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writes:Background info for this post:(http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-gf-is-still-very-rude-to.html).Dear AllI wonder if you could help me please. Basically everything was going great for two years with this awsome girl, we were in love! I missed two oppouniteys where basically she wanted me to officially ask her out! When i failed to the second time, she didn't talk to me. I gave her loads of space and things were 'ok'. Before I finihed school for the easter break I had the last day before the holiday began to wish her happy birthday (as her birthday was during the holiday).I didn't get her anything as I was unsure if she would feel I was being excessive. A night before the day I paniced, so on the day I wished her happy birthday for the day and she replied 'Thankyou'. Later on her friends apporached me and said why haven't you got her anything, I never lie but I said 'oh I forgot her card today, I fell so bad about it! (even though I hadn't got her one really!). :(Later on in the day she was a bit flirty, but it remained the same really.Over the holday period I felt guilty, I have bought the finest chocolates I could find and have had them gift wrapped etc. My intention is to give them to her as a sign of my love to her and my appologies for not getting her anything for her birthday. This the first time I have bought her anything.My questions are as follows, please:1) Are chocoloates a good idea?2) What's the best way to give them to her, what should I say/how should I approach her?I feel she does have feelings for me still, firstly she says thanks or hello when were alone if I open a door for her etc. Secondly she saw me talking to a fello female colleague (who everyone suspects me being in love with, they don't know were just friends as she's in a higher year). She then stared at her nastily on another occasion(s), as my frined told me. I think she felt jealous? Am I right?Thanks EveryoneAny help would be appreciated, thanks.RegardsG-763
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): Well this is a hard thing to cope wiv!Firstly yes chocolates r often the key 2 a girls heart.Unless of course the girl is on a diet etc.So b 4 giving her chocolates u should find out from her friends if she has n e allergies or n e thing.And I think getting them gift rapped and every thing woz a great idea!
Now ur next question.Well I think u should let 1 of her nicest friends in on ur plan cus then u can get the girl on her own and u can tell her friend 2 take everyone-else away 2 leave u 2 2 it!You should just say"Look I have feelings 4 u and I'm so so sorry I forgot ur birthday!So here's a present I really hope u like it!Also there's something else,will u go out wiv me?"This won't fail she should fall head over heals 4 u!Send me a private email 2 tell me how u got on!
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