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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She ended our 3 year relationship because of an old crush, who won't even go out with a girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I'm 21, have been dating my girl best friend who is bisexual for almost 3 years. I'm in love with her. She always seems to be very good and loyal to me. All of the sudden, she told me that she still likes this one girl whom she had a crush on in 8th ...

Is he worth keeping around? He doesn't spend any time with me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has been going through a complete transformation: i have known this guy for a while and he used to always text me. about 2-3 times everyday from the end of my sophmore year to the end of my sophmore summer. when i found out ...

Why are my boyfriends friends/roomates so mean to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I'm a female, 20, and I've always had boys for friends because I don't like confrontations or drama that I get with girls, so in the past 3-4 years I've become best friends with a group of 5 guys who've pretty much been there for me and have been ...

He ignored, cheated and still ignored

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Sorry this is long, its just i really need advice: My bf and I had been together nearly 2 years and we lived together for a year and half. Exactly 6 months ago he had to move bk to the US from UK and ended up getting a job in Aspen. Everythin...

I had a problem opening up, because I've never opened up completely, not even with my family, and with him I was always scared of his reactions and judgements. Now he's broken up for good! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me. He says it's for good this time (we've broken up before). Basically, he had issues with my past, I have low self esteem, he had trust issues (because of my past and because I never gave him all the details....

really like this guy, but is he just using me for a bit of fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Well i like this guy, we have been out as a couple a few times and we just starting seeing each other more again but not in a relationship kinda way - just as mates. We have been kissing and cuddling (NOTHING ELSE) as well but then i just found ou...

I finally told him about my lies to him, and he broke up with me, calling me selfish and manipulative! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so a few years ago, a boy moved to where i live, and i liked him instantly but i was too afraid to say anything to him...i liked him for three years until i finally found out that he likes me too, and we ended up getting togeather, it was an ...

Moving to a new country and dealing with a break up away from family and friends, some advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hi all, Really I am writing this to see if anyone ever experienced the same problem as I have and if there was a solution. 2 and a half years ago I met my boyfriend from Spain. He sat beside me on the train, we got chatting, he asked for my num...

He says he wants a break. Does that mean I should move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hi ..I am so confused right now.What does a break mean? I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 mons now.We have spent every weekend together since.he is very active in my kids life.Past 2 weeks we have been a bit distant.So I did a little snooping ...

He called me a hoe -- does that mean he wants us back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - im 19 years old and my boyfriend of 3 years is 29. yes thats 10 years difference. what could we possibly have in common right? well he spent 10 years in prison and his state of mind is truly that of a 20 year old at this point if you ask me so we ...

Should I give her another chance, even though she has lied to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Okay so ill make this as easy as possible to understand. Im 18, and my current girlfriend is 17. we dated for about one year and then had a nasty breakup. Hours after I broke up with her, I was calling and texting saying I was sorry and that I ...

Why hasn't he made contact? Is it because he doesn't care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from any guys out there, on why my now ex-bf might be acting how he is. To cut a long story short, we were together for 8 years. He split with me 18 months ago, saying he wanted space/time to himself (I later...

I'm trying to move on, but she won't let me. She keeps contacting me, so she is always on my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - I've been in a 4 year relationship with my current girlfriend. 2 of those have been long distance. Coming to the end of the long distance she became uneasy that I wasn't committing with respect to marriage. I wasn't in a position to think of marri...

I really don't know how to get my ex back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Im looking for some advice a little about two month ago me and my ex broke up. I was living with her.We was alway fighting and her family was get involved. her mother would cried everything we would fight. Me and my ex was not seening eye to eye. We ...

I got out of an abusive relationship. How can I move on and meet someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I've come out of a very controlling, mentally abusive, unhappy relationship. And im still dealing with the pain and upset of how he used to make me feel. I've been to counselling and I am over the worst but not quite there yet. It was a year ago ...

He's getting very distant - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship. I feel like i have been stuck in this caged life for almost 5 years. I am currently unemployed and with a small child. Me and my child's father aren't married, but we are together somewhat. Living together, I am very unhappy. ...

We have been together for 16 years, but now he has lost interest in me and our daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I am unsure what to do! I have been in love with the same man for 16 years since we were kids. Since our child was born 7 years ago we have not really had a proper relationship he has had a few other relationships none of which have lasted more than ...

In love with my best friend’s fiancé, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Here is my problem; I’ve fallen in love with my best friend’s fiancé. I’ll try to give you a little background about the situation. I’m currently a 22 year-old college student, during my freshmen year I meet a lot of new people, including my now ...

Should I stay secretly unhappy in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I need help? I am in a de-facto relationship of 18 months, we have bought a lovely home together. I love him very much but unfortunately it is the old hollywood line "I love him but I'm not IN love with him". I don't want to hurt him, I thought I ...

Am I making a decision based on rationality or am I just fed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together in my home and have children from previous relationships. He is still married and trying to get custody of his children. The children live here 1 week and at their mother's for another ...

B/f and I can't stop fighting and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - hi im in need of help see me and my boyfriend have been having trouble lately we can not stop fighting and i dont know how to tell him my problems because he get every thing out of order well see we where having sex every day and night until i got ...

He was trying to hook up and have sex with a girl on Craig's list

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I need help with my relationship. Here's a little about it. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. He is my second boyfriend. I was with my ex for about 3 years. I conserve myself until marriage and I did not have sex with my ex; however,...

The fight was something silly but he broke up with me and won't talk to me now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I had a big fight with my boyfriend yesterday and he broke up with me. We were yelling at each other on the phone and that's how it went. It's been 2 days now and he haven't returned any of my calls and keeps clicking the cancel button when ...

What can I do for my ex? Please help!...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - I finally got in touch with my ex girlfriend after not hearing anything from her in two weeks. She answered my call and told me that her mother passed away. Her step father blames her, and her brothersand sisters wont speak withher. She also told me ...