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writes:I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) he's telling me how much of a good time he's having. He also mentioned that he was getting along with the girls more than the guys, this worried me. I dont no wot to do, i dont no if i can go on like this for 4 years (i havnt seen him yet n probably wont see him for another month).I'm starting to dream about other guys aswell, am i just looking for comfort or is there more to it than that? Im feeling really left behind wot do u think i should do? do u think he'll end up cheating?
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reader, spanna +, writes (26 September 2007):
it is impossible for me to tell if he will cheat on you. in my experience long distance reltionships do not work well. if you distrust him now it will only get worse. you need to seriously think about where your relationship is heading. unfortunately uni is all about sex and drinking from wot my mates have said.
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reader, superbunny + ♥, writes (26 September 2007):
You're just used to feeling really close to him, honey! Now he's been torn away you're bound to be feeling all insecure and jealous of girls he's with. Well, I'd look at it this way: if he's out with the lads - they'll be out on the pull, if he's out with the girls - they'll be out for some fun! :] x
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