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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend claims we got too close too soon

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - I'm so confused on what my gf is taking about. She said she's to attached to me to soon and feels she needs to take a step back. . We've been dating 3 months. The other day she's talking about me meeting all her family and her son and now this. I ...

Was his relationship with his ex that much easier than being with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hope you can help me and my boyfriend were together for two years I met him in a club and he chased me he had a girlfriend at the time but told me he hadn't loved her for ages but she had a four year old daughter so was hard to split up I told him ...

If he likes me then why doesn't he talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hello There is a guy on a lecture I go to. This guy is always sitting alone with a girl. They also take the same bus after the lecture. This guy looked sometimes at me in the lectures. Everytime I look at him I see this girl looking very ang...

Will he ever stop going on dating sites? I hesitate to allow our relationship to develop further because of this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Can someone please answer, because I think I am slowly losing my mind through this. I have been dating for three years now. He wants to take our relationship further, but I can`t. The reason I can`t is because for at least two years, I have be...

I am his Gf. She was his crush. Now he's talking to her online. Am I missing something here? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hey, I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now,we go to the same university! But before he met me he was crazily in love with a crush on a fellow student.. They were in the same class and he was head over heels in love with her. Yet when h...

I'm thinking of ending my 2 years relationship. I think its just time to let go.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Lately I have been thinking about ending my two year relationship with a really amazing guy. I just feel like at this point in life he will be better off without me and could be happier. I don't want to break up with him because I love ...

When it comes to exchanging phone numbers with girls I get nervous. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - Hi I currently live in London Been here for 5 Years now.I am originally from Pakistan.i am good looking, well dressed and good speaker but I still couldn't find any English girlfriend. Had few of other nationalities tho!.ok English girls start ...

We spend every night together and act as married but I am living out of a bag!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - For the most part I am living with my boyfriend. We spend every night together at his house. He calls it ours, we share everything like a married couple. Yet, my belongings are not moved in. I live from a bag and when I brought it up we had an ...

Is it ok for a man to have women friends that are ex's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Is it ok for a man to have women friends that are ex's? Sometimes I get jealous and even though he says it innocent, it really hurts. We are living together, and in a very serious relationship. Is it wrong to ask him not to text or call her? Is it ...

Is he only dating me because he couldn't have my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, im stuck in a bit of an awkward situation and i dont know what to do so I wondered if anyone had any advice? Basically I am seeing a guy at the moment, but its very casual, we've only been dating a month or so, so we havent told anyone ...

I really like her but I'm not sure if she's still dating someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl ...

Friend tried to get me to sleep with him, even though I have a boyfriend. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Okay. Recently I have got back with my ex-boyfriend, things have been okay between us, and I guess for once things are looking up. However there is a slight problem. Me and my boyfr...

Do guys normally hold out a few days before making contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hey guys, last Saturday a guy who I got friendly with at a club overseas took my email address and I haven't heard from him yet. Does that mean his not interested? Or do guys normally hold out for a few days?...

Is it wrong to date two guys at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - is it right to date two guys at a time? There is this who helped me once with finding a location. And since then, we've been friends. I tell him some personal things about myself, and he does same. I like him as a friend and wish to kip it like that ...

Do I tell my jealous boyfriend that I've been texting a friend to play games? B/f has forbidden me to do so!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hello all. I have a question, it's kind of bothering me, so I'd like some advice... I'm 21 years old. I have 2 friends, who I don't hang out with (they're busy with kids and such) so I'm normally hanging out with my boyfriend. We've been together 5 ...

Is there any way out of this clash of values and attitudes? She wants to stop having sex until the wedding day (no date set for wedding yet)

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - Hello, This is a bit long-winded but I hope you enjoy the ride. It's certainly been interesting for me. The backstory: I'm a 33 y/o professional traveling musician from the states. Three years ago I met a lovely 33 y/o girl in Germany ...

I want to show him I've changed. Shall I write him a letter telling him how sorry I am and how I've changed and see him face to face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I were together for three years but he finished with me six months ago after we kept going on breaks and I kept on finishing with him. We had a really good relationship but we both got stuck in a rut. I lost my job and had bill...

How would you see this situation if it was you? When sober he doesn't want us "official" but when drunk he "loves me" ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - hey guys. after a bit of advice, its really complicated to me but ill try my best to explain it. so, i started working at a job in 2009. I'm a friendly person so got on well with everyone although there was one group i got realy close with, abou...

I'm pregnant, we're engaged and yet I feel like we are hitting rock bottom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm twenty, and my fiance is 24 now. We've been living together and been together for two years plus. The first six months we've been living together, things were amazing. He wasn't afraid of PDA, kissing, hugging, he wanted to cuddle a lot, we had ...

I don't want to be this man's toy and then he moves on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm currently dating a Saudi guy (we are both studying abroad): he is an awesome person and hanging out with him is fun (on a mental level). We hang out, been a little physical (foreplay) but haven't gone all the way yet. I'm afraid that once we ...

Why is he embarrassed by me? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - how can i determine if this guy likes me or simply gets embarassed by me ??? bcoz he doesnt really know alot about me its hard to tell, all i know is he makes me very self-conscious when im around him bcoz he always blushes??? ...

Boyfriend got me a job where he works but tells me I am not to acknowledge him in any way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in a layoff situation, and my bf (of 3 years) told me he can find some position in his company and he did and i got a job there through his recommandation. His work collegues does not know im his gf which is fine with me. Bu...

After 3 years he still introduces me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Three years dating and I'm still introduced as a "friend." Hurt like hell but I'm stupid. He's a sweet guy in other ways, we get along SO well, he cares for me and it's obvious in how he helps me and soothes me when I'm down. People say he's in love ...

I'm scared he's just using me till he sorts himself out and goes back to his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - sorry this is pretty long but i'd love for someone to give me their thoughts on this. I have started seeing a guy who I really like but I have a feeling he is still really into his ex. He's been straight with me and told me from the be...

Help me my boyfriend likes my best friend and porn and lies about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for going on 3 years now .... we didnt have any problems In the beginning of the relationship .... I would say a year in to it we were having sex and we went for like hours and hours so I said I needed a ...