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36-40,
unbound88
writes:My boyfriend is out of town working for 2 weeks. His roommate (whom I know because I have been to their house many times) came into the restaurant where I bartend. He then proceeded to get drunk and start hitting on me. He asked me to come over after I got off work and spend the night. I was shocked as he had never acted this way before! I would never cheat on my boyfriend and I told him that. He still persisted and said we could just "hang out". I told him no and was totally appalled. Should I tell my boyfriend this happened or just keep it to myself and ignore it? It was obvious he wanted to have sex with me while my man was out of town.
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (11 March 2008):
 He obviously likes you and the alcohol gave him the courage to show it. If he's normally respectful of you and your partner, let this one go on the basis that he was drunk and might have known better otherwise.
If there is more to this than you're telling us, then it might be a good idea to suggest to your boyfriend that you see less of his "friend".
God bless and good luck!
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reader, q1605 +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Chalk this one up to alcohol and let it go. If it happens again call him on it. Third time tell him you will be telling your boyfriend. You don't have to follow through on your threats but let him know how little you appreciate it. You will have to play it by ear. Avoid telling your boyfriend unless it becomes unworkable. There is no telling exactly how it will play out if you have to tell your BF but somebody is going to lose and no one will be a winner. Try and hold out for the two weeks. Do it for your BF. IF you can. You know where the line is. You may not can see it now but when this guy really REALLY crosses it you will know it. And you'll know how to handle it when he does
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