A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:recently i don't know what to do my ex boyfriend and i dated for 4 years on and off. he always tells me he loves me and that were meant to be and that he cant live with out me. he's cheated on me so many times and even had sex with with many of my really close friend we argue all the time and i really cant take it anymore i'm tried moving on and i've hooked up with a few guys know and every time he finds out he calls me a slut whore and tells me i'm only fun to screw why does he have these weird mood swings? can it be possible that he really loves me? but then again why would he treat me this way? theres a lot of questions i have.. but i need someones help. let me know if u have any helpful advice on what i should cause i cant take him anymore.
View related questions:
cheated on me, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, rcn +, writes (21 October 2007):
 If you're not interested in chatting with him, when he comes by to chat with you, just glance up at him, turn and go off talking to someone else. He'll get the picture you're not interested in having a conversation.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for your help.. i basically figured everything you guys have told me.. but i take it better when other ppl tell me.. and its really hard to move on and to realize that this guy only used and played with me to get what he wanted... now i recently found out that hes trying to talk to this girl from my school and i did get really upset when i find out cuz it does still affect me alot..and this girl is supposly in love with him alreadyy i wouldnt be suprised if he fucked her alreadyy.. next week one of my good friends is having a sweet sixteen and hes going to be there im scared hes going to say soemthing to me when he sees me.. how can i avoid him and what should i dooo HELPPP
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): he doesnt want you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you either. ignore him when he calls you names as he has absoloutley no moral ground to stand on. im afraid he sounds like someone who thinks with the wrong head
...............................
A
male
reader, rcn +, writes (8 October 2007):
He doesn't love you. He loves sex. There's a difference. See, he thinks it's OK for him to cheat, date others, screw all your friends, and when it comes to you he wants you to place yourself on reserve as a backup for him to play with when no one else is available.
He's playing a game. He only cares about himself and what he gets. These people, don't think they're going to change and all of a sudden develop a conscious. I know a guy when I was around your age, by the time we left high school, I bet he screwed over 150 women. He's now in his 30's and still goes out to find some, but then he goes back to his girl he's been with for 15 years. He doesn't care, and it sounds like as long as your ex gets what he wants, he could care less about anything else.
...............................
A
female
reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (8 October 2007):
 If you love someone you don hurt them, which means you dont cheat on them. Go out with whomever you like and to hades with what that jerk says. You deserve better.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): He doesn't love you. Distance yourself as much as possible from this guy. He is a stress on your life that you would do much better without. Sounds like this guy could have some type of mental/emotional issue too (or he is just a huge jerk) so use caution till he is permanently out of your life. You deserve MUCH better.
...............................
|
