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writes:anytime my boyfriend comes over hes bored. i hate going to his house too because he still lives with his family and i dont get the impression they like me being their(its quite a small house and i feel im taking up a lot of space)... but when he comes over all we do it watch tv, have sex, watch more tv, make food....... its really boring and hes always complaining about having nothing to do.dont say "he should jsut love spending time with you", because i think its quality time not quantity, but i am really running out of ideas.. any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Well if he's so bored, why doesn't he take you out? It sounds like he expects you to entertain him all the time, & that in my opinion should be partly his job too. Is he like a spoiled momma's boy who gets his way all the time? Sounds kinda crazy to me. Are you bored? Maybe he's just saying he's bored because he feels like maybe you're bored with him, like an insecurity issue??
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (8 October 2007):
 If he is bored ask him what he wants to do, go out to the cinema, bowling anything that gets you out the house, if your bored find something you can both do and if he is the one who always says he is bored, then ask what he wants to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Do something completly spontaneous, like going river rafting or skydiving as a surprise. If hes still bored after that, its not you, its him, and find a more interesting guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): if you love eachother then you shouldnt need things to do, boredom shouldn really come into the equation, maybe ou shoud go out, have more passionate intercourse etc
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Firstly, how long have you been together?
I think you guys need to go out on more dates. If you're starting to get bored, liven things up by going to an arcade or to dinner or to a play or to the zoo. There are so many things you can do together!! I love going to the planetarium and the science museum with my boyfriend. You're never to old to goof around and have fun.
I also love it when my boyfriend and I go get one of those disposable cameras, spend an afternoon taking pictures, getting them developed at a one hour place and then flipping through them in the evening.
You guys need to get out of the house! Watching TV, having sex, eating food - all good, all fun, but not all the time!! Go adventure!
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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