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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were at juniors. For the past 3 yrs i have started to have feelings for her but i've kept them to myself. But these past few months its getting impossible for people not to notice. Everytime i was near here i wanted to hold her, whenever we get close or just cuddle up together i really wanna kiss her, when i stop over at hers an i'm on the bed settee next to her i just want to go and get in with her and fall asleep with her. It's jut getting so painful. Well last week i was walking home with 2 of my best friends who happen to be hers as well and i ended up telling them, well actually they forced it out of me and apparently they knew how she felt about me and told me that she felt the same and that she wanted to tell me but was too scared. Anyway that does kinda make sense cuz she has been a bit weird around me lately (like wanting to be with me a lot more and she seems afraid of something when shes with me-like she wants to tell me but darent) and also as i said we do cuddle up infront of the tv sometimes so we are quite close and we do kiss each other goodbye and stuff which none of us do even though we are all best friends-like theres no 2/3 of us thats best friends and the others aren't.The only thing is i can seem to tell Luke more and she can tell karen more obviously we are both guys and they are both girls so none of us get left out. Now even though that i know how she feels i don't know how to tell her or when or how to do it, i also feel very weird when hugging her now because these feeligs have got so strong its a little bit noticeable. Please help i really need to tell her!
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reader, Beki +, writes (2 May 2007):
 Just go for it if you don't you'll regret it, just do it when your alone together walking home, infront of tv whatever. You need to tell her don't think about it too much and just do it, if you don't you'll regret it.
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