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writes:Ok, so I met a girl the other week from a dating site, after 2 days, we arranged a date, and really hit it off, same interests, similar spence of humour etc... We went out again 2 days after then the night after that. She also came over to mine 3 nights this week. I really like the girl, I even asked if she'd like to come to my cousins wedding in a few weeks and she said she would. But then yesterday I sent a message asking how her day was going and she's only very briefly replied like hours after, her reply was pretty closed, it's like it was hot and now it's cold. I noticed that she's been online on Facebook but no contact with me. I'm feeling like I don't really know where I stand now, I don't want to come across as heavy but I don't know what to what to say.. Any suggestions?Thanks guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2016): I agree that our gut feeling can sometimes point us in the right direction. BUT there could be reasons other than what meets the eye. So, you could see it as her rejecting you but maybe she has had something happen in her life. Or maybe something is happening with her. It could have something to do with you, or nothing to do with you at all. Who knows? Instead of relying on a gut feeling and just dismissing it all and moving on, wouldn't you rather know for sure? What is wrong with asking her outright? Ask her if she is still interested in going out with you or if something has changed? Because you get the feeling that she does not seem as interested lately. That way if you have to move on, you can do so with certainty and a clear conscience.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (24 June 2016):
You already feel where you stand. That thing we call "the gut feeling".
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