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writes:hi, I'm really stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in no more, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has started taking drugs cocaine, I've told him if he carrys on I'll end it but I don't think he cares. He has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for taking him back but I just can't let go. I have started talking to my ex and we have been getting quite close, I still have feelings for him and would rather be with him as we have a child together any advice would be great thanks xxxx
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reader, neveragain770  +, writes (21 April 2008):
Sometimes you have to let to show a person that you love them. Because if you have told him to do something that's going to help you both and he still doesn't listen maybe he is to comfortable with yall and think he got you and you gone anything he tell you so turn the situation around act different. act like you don't care or like he acts flip the scrip an see how it goies and if things still the say GET OUT OF IT. and no you not stupid your just in love but don't let love make you blind to the fact of real life.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 HiOther then the fact that this guy is a danger for you, he is also a danger for you child. I suggest that you leave this relationship now, while you are alive before it is too late.I understand what you are saying that you find it hard to let go but you have to, unless your bf is willing to do to rehab for his drug taking and get some counselling for his violent behaviour but either way he needs help. You can go with him for support but make sure that he wants to change his ways and is sincere.Regards, mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 September 2007):
 If your boyfriend is hooked on drugs. It's time to let him go. People who have abusive personalities don't change often. How can he care for you and have a good relationship with you, if he doesn't care about himself and his activities and doesn't take responsibility for his own behavior.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Alright. i know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend hasn't hit me. But hes called me names and such. I know how it feels to be trapped into a corner. I think you should chuck him. really, do you think he would be a good father figure if he is doing drugs not even all the time but occasionally? Yes you two havea child together but...just imagine who else is out there, who could provide for both you and your child. Just think of a man who doesn't do drugs, has a sense of humour and DOESN'T HIT YOU FOR GOODNESS SAKES! I know it is hard to let go. I cant let go of my boyfriend, but seriously, he has abused you in what sounds like more ways than one.
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