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Can I ask my sister if I can kiss her? Any advice?

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Question - (20 July 2007) 21 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am 5 years younger than my sister. I find her attractive. i have never kissed or anything with anyone. Can i ask her to kiss me? If so how far can this go?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

I agree that you should leave it alone. I do remember once having a french kiss with my sister, I thought it was great but she didn't like it too much it freaked her out because I was her brother. We never did that again.

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A male reader, JTalbott United States +, writes (24 May 2008):

JTalbott agony auntRemember she will be your sister for the rest of your life. Your interest in her has to do with that fact that she's close by, and isn't as threatening as kissing a girl at school that.

Learning how to reach out to the opposite sex is tough, it takes time, be patient and you'll figure out how to get a real girlfriend.

In the mean time, try to think about your sister and find yourself a real girlfriend to be interested in. Playing with your sister can leave make things awkward for a lifetime.

Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

Of course, i she likes you, tell her, i never said that to my sister, i think that it was an error, but we kissed sometimes, i touch and kiss her boobies, but we never talks about that, i we will talk, probabily we will lovers at this time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008):

That's just disgusting.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008):

Hey

Loving sistes ourselves, it's the best idea not to kiss her. We would suggest talking to your sister and tell her how you feel, as she is 5 years older she will more than likely understand. Me and my sister have a strong bond because were honest to eachother and that's what family is for.

love

fasion victims

xxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

Depends on the sort of kiss you mean. If, like everyone on here is assuming, you mean a sex type kiss with tongues, wake up and dont do it ever ever ever. If you mean a quick loving brotherly kiss on the cheek, go for it! Tongues are out dude/dudette

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

I think there is a lot of overreaction here. A kiss is just a kiss. You're not asking her to have sex with you. Kissing is not incest.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

Sure, there's nothing wrong with kissing your sister. I kiss my brother and there's nothing weird about it, it just shows you love each other and if people find it weird than they obviously don't understand love.

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A female reader, Amy2007x United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2007):

Amy2007x agony auntNo its ur sister... u cannot kiss her or whatever go out and find someone your own age and kiss them =]

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntHormones babe, does your sister even know how you feel?

You cant do this, it is against the law chick, try and forget about it.

Best wishes xxx

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A male reader, edge16 United States +, writes (22 July 2007):

edge16 agony aunti want to say something to some of the people commenting this:

lighten up on him his hormones are going crazy its not his fault, this website is suppose to help people not put them down

and on your acutal question do what u want, just know if she doesnt want then it will be weird between u two for a while

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A female reader, xxpoisendgurlxx United States +, writes (22 July 2007):

xxpoisendgurlxx agony auntyour young. and your not sure of what you want to do your harmones are in there total splendor im sure youl find someone better besides shes your sister and what if she doesnt feel the same way??!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007):

That is plain wrong, don't do it if she doesn't know how you feel about her !!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007):

yes you can do. if your emotions for your sister is not wront my meaning to say that if it is no sexatual then you do. I love my sister much and i kiss her many times she too kiss me many times.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007):

dude thats totallly wrong and just plain weird, like the other comments its just hormones and you need to find someone other than family members. this might change your brother sister relationship and she probably wont look at you the same. think about it

-peace&love

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntThis can go NOWHERE. Incest is very wrong and in some places illegal.

You need to find someone your age and who is not related to you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):

Oh huni, it's just hormones! forget it, your just confused and it would be very very wrong. I agree with yummy mummy, find someone your own age who you aren't related to! xx

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2007):

kenny agony auntI would nip this fantasy in the bud right now before it materialises into something you can't handle. She is your Sister and kissing her in this way would be so wrong and it can't go any further.

For your first kiss surlely it would be better and more memorable to kiss someone you are not related to.

good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):

Is this your actual sister (blood related) or your step-sister? If she is your actual sister then this is just sick and incest. It is also illegal to have a relationship with your sister. If this is your step-sister though i still wouldn't go there. I mean what happens if which parent of yours and which parent of hers that are having a relationship split up? Especially if you move far away from each other? Also what happens if you two split up but your parents are still together? You will still have to see each other no matter what. Move on. Find someone who's not in the family. And this is all before i go into age gap difference. If you weren't even related it would still be illegal to be sexually involved with each other due to the fact that she's not a minor and you are. You need someone your own age.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntIt cannot go anywhere hunni. She is your SISTER!

You need to try and push the feelings of attraction out of your head and find a girl your own age and someone who doesn't share your bloodline!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):

Hi! i wouldnt suggest this at all as an answer to your problem. Asking your sister to kiss you could really freak her out, as anything further is known as incest. You are only aged 13-15 there is so much time left for you to kiss lots of girls. You may feel attracted to your sister because you have a close bond and you admire her, but this can go no further. Just see her as a big sister who is there to support you! you have plenty of time to kiss lots of people so just wait and see how things go! but please forget this kissing your sister thing---it cant go any further!

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