your girlfriend but are you happy with her? a person should feel happy with their spouse not trying to keep something that is falling apart.
like i said its your call do what makes you feel happy
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