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*aria27
writes:Hi I have a serious question.Sorry to all of you that might get offended from this message.I have been living in the states for few years now, but I over-stayed my visa and have been illegal Imigrant for 5 months now.Never planned on it, but it kind of happend this way. I am not proud of it, but unfortunately cant really do much about it.I have met this awesome person,that I fell in love with. I never loved anyone in my whole entire life but I know, he is the one I could spend my whole life with and always feel the same way as I feel now ... and he feels the same way.We know each other only couple of weeks now, but we feel like we have known each other for years.He has the same personality,humor,interests,life plans ... he is stupid like me!The problem?How can I tell him that his girlfriend is an Illegal Imigrant! I am scared he will think I am with him only cause he is american and all I want is to get married. Which is not true! I love him, but I am not ready to get married yet ... I feel too young. But I am scared that he wont understand ... Once I told him, I maight be a problem for him someday ... that things wont be as easy as they would be if he dated an american girl ... and he said, that he loves me and he doesnt care and if there is a small light at the end of the tunel he will go for it .. I know I have to tell him ... but I dont know how!Please help me ! Thanks to all of you ... and sorry if I offended someone.Thank you
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 i think you explain what you wrote in this post to him. Say that you are not out for a green card and that you are not ready to be married either.
If he truely loves you he wont care. But do be careful who you tell as if it gets out you may be in trouble.
Good Luck
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 July 2007):
 He is going to find out and it is much better he finds out now rather than later, because if he was not happy with it you could both end up very hurt.
I would like to say it is very risky to post this sort of question on such a big site as you never know who is looking at it and things can be traced back now.
Take care.xx.
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