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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My fiance wants a civil partnership and I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I'm 25 and my fiance's 26. We've been engaged for a year now, and everything in our life is pretty much good - we're well-liked, in good jobs and earning a decent amount to live on. We've had arguments like any couple have, and they've resolved...

My sister is dating my Wife's Ex and its killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - WIFE's EX (EXCELLENT) LOVER NOW FUTURE BROTHER IN-in-LAW Sis and I are close; only 2 years apart. Last year, Sis started grad school and met this great guy, she told me. Sis beamed after each date with him, and enthusiastically said he was the ...

How can I give him a wake up call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i love m bf we r plannig to get a house together but i see problems we dont get to spend alot of time together i no that he needs to work n he has 2 kids every other day for a couple of hours but now he does basketball after work n talking about ...

I feel used and ignored because he never bothers to call or text...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 327 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I have this friend that I've known for 7 months. We work together and we play together. He and i (or so i thought) became real close. We practically go out 4-5 times a week. I even met his mom and she loved me. He is going through a painful divorce ...

Am I wasting my time asking this guy over or should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hello to everyone and happy new year!! Ok aunts yes it's me again. Heres the situation. The guy that I had talked about before is driving me crazy.Last week he called me quite a few times 4 times christmas eve and yesterday he called 3 we talked ...

My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual. Here are the reasons: 1. He confessed to me that when he was in middle school he gaved a kiss to a guy because he was curious, confused etc but nothing else happened and he ...

How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing ...

My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...

He wants to see if he misses me will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 years decided he needed time apart. He wasn't treating me that well lately an was turning small meaningless arguments into big scandals. We have had problems in our relationship, which is normal for every couple, but I was always ...

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...

Everyone tells me I shouldn't be with him...but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having a really bad time at the moment, we have been together for a year and a half, this has been a rocky relationship from the begining but is getting worse. He is having problems with his ex over his daughter and she has ...

Could she be lying to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hey well im a guy and im just here cause im concerned my gf is lying to me and i need help.. theres this guy that was her friend she denies it saying she hated him! and couldnt stand him..i saw her photobucket and she has pictures of him and her ...

How can I make it up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend, Sydney (of four years) is mad at me because I forgot her birthday (again I did it to her last year as well). This time she let me gave it and ended sleeping at a friend's house. To matters worse when I called her to apologize and ask ...

Is there anything I can say to let our fire to continue to burn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 18 months.I am 22 and she is nineteen.We have talked about marriage many times and both love the idea. In the beginning, she had no baggage whatsoever, but that changed as we traveled back and forth from ...

My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... ...

Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...

Should I stay with him and work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - ok well were do i start me and my ex was 2gther for seven months. we were also engaged for 5 of those months we have being having a few problems latley and all we seem to do is argue. then on christmas day he broke up with me. he said he didnt love ...

Considering going to a swingers club for my husband... is it a stupid idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Confused, been with my boyfriend for 3yrs off and on and he's been tryin to get me to meet a girl to have a 3 sum.he said it's his fantasy and that I should try it cuz maybe I will like it. I've never experienced it before and from me hearing it so ...

I don't believe that I love my daughter's father anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am in my early 30’s and I have a one year old baby girl. She is the best thing that ever happened to us. The problem is that when I was eight months pregnant her father called me a spic, and when she was only eight days old I was kick-out of the ...

I think I messed up my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I constantly had a fight with my boyfriend recently and I was so mad at him yesterday that I texted him that we should end the relationship if things don't go accordingly. I didn't mean to do so seriously; I was just mad at him at that time and bl...

Religion causing problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. And so far everything's doing great - he's really sweet, nice and cares about me. And I really like him too, I may even be falling in love. I don't know. (We're both 18 by the way.) But th...

Is it possible to stay in my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm sorry if this is really long but really need some advice. I have been with my husband for many years. He is very much a father figure and I do love him so much in the same kind of way I love my cat - with massive affection. The problem is t...

What does his email mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I had a full out with my mate which was quite petti, i sent a email saying sorry for the way i behaved the towards him. This is his reply below, going by what he said do you think we can come back from this and have a friendship again or do you ...

My Dad's behavior is way over the top!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My dad's been embarrassing me, and not in the "Dad dancing at a wedding kind of way". At a close friend of mine's engagement party (she's 25, he's 28), he stripped to his Y-fronts and began dancing to the music manically. Everyone looked on in hor...

Am I missing the big picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - OK- I need a little more advice. I have been dating this lady for 3 months. just don’t see enough of each other. We used to see each other a few days out of the week. But now it is maybe once a week or longer. I try calling to say hello and ...

Is it time to give up on this relationship?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I will keep this as short as i can,it is quite long story. I had to go into hospital, this was approx 4 yrs ago because of my marriage break down, I was suffering from severe depression. I met a guy while i was there, he was also in for de...

Is it over? My boyfriend texted me "Don't bug me!"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Right i wont drag on but the bottom line is..i think my relationship is ending. My boyfriend (who may i add has been clinging to me for a few weeks) turned up on xmas day and stayed over but he did seem a little off with me when i took him home..h...

My self esteem is shot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been married 2 1/2 years. Honestly in the first couple years we would have sex twice a day. So spontaneous, new positions, new places and now nothing for the past month. The past six months I am lucky if it has been twice a month. I crave to ...

Tired of all giving and no getting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Im 26 my gf is 25. We met 5 years ago, at the 1st year of the Uni. We've been together all the time, we started living together 2 years ago, in the meanwhile we graduated, got jobs etc. She is a great person you know? Very honest, she never lies to ...

Getting off on pornography....need some advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband for three years now,when i first met him we would walk around and he would turn his head at any sexy girl,i thought this would pass,,,but since last september of 2007 he has gotten worse,on once occasion we went to ...

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...

Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...

Fed up with husband who never shares...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My husband never shares anything with me. I don't know how much money, loans or feelings about me he has. He is a real holder who holds everything to himself. It took over 14 years of our marriage before he would let go of some control of the house ...

My mum wants to rule my life and ruin my relationship, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend, we have been in the relationship for 3 months, my mum found out that me and him have been having oral sex. And now she keeps trying to split us up. About a month ago she ordered me to dump him but I just couldn't do it. ...

What if he does it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now, I really love him, he is very good to me and we are moving in together now but we have had a bumpy ride up until now. I always really trusted him but can't let him out of my sight these days ...

She keeps me by the phone waiting for it to ring

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I need some advice. I have been dating this lady for 3 months. Things started great. We dated and had fun along the way. Over the course of the 3 months I fell in love with her. She has not and I respect her for taking her time. During this time ...

Is she losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Ok, I'll start off by saying that I easily get paranoid and self concious, though not near as bad as I used too. I have been in a relationship for a couple months and she and I have already told each other we love each other. Anyways Christma...

Let go of my online love& save my marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - my husband and i have been together for 7 years. i remember when i met him, i felt like i had found the love of my life. here i am 7 years later wondering if he still is. my husband is a great guy. hes not abusive, hes not an alcoholic, he doesnt do ...

Is he no longer in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My question is as follows: My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have 3 children. Here in the last four months my H and I had a big falling out. To be honest it was not that big of a deal. During the fight he stated that he was done ...

B/f only affectionate when high

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay heres the deal.. ONCE again about my boyfriend. It seems the only time he will be affectionate wih me is when he is HIGH!! Its really retarded! Him and I have had sex before and afterwards he NEVER.. and I repeat.. NEEEVEEER wants to cuddle or ...

What can I do about his controlling, manipulative ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm so unhappy. I'm losing my boyfriend and feel I have to give up on him. I don't want to. I've tried to be there, stick it out and cope with the awfulness we have had from the Mother of his child, but I can't. Basically his life is being ...

I'm worried sick out of my mind and don't know who to get help from.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My partner has been lying about going to work, says he had bad nerves we were fighting, he hates the fact my teenage son leaves his room a mess we got over that. He then stayed, said he loved me etc, i tried calling him all day no reply then i ...

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...

Should I stay with my girlfriend or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, at the start of the relationship everything was great, and about 6 months into the relationship, she cheated on me with her ex, he was her first love and she says shes needed ...

We had an argument and now he's not talking to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months then on christmas day we had an argument and now he is mad at me nor talking to me. When we were arguing I pushed him in is head and he told me not to call him and he won't call me or answer my ...

I think my boyfriend is hiding something from me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriends hiding something from me cause he always recently takes off and leaves me home so he could go to the store or to work on his days off. Has he started an affair with someone?...

He will not introduce me to his family.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a man for 8 years. We do not live together although I would like to and asked him if he would buy a house with me. He replied that he will not buy a house with a woman again. I went ahead alone. I have tw...

Will this argument have a negative effect on our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hello aunts, uncles! My bf and i recently had a fight about my family and its really bothering me. 2 months back my dad found out that my bf sometimes comes over to visit me and he made it clear that he doesn't want to see him around his house......

I really don't want to leave him, but I just don't know what to do when he is like this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been acting really weird with me lately. He didn't talk to me for a full day, when i asked him why he said its because he didnt have any texts left (fair enough) but he could have rang me. I told him this and he said 'i love you can ...

Is my need for attention driving him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - On saturday, my boyfriend and i had plans to go to the movies. We were walking around the mall, then went to look at movie times. There were 2 showings, 7:15 and 9. It was already 7, so i suggested 9 so that we could eat first. He said we could just ...