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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Giving it another chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a bad situation at the moment and have never felt so hurt before. I've never really trusted my partner 100% and I was correct for that as I found that he had the intention of sleeping with somebody behind my back which is extremel...

I think she might be cheating on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

30 November 2016 (M) - Hey i just like ask if im wrong in doing this. Me and my partner been together 13years. When we first met everything was great but now its so hard to just get a kiss or a cuddle from her for example. Last night she went to her pool game just lik...

What can I do? I don't want to lose my relationship with my niece so soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi I know this is advice about love but I am writing about how much I love my niece and I think it is unfair that my brother in-law's parents get to see her on Christmas and I don't get to see her during Christmas at all. I help take care of her a...

My girlfriend made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied. Where to now, with this relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - So I found out my girlfriend had made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied straight to my face about it and after a little while she finally admitted she made it. When I asked her why she made it she told me she was bored an...

He's playing with my head! What more can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Hello. I'm after so advise,I'm very confused I was seeing this guy since 2010 with him moving in with me, anyway 2013 he moved to another place out of town with me saying I think he had met someone else,we carried on speaking never saw each other ...

How do I deal with my controlling dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I feel like my dad is very controlling and it's uncomfortable for me being that I'm a 19 year old woman. He is someone who doesn't like people and has something negative to say about everything. He works from home so he is ALWAYS home ...

Is she in the wrong more than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - I have been with C----- for 2 years, engaged for 5 month. Pretty solid relationship, love her to pieces but our communication is off, she yells at/threatens me to get her point across and I just plain ignore her to spite her. This situation is a ...

Why was he being so open if all he wanted from me was sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Hi Everyone, I meet this guy online February 2016. We meet up in March. We both have 9yr old girls, have stuff in common. We hit it off staright away. We meet up every weekend...days out with our children. By April it got very intease, we were...

My head is turning! how do stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

28 November 2016 (M) - I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. Our relationship has always been a bit turbulent. We have had issues as all relationships will suffer through from time to time, but we have always stuck it out and gotten through. We lived toget...

I am his great big secret!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy 16 years older than me for the last 6 months. He has been divorced twice and have 3 teenage/young adult children with his first wife and a 3 yr old daughter with the second. He divorced 18 months ago. I have 2 teenagers and ...

My boyfriend makes me feel so bad about myself

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I don't know what to do, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we've lived together for about 5 months, he's mostly a really nice guy, but he doesn't show me any emotional support whatsoever, i have told him i need him to emotionally ...

Am I reading too much into what my boyfriend said?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2684 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - I would appreciate some insight from the following...I am questioning whether or not I am reading too much into it or if it is indeed something I should be concerned about. A few evenings ago, my boyfriend of a year and I were having some cock...

I just want things back to normal between us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - How do you make a situation less awkward? About 3 months ago I got with a colleague and in short, he was an idiot about things and very misleading. He's clearly in the wrong and has never apologised or addressed the situation, but that's besides ...

Why don't my parents listen to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - Just had my retired parents(who live interstate) hang up a phone call in my ear as I criticised them for not listening,(which they dont!)? Im a shift worker and am only available to talk on phone certain times, they do not get this! and feel...

Boyfriend wants me to give another man oral sex.I am not happy with this!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been pressuring me into blowing another guy and I feel completely uncomfortable with the idea, I have told him this everytime he's asked and now he brings it up in the middle of sex or while he's dirty talking, I told him I'd ...

Please help: where is the line drawn between insecurity and stepping over boundaries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I was wondering how best to approach my boyfriend (of 3.5 years) and talk to him about something in our relationship I'm not happy with. We are usually very open and encourage communicating so I don't have any worries about him getting upse...

Is she trying to avoid going out with me? Or just not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

24 November 2016 (M) - First I would like to give a little background on the situation (please bear with it as it is going to be long). Me and this girl in my class have been talking for a month and i liked her.A few days ago we decided to go for a movie on this sunday. ...

Should my partner go to a family function? They don't approve of our relationship and I cannot go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - I am in a same sex relationship for three years now. When i met my partner i came out to my family and friends. My partner was in an abusive relationship and left it to be with me. We were friends for years first. When her family first me me thin...

What does my best friend want from me? He is married but keeps asking for a secret relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - He is married for 7 months. And he wants me to be in secret relationship with him. We are close friends since very long time and back in our college days we used to like each other not genuinely but just like crush on each other. We got so ...

My dad's new partner won't let him have a relationship with me. is she insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - He cheated with her on my mother!!! Then he left her for my mother after 4 weeks of being with her and dumping my mum. Everytime me and my dad arrange to spend time together she seems to put a stop to it. My dad has to call and text me secretly ...

Should I have given this guy a third chance to meet up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - This guy contacted me on a dating website and he was originally from my area. He is a good listener, has a good sense of humor, and actually knows how to use a phone unlike other guys on the website who seem to like to hide behind texts. We hit it ...

Truse issues, especially with older men. How can I find a healthy balance and deal effectively with this pressure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I'm starting to have trouble trusting men, especially older men. Being in a work environment where I am usually the only woman in the department, and a still semi-young one at that, I tend to get the attention from older colleagues. I'm sure mos...

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

Fiance issues. What should I do? What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - MODNOTE two issues concerning fiancé combined. . . . . . . My fiancé a couple of years ago, made some very bad decisions and cheating on me many times as well as lied, hid a 2nd phone to be able to chat with other women, and was sleeping wit...

She broke her virginity with my brother and friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - Well this happened Saturday during her 18th Birthday celebration, after I left for the night. anyways she had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother and lost her virginity as well. (they did it about four times that night), ...

Am I falling for the same type of man all over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - So I've been single for over a year, not been near anyone since and have been working on myself. My last breakup I realised was an entire lie... A lie which ended in a court case for me ex for assault... He should of got ABH if not attempted murder ...

How do I deal with my uncaring in-laws over the holidays?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - Just to spare you the medical details: A few weeks ago, out of nowhere my elderly mom had to be hospitalized for a medical emergency. After 5 days she was released to a nursing home, but on Hospice. She Can no longer walk nor hold a conversation, ...

My boyfriend gets bullied and walked over by his family, and I don't know what I can do to help him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I have been together for 3 months, and only recently I'm starting to see how he gets treated by his family. He is the kind of guy who is too nice, the one who will do whatever he can to not upset or offend anybody, and because ...

How can I help myself? I am so confused. Our relationship has problems, but I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I think my relationship is over.... I found out that my man is registered with a site called ^^^chat. I confronted him 6 months later, he swore on his mum's life and his children from previous marriage that it was not him. few months later in ...

Did I give this much older man the wrong signals by giving him my phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I made a bad mistake. I have been in the US for few years but don't know much about dating as I moved here with my ex husband.I got divorce 2 years ago and I have never dated here and no interest to do so even I get lots of attention. Here is the p...

I'm worried that my anxiety is making my job performance even worse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Dearest Aunts and Uncles, I would love to have some advice and any ways of coping or what to do please. To give you some background I work in the media and last year was at what I thought was the most amazing job, I was there four years and ...

I want to sort everything out with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Sorry this is really long and kind of a rant but I need help sooooooo bad ?? Me an my boyfriend have been having a few problems latlely and it feels like I'm going to lose him. We've been together for 1 year and 3 months today and I need him like...

Why does she call me daddy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

21 November 2016 (M) - I have a friend who is from South East Asia. She is 4 years older and I'm 25. I've known her for like 2 years now. She's always had this name that she calls me, I guess it's in her native language because I don't understand it. Recently thoug...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

How can I make co parenting work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Does anyone have experience in co-parenting? I recently split from my boyfriend, and we have 2 children. Things ended pretty badly, but I've accepted that we're through. I think he's taking it a bit harder than I am, but as a mother, you don't have ...

My co worker hung up even though she was expecting a call from me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - One of my co-workers, lets call her lady A, wanted another co-work's number, lets call her lady B, who works the same shift as me,.She wants me to ask lady B about a set light that she has.I have Lady's B number so Lady A gave me her number to ...

How do people get over being bullied? I can't get over this bullying experience

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts. I am struggling to get over an experience which Is effecting my professional and personal life And I wanted to share with you. About a year ago I was working for what id call a "cowboy" firm. Bad accountancy practices, awful manageme...

What happened to our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. Everything was going great until about half a year ago. Our daily routine for the first two years of our relationship is to Facetime for about an hour and a half to two hours, while having dinner and watching...

Ex took my past and threw it in my face. Does he have the right to do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - I don't really like to talk about my past because I've done things that I'm not proud of. I spent a few years in counseling. I had a drinking problem and an anger problem. It all stemmed from an assault i experienced, as well as being in an abusive ...

She said she loved me and then completely blocked me. That isn't love is it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 5 months. By both of our accounts it was pretty much the most idyllic relationship either of us had ever been in. The most we ever disagree about was where we were going to get dinner. We never ...

I feel strung along. How do I let go of him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hey, okay so, I have been talking to this guy for 3/4 years who I met at college. We have met a handful of times but we haven't met in over a year but we still text, all day everyday and have done for 3/4 years. If we go without one day without ...

Long distance friend always says he wants to see me and then goes cold. Should I pursue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hello, For the last 5:6 years, I met this guy on a dating website. We were in and out of talk for this time. We would have times we would talk and then not talk for months and talk again. We have so much in common and we both really want to m...

My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...

My girlfriend is too controlling and I feel like running away

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3 years now. I lost my job 3 months ago. I've been busy Monday through Friday teaching part-time and learning some new stuff. I told her that I'd be hanging out with my friends on a Friday's night. She ...

My boyfriend doesn't act like a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - So.... My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and are living together. We rarely argue. My problem is that most of the time I feel like I don't have a boyfriend. No texts or calls from him unless he has a question. When he gets home from work ...

My girlfriend is flirting with my best friend and I'm worried about what will happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are too close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to...

Had enough. What now? I'm honestly so ready to run, but I truly love my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - My husband and refuses to stand up for me when it comes to his crazy family. I was harassed during my husband's deployment. I have been through hell and back and defended my husband but I can't get the same in return. I always thought he would...

Everytime I turn around she needs money.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

17 November 2016 (M) - I am currently in a LDR and it has become frustrating how financially dependent she has become. We were in this situation when we lived in the same town, however, I was living at home and didn't pay any bills while working. Now I am living on my own ...

Am I "withholding love" and therefore being manipulative??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - When my partner and I have a bad fight, she leaves for days, and I'm unable to display love. It feels fake if in the middle of everything I said "I love you so much" or "How are you doing, I miss you". I'm not withholding love as a punishment or to ...

Why does my pastor ignore me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

16 November 2016 (F) - Why does my Pastor ignore me? I started going along to a new Church with my Son's now ex gf. The Church seemed great, pastor was very friendly. Then I had a accident so couldn't get out for a few weeks. I have tried reaching out to him via text or ...