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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does he love me after what he said?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is almost 20 and I'm 18. we've been dating for 16 months and he says I'm the best thing ever in his life and that he'd die for me. so we watched city of angels on the couch the other day and we were talking about pregnancy and ...

My boyfriend does'nt find the time to spend with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I need a solution to a reoccurring problem with my boyfriend. Often when I have free time, I will go over to his place and spend time with him. I will get there and he is often multi-tasking. He is a single father so I understand when he has to ...

He has been separated from his wife for 20 years, but still is unsure about divorce.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I'm dating my polar opposite. He's swedish, I'm american, he's 62, I'm 30, he's an engineer and I'm an artist that can't seem to hold a job. He's been married for going on 40 years which isn't quite as bad as it sounds as they've been seperated for ...

He is ignoring my phonecalls, is our relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over two years now. Several times during the relationship - 6 to be exact, he wouldn't take my phonecalls nor answer my texts. I would call and ask him to return my phonecalls, but he never would ...

Please advise on my dilemma - to let go or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - This is going to be a long one...I thought I'd lay out the background info first, so please bear with me! My girlfriend and I are both of the same age, and have been dating for 3.5 years. It was quite a storybook romance: boy meets girl throu...

He told me if I left him he'd be a "walking dead person"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I've been trying to break up with my long distance boyfriend for what seems like a month now...We live in different countries and I'd have to wait a lot of time in order to meet him again. Maybe even a year. I know it's horrible to break up thro...

When is it time to draw the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Background: I have 2 children from a previous relationship. I have been with my fiance for 2 years and we have just had a baby together 2 and a half weeks ago. We had planned to get married, but put it on hold when we got pregnant and now...

She just keeps hooking up with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I've been seeing the girl of my dreams off and on for about 2 months now. She was suddenly dumped by her ex about 6 months ago who she had dated for about 2 years. Everyone I know say he is a absolute jerk and hated that she was dating him, but ...

How do you react when you break up but your ex wont give you the space to heal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - you are dating someone and you break up and you don't have time to heal because they call you and act like nothing has changed and then they suggest to you to move in and act like roomates but they also say I love you and call you sweetheart and so ...

Is he sending me mixed signals on purpose or is he just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex four months ago (we dated six months). I did see him all summer because he is involved with my daughters hobby. We ended up having lunch twice in one week. After the first lunch I was reminded of how much fun we have ...

Is it wrong to want to hurt him the way he has hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - My current situation is the most difficult one Ive ever had to face. I know it may be difficult for some to understand why a person such as myself chooses to stay involved but please bare with me. Well Ive been in my current relationship for near...

Is he too young to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I'm currently heartbroken. i had been with my boyfriend for over a year but lately i realised he had become distant and didnt want to see me as much. i asked him what was wrong and he finally confessed that he didn't kno what he wanted anymore but ...

I don't want to be seen as a homewrecker if he leaves his girlfriend for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I am in a bit of a messy situation. Last year I reconnected with a very old friend of mine. We have history, massive attraction and flirtation, and an emotional connection that I have never felt with any other guy before or since. The only reason ...

What can I do to make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - i've like the guy i'm dating for months and just over a month ago we finally got together. everything was going really well till recently he cancels on me without really letting me know. i'll bring up the date we're meant to be meeting and he goes ...

I want him back, but don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Me and my partner of 2 years split 2 days ago, and i am heartbroken! i have always had trust issues to do with my past and stuff, but he gave me the fuel to make me think that something was going on behine my back when it wasnt. We are still living ...

Is it wrong to stay with someone that I'm not sure I could ever love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - This is the second time I've posted in so many weeks, the last time I was given really good advice so thought I would ask you all about a problem that's been playing on my mind for some weeks now. Basically I've been with Sam for 7/8 months... at...

I want him to care about me too not just flirt with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do? My guy friend shows that he likes me but he talks to his friends who are girls more than he does me. I don't get it! What if I tell him that I like him and he says no or what if he likes one of his other friends. How would I ...

Desperate for answers... please...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me ...

Help, why hasn't she talked to me at all in a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a while now and I love her. She has told me she loves me too, and we have just been doing so great together. She got out of a tough relationship and has been worried about taking it to the next step. We talk on ...

My boyfriend will stare at my face for at least 30 minutes! Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Somebody please help me, right now i am so stuck and i dont know what to do. I have this boyfriend of mine whom we have been together for at least four months now. My inner voice is telling me that he loves me and cares about me. Everybody know...

He said we need a break, but I found a used condom...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. My boyfriend told me today that we need a break. It completely blindsided me. As far as I knew we were fine, even sleeping together not even two days prior. Today, though, I found a used condom in his garbage that ...

Is it normal to get bored in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend(ex) went out for about 17 or so months(Year and 1/2)and we live in different states(SF/LA) just recently she broke up with me and it was mutual at the time because I wasn't sure what was going on and how I was feeling. We ...

He thinks I'm playing games -- how do I get more comfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys. i have a problem. this guy im seeing, hes 31 and im 18. we've been talking for over a year now and the sex is great, i mean the best i ever had ! when were talkin or textin each other, i never have a problem telling him wat i want him to ...

I just want her to tell me what's going on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - need a litle help, i am 29 my girl is 22 we both are in army, she is at TN i am in AZ, i got very jelous 3 times in the last 5 weeks, she wants to step back i the relation because of this and i dont know if i did a mistake or not, when she is ...

Does downloading 50 gb of porn equate to the use of a vibe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 25 years old. We've been dating for around 2.5 years. Things are far from perfect, mostly concerning him and other women, and also my own insecurities. Anyhow, recently, the issue with us has been that of porn. In rece...

Why wont my man buy a home? Is this a sign of not commiting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Im 25 years old and my man is 36 since we have been together ive brought up numorous times that i want to buy a home some day. I understood at the time that i didnt have a job that paid very well or that it only paid 6.75 but since then ive gotten a ...

I love my boyfriend but I don't like him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have a big proble with my boyfriend. He's 20 and he acts like hes 42. I'm 18 and I act 17. I love to be wild and crazy and fun is always on the top of my list. him on the other hand he acts like my dad. its embarrasing. We've been goin out 15 ...

I wasn't the girl in the picture...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hello there, I have a big problem. I fell absolutely in love with a guy that I'd never met but its not like a long distance thing we live just minutes away, anyways we took things reallllly slow just because he was so different from any other guy ...

How can I bring her out of her shell...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I am 30, my girlfriend is 20, and sex is really boring. We are close, and cuddly, and communicate great with each other, but I feel our psychological approach to sex is incompatible. We've been together a year. I want to flirt, touch each other...

I love my boyfriend a lot but I don't think I'm in love with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together but for the past two years we have drifted apart we live together and constantly bicker and fight with each other when we are together. I like going out with my ...

Don't know if it was rape.. it was my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and have had sex before.. a few nights ago we were alone at his house and he was drinking. I was sober, and we were in bed. This is so nerve racking and embarrassing to say.. We were ...

Should I tell him I was looking through his cell phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Last night I borrowed mt boyfriends cell phone to text my children because mine was dead and I did not have a charger. His phone displayed several conversations that he has had with several people and one caught my eye. My curiosity got the best ...

Frustrated and confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - The man I have been with for 4 years has also been separated from his wife for 5 years. I've asked him to get a divorce but he keeps telling me that costs money. And when I ask him about marriage he just says you never know what the future may ...