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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I stay with him? Or is this just crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I met this guy on a Christian Dating site. I was sick of all the guys i had been dating, they were pressuring me into sex, i felt used and worthless. I'm a Christian, so i think - That's the problem, they don't share my faith! I had always wanted to ...

Boyfriend doesn't like the fact that I'm not confident!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - So basically my bf and I have been dating for 5 months now and he's now voiced his concerns over the fact that im not confident enough and that he hates it. So my question is how can I be more confident? Thank you. =]....

How do I improve the outcome of the month break? I want to get back with my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up a few days ago... he said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. he also said that he needs space and when we were in the relationship that i smothered him, and i didn't give him enough space. he said t...

My mother broke her promise to me and really let me down. Should she apologize?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I have been living on my own for some time now few years, and done actual very well, but my car broke down and so I have no way to get around I am in a very tiny rural town and without a car you cant get around. I told my mother this but never asked ...

He didn't think "cyber sex" and "phone sex" were cheating. He promises he's changed. Trust, or no?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - First off, thanks in advance to all of those who are reading this and willing to help out...I really do appreciate it....(I apologize for the length of this issue, but the details will help you understand the problem) I've been dating my bf for...

Why is she so angry when I tell her she should save her money and only send her family what is necessary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - My girl freind and i are planing on getting married and living together next year. We are saving money and working hard but recently we had a discussion about money and it all went bad after that. She is Vietnamese and her mother and father and ...

Why do I avoid having vaginal sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I am 23 I have two girlfriends who wants to have sex with me. but i fear guilty after having sex with them. although I am interested in sex with them. We dont have a long time plan or marriage plan as such. but fear of guilt after s...

I want to win him back, jerk or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - It's a very long story. He and I have been best friends for 4 years, then he asked me out, since then we've been together for 3 years. Many ups and downs, two beak-ups. I still love him. Recently, he broke up with me because he said he has feeling ...

Why most Women are attracted to Bad Men

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Every woman on the planet that has ever been involved with a man that was not worthy of her has asked of herself these questions..."Why can't I find a decent guy, Why do I always meet the wrong men and When will I find a man who really loves me?" ...

I can't keep being her doormat, I have feelings too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Where to start? Around 3 years ago, I went out with a girl I had known for several years she had been in a relationship where her boyfriend lied cheated and even beat her. I got together with her around a year after that relationship fin...

Why is he now ignoring me after what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Guys I need some help please, I'm going off my head here wondering what happened or what I did for this guy to ignore me! A bit long, but here goes... In a nut shell, we work in the same building and have chatted a couple of times in the last yea...

I'm stuck with a person that doesn't love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm having a really really hard time... two months ago I lost my virginity with my boyfriend, and to be honest I did it because he wanted because if he didn't i'd never ask for it, i'd take things slower than we did... So know I feel like i'm...

Where is this going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - so, its 6 years we have known each other 5 and a half we have been a couple, since feb we have lived together. he is a part of my life in every way christmas with my family, birthdays new year. but i have never met his parents, and i cant do it ...

Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex(long distance relationship) two years ago. I still loved him but couldn't bare the fact that he had a girl who lives in the same city with him. I can't forget about him and he's begging me to give him another chance and swears ...

Should I just take it slow for a couple of months and if it doesn't move forward, move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I don't understand. We broke up but he keeps coming back to me. He told me he doesn't want a commitment but when I don't call him he keeps calling me and I go back. He is all lovey dovey like a true relaionship even talking about us vacationing ...

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - why don't talk to me anymore and i think he has dumped me. he never talk's or texts me the last time we talked was the 2nd of september and everything was fine then we spoke about the new house and getting married but now nothing. and i have found ...

I was upset, went off alone, was raped and none of my friends even bothered to call me to see if I was ok!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - On Saturday night I went out with 3 of my friends and was supposed to be staying over at one of their flats. I've never really felt like these girls like me that much, although they say things that make me feel like they do ("i'm soooo excited that ...

All I want is for us to be together as a family, how can we work through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 6 months wants a break to concentrate on her son,i find this hard,we got together after we split with our long term partners,i was with my ex for 13 years,her with hers for 6 years,her relationship was very abusive and violent,her ...

I prefer to be single! So why can't I just break up with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I am the queen of non-commitment. Im like the one female on earth that doesnt believe in marriage and children, I dont believe humans are built that way. Ive been in a relationship for 3 months now, and everything is awful but I cant seem to end it! ...

Why can't women stop being friends with their exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - OK, I dated this girl back in high school in 06. we got along great. We spent a lot of time together but it didn't work out. On and off. Main reason was because i was the quiet kind of person. Id rather hang out and spend time type. she was more of ...

At the end of our trip, he pushed me out of his room and closed the door in my face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - we were just friends through the internet and he came to my country. we met and traveled together for couple of days. while we were together he tried to have sex with me. i was shocked, why he wanted to have sex with me although he don't like me or ...

We had a good sex life, now she's not interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I am 25, my gf is 23. we been together for nearly 2 years. we had really good sex life, but all of a sudden my gf start saying she dont feel like to have sex. its nearly a 2 month, why it can be/???...

He ripped out my heart and now I feel ruined! Please help me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I am so sad, feel like such a fool, so angry, and so hopeless, and alone. I met jeremy 10 mths ago. We clicked right away. same taste in music, movies, books, and more. Same sense of humor, views on life. We became best friends and were in ...