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*ober_H
writes:i have been dating this girl for almost 9 months now. for about the past 2 months ive wanted to break up with her. the reason for this is i realized how controlling she was and manipulative. i havent broken up with her yet because shes told me before that if we break up she'll close up and never love again. i dont want that. i want her to be happy and i want to be happy. we also hang out with the same friends and thats how i meet her. also ive started to fall back in love with my ex and would like to be with her again. so, is there anyone that can give me some good advice upon how to go about breakin up with her and her still try to find love again and to keep peace with all of our friends?
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reader, Rober_H +, writes (6 November 2007):
Rober_H is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice, i just did it and it was easier than i thought. but she kinda cut herself like i kinda knew she would. but thank you anyway
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (6 November 2007):
 My best advice is that you just straight out say what's going on. I know it's rather blunt to just be like "yeah.. so blah blah blah" But, if you want to be happy you need to do what's right for you as well. She may be sad for a while, but you guys are young... She can't say that she'll close up and never love again forever. Because she has a whole life to live and she's gonna meet so many people. So it may seem harsh.. But..It seems as though that's the only way to go.
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