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writes:I just had my first, very first, kiss with my, again, first boy-I-like-and-he-likes-me. And I got to say, it was...awkward. Don't get me wrong, I really like this guy! But we are both going off to different colleges (same state though) this fall and have yet to talk about the future and our future. My question is, although I had an awkward first kiss, I do like the boy's character enough to continue dating him while at different colleges, should I keep going with it or is an awkward kiss a bad sign? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (27 June 2013):
 Let me tell you what is a sign. You are looking for a sign. That tells me that you are insecure in the relationship. You are afraid of either it not working out or of it working out. You are worried about how the long distance thing is going to work. You are worried about your inexperience with kissing and other sexual things.
The good news is that this is perfectly normal for a person in your position. Your insecurities and worries are well founded.
Should you keep going with it? Yes, absolutely, emphatically, keep going! How else will you get the experience you need to be confident for your next first kiss. How else will you find out how great this guy that you truly respect is. If it doesn't work out in the end it won't be because you were two nervous people who fumbled a kiss. At least try one more time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2013): A first kiss will always be awkward. Like, always. :) It has nothing to do with the guy's overall kissing prowess, or your chemistry, or what the other kisses will be like. That moment your lips first meet -- or half your lips, because I have a propensity to "miss" on the first kiss -- you're SO nervous, and there's someone's FACE right next to yours, like, omg...
You get the picture. Real first kisses are generally not as pictured in the movies.
Keep going with it, if you like his character, are attracted to him, and he feels the same about you!
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