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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My problem with shyness makes me freeze up when it comes to talking to boys! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - i'm a sixteen year old girl who has problems with shyness. whenever i find a guy that i'm interested in i just completely freeze and find it really hard to talk to them in person. as a result i've never had a proper relationship. theres a guy that ...

I'm always last on his priority list..I feel unwanted! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, thankyou for taking time to read this. I have been with my bf for 6 years, however i cant help but feel neglected. He never bothers with valentines, birthdays, anniversarys, he just never seems so spare a thought for me, its not like...

How can I wish my husband "happy new year" when he repulses me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - My husband goes out everynight for a few hours to the pub friday saturday and sunday when he comes in all he does is fall asleep we have 3 teenage boys and i feel so lonley its getting to the point that i don't like him to touch me as he repulsis me ...

My ex bf treated his ex gf like a pricess, but not me! Why do guys not treat all their gf's the same...what was wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Do guys treat all of their girlfriends the same? See my ex didn’t treat me like the princess he claimed he treated his ex like. I keep thinking it must be something I was doing wrong and I guess I would get some reassurance if I knew he treated ...

I've got long-distance lover angst! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - I'm very worried, I haven't been able to have a real conversation with my girlfriend in two weeks because she's back home from school in boston and Live on the other side of the country. I've tried to talk to her and she brushes me off, says she has ...

I do everything for him but wipe his a$$!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I started dating this great 27 year old guy about 4 months ago. He had just gotton out of a long-term relationship, so we started things slow. Well, the next thing I know, he's over at my house every weekend and eventually exchanged "I love yous." ...

The mystery woman on his message machine was his ex gf! She wants him back--so what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my current bf since the first of July 06. We live together and things were going so good, that is until these phone calls started coming in. There is a caller ID and also an answering machine for messages. Well, this female v...

We met online but never met. He afraid to me-how do I convince him otherwise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 573 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hi there, im 21 yrs old and i ment a guy online same age as me, we got on instantly really well. we have been talking for over 6 months we havent met yet due to distant and complications. we have strong feelings towards each other, we have txted , ...

The wedding is looming and I think we have issues to resolve first...or do we?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I am engaged to a wondefully caring man. There is no doubt he loves me and would go to the end of the earth to make me happy. I know I should be so lucky. However now that the wedding is looming - big decisions to make - I have cold feet. All the ...

I desperately like him but it's obvious he doesn't want to be with me. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my life is so hard a lad i really love who ive never felt this way about anybody before says he likes me when he might be getting something off me and doesn't act like it afterwards and doesn't want to do those things . I try to hard i hate my life ...

I thought he was my soul mate but he doesn't see me enough!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I "thought" I met my soulmate 4 months ago. I am 41 and he's 34 and we both are college graduates and in the education field. He asked me to marry him after he lands a promotion as a principal. The problem is although he calls me several times a ...

I love this guy but things have changed - how do I get them to go back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year, my senior year of high school as well as this past summer and our first semester at our individual colleges -- mine in North Carolina and his in Washington DC. I have been head over heels for this guy -- he ...

How can "us" girls know if a guy is sincere and genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - How can us girls tell if a guy is sincere and genuine in what he says? I read many problems where the guy is fantastic to start with and then becomes cold and distant and changes beyond all recognition to someone the girl hardly recognises. I am ...

How does one deal with unconsciously saying hurtful things your other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - how to deal with hurtful past incidents? How to deal with unconsciously saying hurtful things your other? How to deal with your other half when they become angry?...

He has baggage..a lot of it! A bitter ex wife, a pregnant ex gf...who are constantly harrassing us! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - i have finally found what i need in a man...but he has some baggage i am unsure of how to deal with! he is married but seperated...due for divorce in feb. he has two kids...the mother causes havoc because i am in his life. he was also seeing a girl ...

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend's lesbian bombshell?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - I have been involved with a girl I really like for the past few months..She seems like a great person and we seem like a great fit..I am 30 and she is 25..We have the same morals, beliefs, sense of humor, ect..Last week we were talking and she told ...

My friend moved in on a girl I liked. He says he didn't know about us.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - hi guys im not sure how i put this question but here goes.i started talkin to this girl ages ago we got to be pretty good freinds then after a while we got more serious . then a m8 of myn that didnt know about me an her started asking questions ...

My bf says he's bored with making love to me! I feel so self-conscious! How do I deal with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - My bloke of two years said i don't do enough during love making. I thought everything was ok. He says i don't touch him as much as i used to do. I just lie there and let him do everything. It's not true and has made me feel so conscious. We do ...

When I am dating women, I'm not sure what I am doing wrong? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - I need some help. I have no problem asking girls out, but I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. For example (I've only been with 2 girls, firs tone was typical high school one which was just holding hands, and I'm 19) the last one lasted a month we ...

He gets distant, for days, after we've had sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - i have been sleeping with a man who is separated and in the process of a divorce. he says he cares about me, but after we have sex, he seems distant for a few days. please help, i have fallen in love with him but i dont understand his behavior...

He is no longer a teacher of mine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Right, i posted a lil thing last week about me going out with an ex teacher...i clearly stated that he was my EX teacher and that i just wanted some advice, yet some moron thought it would nice to comment sayin that my bloke should go to prison if ...

I have no idea why on gods earth i cheated on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

28 December 2006 (?) - Hi!..i'm so Distrot!..i'm so upset i cheated on my boyfriend twice..once on Christmas..and once just a few houres ago..i have no idea y on gods earth i cheated on him i love him would never cheat and here i am and i gave to guys i don't even LIKE at ...

I'm basically his first really serious relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy for quite a while and he's started saying that he loves me and he truly acts like it. The only prob is that I'm basically his first really serious relationship so I'm scared that he only feels that way because he likes that ...

I still have that lingering fear that he's gonna change

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he's been talking about getting a place with me. I'd be totally for it except my last boyfriend acted almost the same way in the beginning but in the end turned out to be really mentally ...

He's been giving hint that he wants us to be more

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - im am a 17 year old girl and i been sleeping with a 29 year old guy i made it clear to him he is only a booty call as i have a high sex drive and it get so bad i cant consentrate at school recently he been giving hint that he wants us to be more ...

She's either seeing someone else or is ashamed to say she loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 weeks now. She had a bit of a fling with a work friend a few months ago and he keeps texting her saying things like hed like to see her in nothing but a baggy shirt. Then i was on the phone to her...

He said well you love me so prove it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - A girl I know just got dumped by her bf. They have been going out for a few months and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks ago it all changed. This girl got sexualy abused by her father and feels uncomfterble now in relationships. When it got worse he ...

I feel like I am neglecting my kids but it makes me sick to be with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - Because of a short term affair my wife had, we have been split up for about 6 months now.. I have been involved with someone who I care dearly about but I also have two children who mean more to me than anything.. I am not misserable when I am with ...

I don’t know whether to pursue the friends with exs thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Help. My ex broke it off with me just before Christmas. It has been the most confusing thing I have ever been through. The last time we saw each other didn’t go especially well, but we didn’t argue which I think had been part of the problem. We ...

I really hate my mother and how she puts my sister first (very long)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - What should I do my adult sister is ruining my life and my relationship with my other family. I am 50 years old and my sister is 48, we are both US citizens and college educated. My sister has juvenile diabetes that she got when she was 20 and i...

Now our relationship has become boring.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 576 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i started our relationship badly (sex only which then evolved) we got together and he cheated on me, we split up, got back together and have been now for nearly three years. now our relationship has become boring. we went through ...

I wont cheat but It's awfully tempting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - There a new guy Han who works for my uncle who owns a casino and I am very very very attracted to him ... I have never been attracted to any man like this before. However, my uncle and dad have both told me to stay away from anyone who 'works' for ...

I get jealous whenever i see women who are airbrushed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Why am i so jealous and insecure? Im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Hes a good man and will do anything for me and vice verca. Ive suffered from jealousy and insecurity now for many years, however i am better than i ha...

How do i get over a mentally, sexually, financially abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - ive been in love with the same mentally, sexually, financially abusive man for 10 years. how do i get over him and why am i still obssessing over him...

He's scared about leaving his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 576 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - i have recently started a new job and feel for a guy at work, however he has been living with a girl for 4 years, we love each other but hes scared about leaving his girlfriend, what shall i do to reassure him?...

she offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a relationship with her or not ever seeing my son again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - I am a father to a 15 year old boy, of which his mother and I have been apart for the past 12 years, but i have always made a point of maintaining a relationship with him. 2 years ago his mother offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a ...

I am worried i wont see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I have recently started to get feelings for a close mate from work, i've known her for sometime now as i am mates with her brother for a few years and i knew of her but didn't get to know her til she started working for the same company and her ...

We are soulmates, but for the past few days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 576 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and have lived together for 2 years. we are soulmates, but for the past few days, he has been really distant, and has kept his mobile on silent for the past few days and barely even acknowledges me. i dont ...

Is my wife cheating on me with her cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - This past year my wife of 13yrs went alone on a vacation trip to visit her male cousin in South America. A month later I found a reply email sent from him, in Spanish, to her that he can not be her lover because of the distance but if they get ...

He never tells about HIM or HIS life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - i have been seeing my boyfriend for a year at the begin of jan,we only ever spend 1 eving /night tog,firstly it was about evry 3 weeks,now its about evry 10 days or so,but he spent xmas eve,xmas day/boxing day morning with me -and sent e-mail 2hours ...

This is a long one but it's worth it..... What is her game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Hi there... I am 25, male, please help. (This may take a while, sorry its so long). Ive been going with a girl for well over a year now, we used to be best friends, and always have been. There was always chemistry between us, but she was wit...

She's lazy, overweight and we have nothing to say to each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year. And things lately have become a bit tedious. Because of her money restrictions and transport we find it hard too go out. We end up just staying in and not doing nothing, watching TV. I feel ...

I feel neglected when he's watching TV... ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 575 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - My bf loves to watch tv,but oftentimes i feel i'm neglected because he don't talk to me not like we're not watching.. what should i do? please help...

It hurts me to think he lies about masturbating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - I am 22 years old and my fiance is 24. We have a healthy relationship, sexual and other. I understand it is normal to masterbate, everyone does it. But it hurts my feelings when he does it and lies about it, and covers it up. He never just does ...

Should I be concerned he's talking to another girl on his mobile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - Hi, my b.f picked me up last night to go to his family's for christmas. Maybe 30 minutes later his phone rings i think indicating a text message b/c it only rang once. He went over to his phone and went to the other room but not completely b/c i...

How do I win my husband back from World of Warcraft?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 576 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9.5 months. We live together, along with 6 other people, two being his nephews, that aside his excessive game play on World of Warcraft is killing our relationship. For example, today he played for 8 hours, ...

He says he loves me but he ignores me all the time! It's making me feel so down..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 577 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend .. we been together a while now .. and well .. he tells me he loves me but latelyy we don't talk much .. he doesnt reply on msn ... onli sometimes .. he dont txt mee .. He dont ring me anymore .. we meet up occasionally but thats about ...

He lies, he views porn---why is it that a woman stays in a bad relationship even when they know they shouldn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 577 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - I have a problem. i'm in love with a porn addict and a liar. his lying, scheming porn addiction has really takin a burdon on our relationship and on top of everything else i deal with and take from him i have to deal with that to and im not up for ...

Everything was fine before xmas..now he doesn't return my calls! What is going on..any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 577 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - Hello I was hoping someone could shed some light on my situatiton. I have been in a relationship for nearly five years, we live in different cities and try to meet at least once a month. We have had our ups and downs in the past and always seemed to ...

How can I get the passion back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. It used to be great. We experimented a little bit, and we broke up for a little while. We got back together and we have been for about two months. We only broke up for a few weeks. Now she seems to ...