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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt know my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready for a relationship and wont for a long time and he isnt but we have started talking about meeting up for no strings sex just between the 2 of us. This was a week ago he has been asking to come round 3 times and i chickened out everytime. He said all he thinks about is making love with me and things. He was out saturday night and i didnt speak to him but all my friends said he was looking at me and watching me while i was dancing and things.Then he came round today about time, we just sat and talked and sex was never mentioned. It was just nice to have someone to talk to and he said that he really enjoyed it just us sitting and talking, having a laugh and catching up. He said he would text me and talk to me online and that he wanted to come and stay with me while my mum goes away at the weekend and that he was coming round tomoz. He text me when he got home and i explained that if he expected sex and things first time that im sorry but it wasnt happening and he said that he wasnt bothered and that he didnt expect it to but that he still wants to come back round cos it was nice just talking. Does he like me just for the sex or could there be more in it in the future???
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
In my opinion i would say that he likes you & maybe not just for the sex, also your friend caught him checking you out thats a start & he likes your company but it has never ended in sex,
If you ae enjoying being with each other just talking and being friends then whats the harm in that, If you would like more from the friendship then you need to talk to him about this & find out where you stand.
good luck
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Its pretty obvious really.
The first time he came round you sat and talked and had a laugh.
If he only wanted you for sex he wouldnt have got in touch again.
By telling him you want to take thing slow you have laid it bare and he knows where he stands.
Enjoy his company and if things move on then if you are comfterble with it take it.
Good luck
Peaches
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