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writes: I am currently dating a woman who is divorced and I am as well. We met almost 5 yrs ago and have made and implemented many plans. We purchased a home together, and jointly made a huge financial commitment, which at this point I do not live in with her and her son in this home. It seems that we are now very close in proximity but that she is very distant, kind, yet not her normal self and does not acknowledge the commitments and promises that we have made to each other. It is like she puts me up on a shelf and takes me off when she wants to deal with me. A total 180 degree turn from what I have been accustomed to. Any insight would be very helpful.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (30 June 2005):
You say that you dont live with her and her son in your joint property. Why/ If this is because you wont move in she may feel insecure like you dont want to make a commitment, likewise, if she doesnt want you to move in yet she may be afraid of commiting to you, reassure her and make her feel special and i am sure things will be ok.
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