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writes:This is a question for guys......i just started going out with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago.We had been friends for about 3 years before we started dating an our relationship is really friendly and not very romantic. We have kissed and what-not but we never do it in public and we never hold hands or anything like that. Do guys care when you don't act all romantic and stuff? Should i try to be more kissy? Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (7 February 2008):
I'm da type who's touchy,feely but i know alot of my mates would care less if you didn't walk hand in hand or kiss.Try doing it and check his response.At your age i guess a guy can be ok with da stuff you are thinking about.Myabe he's asking himself da same question if you like being romantic or maybe he feels it's too soon to be so open.In a relationship you need to communicate your wishes and if you can't say,try it out and see his response.
Good Luck.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Some guys are really into it others are ok with it. So it really depends on the guy. If he seems toucht feely already towards you he may like being treated that way also. Try it, but if he reacts badly forget it. Just stop.
Girls are commonly more like this then guys. So i wouldnt try anything unless there are signs that he wants to be treated more that way. Like if he hints it. I dont mind being treated this way but i do know guys who hate it.
Good luck!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Hey there,
Don't worry,guys are much less touchy feely than girls. This is usually a question when get from the guys not from girls!
The fact that you were mates first is a sign that you guys are more comfortable in public just hanging out like you used to. So if neither of you have a problem dont worry about it, enjoy each others company, there's no law you have to be all over each other.
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