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writes: Dear Cupid,****Should I stay or should I go?****I have had so much trouble with boys, they're just better off being my friends. I finally met a guy that made me feel differently about having a boyfriend. Now that we are a couple, I feel awkward. I know I'm crazy about him, but I don't feel like I'm getting the same feeling in return. We have a great time when we're together, but it's when we're not that I worry. If we make plans together, I have to be the one to call and suggest that we do something. He is never the first to call or the first to kiss me anymore. When we were dating things were so much less confusing and it felt as if we were more interested in each other. So back to my question: should I stay or should I go? Reply to this Question |
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reader, schlottjl  +, writes (30 June 2005):
 Neither. Just don't call first and see if he calls you. In the mean time fill your social calundar so that you are not waiting by the phone. When out try not to discuss him. If someone else asks you out, you are not married or engaged, so accept if you want to.
The only way you will really know if he is good enough for you is to see if he goes after you. If he does don't sweat it. Just decide if he is good enough for your hot stuff. If he doesn't, you wasted no time!
Good Luck!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (30 June 2005):
Back off a bit and see what happens, wait for him to call you and if he doesnt forget about him, hes not worth it.
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