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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Which guy do I go for? Do I wait for the one "out of my league" or go for the one that is keen on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - Please help i'm at uni right and theres these two guys, both of whom are like so lovely only 1's totally out of my leauge and the other kinda had a crush on me a while back, anyhow i lost my virginity to the second guy and kinda ignored the fact i ...

I'm 15 and he's 18, I've have spent time with him in a group but want more, am I wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - ok well im 15 and i recently started hanging out with this guy not alone but in group company i see him now almost every weekend and occasionly through the week i really like him the one problem is that he is 18. we chat on instant messaging and he ...

Do I see the guy that is nice to me but I have no attraction to or the guy who isnt so nice but I am attracted to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - hey what would you rather.. a lovely lad/ girl who is so nice but ya arnt attracted to... or a lad/girl you Really like but not as nice..? iv gotten with this lad i really like but broke up with him because he wasnt trying, but now he asking me back ...

I moved to be with him in California, but now he's a Jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I have been with a guy on and off for the past two years. I was a sophmore in highschool when he left to go to school in California and I lived in New Jersey. We talked for the next two years without going out and I visited him in Cali twice. ...

We've talked about having no strings attached sex, but I chickened out. Now he wants to continue to see me without mention of sex, can there be more to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt know my ex so it was nice to talk...

I've been with her for 9 months but the last 2 months I wanted to breakup. I cant break up with her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - i have been dating this girl for almost 9 months now. for about the past 2 months ive wanted to break up with her. the reason for this is i realized how controlling she was and manipulative. i havent broken up with her yet because shes told me ...

My girlfriend is obsessed with her ex, how can I get her to let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - My girlfreind and i have been together 5 months i love her very much and she says she loves me but the problem is we got together 5 days after she split with her ex of 4yrs. He was her 1st love and i understand he will always have a place in her ...

My boyfriend asked for a break, will we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - A few days ago, my boyfriend suggested that we take a break. He said that at the moment, school and work are taking a toll on him and our relationship is stressing him because he doesn't feel he has the time he needs to put into it. He said he ...

He broke up with me, but I said we should take a break instead, he will come back to me wont he?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

5 November 2007 (?) - So, I get a call today as I'm leaving work and my love is like, "Something is wrong..." and I'm like," OK, what?" and he tells me he wants to tell me to my face...so I suddenly think, SHIT...this is bad. So, I come home, change, and make my place ...

I love him, but he hates my family, how can I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - so i love this guy i have been with for two years. We have been pretty serious, and I really love him, but things are just so hard. He said he hates my family, and i'm not sure how to take that, because family is very important to me, and he is ...

We dated, then broke up, now he wants me back but can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - Right, well... I was going out with this guy over the summer for about 2 months, and at first it was really good, we really liked each other, but then he got very distant and cold, hardly ever texted me and avoided me like I was a walking disease. ...

I'm in love with a 35 year old man I met at a party. I'm only 18.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I met this guy at a party and i just noticed him because he was so cute. while I was sitting, he came to meet me and gave me his number. We've started communicating and spent some time together but the thing is he's 35 and I am 18. I look more ...

Broken hearted now we have moved so far apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - What should I do? I lived in a place down the South of England and I had my first ever boyfriend which means so much to me, but my dad got a new job and so we've moved way up to the North and now he's about 4 hours away from me. I miss him so much ...

I like this guy, but am I just a booty call to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - How do I know if this guy is into me? I have been seeing/dating this guy since August. We have been intimate sexually with each other. For him to contact me, I have to text him. If I dont text him, he doesnt contact me nor call me. If I send hi...

He went to bars the last 2 Fridays and now is under house arrest, I am afraid this will be a common occurance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - i've been dating this guy for 8mo.He went to the bar the last 2Fri without me because I was late getting to his house.He's on housearrest until 7p on a DUI.I asked him if this was going to be a everyfri occurrance. He said I don't know after I ...

The small things are killing me and I'm worried what the big things would do to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - This seems like such an inconsequential thing to ask as compared to some other questions here but its been bothering me for a while. We haven't been together for a long time, only about 5-6 months, but I think she's the greatest thing in the world, ...

I'm 17 in university and he's 14 in high school, should we be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - hi, well i am angelina the problem is that i am 17 and he is 14 he is still at the high school and i am at the university so many people think that we are in love but our age difference is the problem and for other way i am best friend of ...

We're virgins and she wants to have sex, but I don't want to yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm in a bit of a predicament that I guess many males don't end up in. My girlfriend wants to have sex. We've known each other for over a year, so we're not just hooking up. However, we haven't done anything else involving sexual activity of any ...

She says she loves me but can let an entire day without getting in contact with me? Am I hanging on too tight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months now continuously, we are in an odd predicament, by virtue of where we are, and who we work for in the world, we are not allowed to see each other, strictly professional. Well that did not happen, we ...

Surely it's ok to talk to other guys, if I'm not being flirty.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - Is it ok to chat with other guys over the internet (like nexopia or myspace) when you have a boyfriend? If you aren't being flirty or anything and they are people you know from school or something? Do you have to tell your boyfriend what you are ...

My friends don't like him and I have now lost some of them as they think I have changed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I really like this lad, and he knows I'm a virgin and he said he thinks its good not just basing out relationship on sex and he really respects me, he said he wants to do it propa! the thing is i haven't told my mates because non of them like him...

The perfect christmas present is awfully expensive, will he feel bad about it if I buy it for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - guys pleaz answer this. would you fddel bad if your gf brought you something big for christmast? i want to get my guy a guitar. would that be okay? how would you feel if ur gf get you that? i am 16 and he is 20. he likes playing guitar alot. he ...

I hinted that I like him (although I already have a bf), and he rejected me. How can I forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - i fell in love with a guy called W..he is handsome..cute as well as caring..but i already have a boyfriend..i met W at my working place..to me it is a wonderful crush..we when out eating..shopping..walking as close as a pair of couple..but when i ...

I met a married man 14 yrs ago. He is as good to me as always, but - still married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I am 55 female. I met a married man 14 years ago, he is now 44. I need out. I love him so much and he is as good to me as when we first met. I feel I am getting too old to make a new start and I don't think I can cope with not seeing him again. He ...

I love my 27 year old teacher.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I'm in love with my teacher. He's 27, 13 years older than I, and please don't say anything like, "It's not love, just a crush, an infatuation, forget about him." I've already tried, but no matter how hard I try, I can't forget him. He's like a dr...

I don't want to break up, but see no other solution.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 23, and I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months. I love her, but I don't know if I respect her. I didn't find out until a week into our relationship - 2 years before she met me she had a 1 night stand with 1 of my friends. She said ...

I kissed a girl when I was drunk, should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - on the w/e for the first time in about a year i went out with mates n got really drunk n well a girl had been flirting with me b4 i got drunk but told her i had a gf so i thought she wouldn't try anything anyway after a lot of drinks a lot of us ...

Need help with ex gf!!!(another one)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - Alright, I'm in quite a pickly right now. It's the same old I want my ex girlfriend back story. This one is complicated and long so I'll do my best to keep it in detail and as short as possible. So yeah, my ex-gf and I dated for 2 years and 3 mont...

How can I stop my girl from laying on the guilt trips!,

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - Hello all, Well I've been with my girlfriend with seven months now and we have the kind of relationship that I'm sure would make an outside observer a bit ill...lots of cuddling, lots of "I love you"s and "I love you more"s -- in other words, ver...

I don't know what to choose, how do I decide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have now been together for 6 months. We're both seniors at the same school. And we're both each other's first serious relationship. He just told me last night (he'd never told me before) he wanted us to be together even af...

I'm attracted to older men, but I don't want to end up marrying one, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - in the past 3 years ive been having trobles with guys, im 18 and im attracted to men twice my own age and every time i try to date someone my own age im not attracted to them or we just dont conect and it never works out, i just dont know what to do ...

Does this mean he is about to pop the question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - Hey Guys and Girls I have a story to share with you today. My name is Heather by the way I am 23 and in a relationship. Here's the story. I am dating this wonderful guy long distance now for six weeks he is 16 years old his name is Jaime West...