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He seems shy but interested but I'm not sure. How doI find out?

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Question - (15 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2007)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How do you know a man is interested in you? He seems shy but interested but I'm not sure. In conversation, he remembers every word I've said. He holds my gaze. Has personal conversations. He smiles at me more than other people. We are in a working situation but not colleagues. Please advise. Thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007):

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Yes... I'm going to have to increase the eye contact, touch, etc a knotch. I can't be shy, too! lol! I certainly won't jump him, though... lol! I will have to be more obvious.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007):

Well go for it girl you never know until you tried put out the signs that you liked him you know flirt, let him catch you looking at him, smile when ever he comes in, always help him, try some how if you have not got his number try to get this number.

so go for it you never know to me it sounds like this lad likes you, and if he doesnt and i say if coz i think he does then at least you tried and you know.

i met my boyfriend at work and we are very happy i didn't think he liked at first but he but i was wrong and all i done was put out the signs and i got his number and text him and one night he told me he like me and we took it from there that was 4 months ago.

so go for it

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntHow does he react to physical contact?

If he is shy he will find it hard to assert himself in that way. You may need to make it easier for him.

I dont mean jump on him, but escalate physical contact, make it more obvious of your feelings. If he wants you he will have to come out of his shell a bit more and reciprocate.

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