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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just want to know if there's anything that I can do or say that will get him at least making an EFFORT

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I just need a second opinion to make sure I'm not going mad. This is a question about my boyfriend and and my family. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years. During which time my boyfriend has met my family about fiv...

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, ...

I do love him a lot but am I a mug?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - This is a long story lol.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years ( 6 Month break between) we have a 2 yr old daughter also. Anyways at first he was perfect but after aa while of him smoking drugs I ended with him an found someone kn...

Women: do you want a bad guy or a good guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, i am hopin someone can help me here, prefferably a female. I know a girl whom I am attracted to but she is not interested in me just want to be friends. i am a nice guy. steady job, supportive, relaitvely stable, kind, et cetera. But she ...

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average ...

I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, I know this has nothing to do with dating issues etc. But I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have. Sure we get along every-time, laugh, agree on the same things.... but just that because when it comes to...

I am not satisfied with my wife...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - hi i am 34 years of age married man from amravati, india. we have been together since 3 years. Why i dont know i am not happy with my married life. I alway think some thing is missing in my life. My wife doesn't understand my feeling and my fantasy ...

He says he loves me but I have my doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - We've been married 21 years minus 4 year of separation. It was a terrible break. He got the teenagers to side with him and threw me out! Then our first born and only daughter died and I was shattered. I was so unstable that I needed someone and I ...

New boyfriend and his ex-issues, should he keep talking to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 6 months. He was on again off again with his ex and finally ended it for good in march. They were still in contact every day and she lives close. She doesn't like me at all and has been trying to get him ...

He'd rather touch himself than touch me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I dont know where to start or if my marriage is too far gone. He has informed me that he would rather masterbate to porn than to touch me. We do not have a very active sex life and he has always stated it was because of his depression. I find out ...

My boyfriend loves the attention, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - The first encounter which lead me to believe I have something to worry about is when he was at his brother's house and they were there.He was talking to me and he told me to hold on.They were talking about the fact that he has my name tattooed on ...

My ex girlfriend has left me for another guy but I still love her, is there any chance of winning her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hi there all. This is my first major break up, my girlfriend of 3 years recently went to university, i was seeing her every weekend, in till during the week she broke up with me and got with another guy. The way she did it was so awful, i d...

Should I be moving on, or should I continue chasing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, this is my first time posting qns here... Anyway, there is this girl I like, and she already knew since i had told her. and it seems that she has been giving me several signal that she likes me as well. The problems is that she have several...

One day he said he would love me forever, the next day he hates me and has found a new partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I Was in a relationship for 6 years on and off for a year because another person they went with we got back together 2 years now we became partners a month ago a week later they text me they dont love me and is with another person already! how can ...

Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy we will call him ...... bill. i met him a while ago but we started to hangout again here a few weeks ago. Were always together but me him and his best friend and one of my friends all got drunk together the other night. I really like ...

In love with two women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I never thought I would go through this, especially not now, but I'm in love with two people, two women. I met this wonderful girl a couple of months ago, we see each other almost everyday and it's always great. I trust her completely and she trusts ...

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and have feelings for his best friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I like my boyfriends friend and I don't know what to do? So here it goes this story may be long, crazy and strange. and please don't be rude believe me i already feel weird enough... okay so i have been with my bf for 2yrs (we will call him bo...

I feel like my life has fallen apart and I feel very alone......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Where to start? Well have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. We have a child together, she is 15 mos old (I am stay at home mom). It seems every 3-4 months we get into a big fight, where he says he is unhappy. This last fight I had it, if h...

Is he going to marry me? Or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Please help! My boyfriend of one year seems unsure if he wants to marry me. This really hurts me because at this pont am ready to be married to him. He used to be so sure about getting married--but lately he said.. we didnt get along so well that he ...

How do you stop thinking about what your ex is up to, and eradicate resentful feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months ago, and I'm moving on and stuff. We are not in contact and I've accepted that and I'm just moving on with my life. One problem is that now and again I have thoughts which crop up and bother me: I ...

How can I get our relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and I got my first boyfriend a year and a half ago. We're still together, but recently he's been acting differently around me. I feel like now he doesn't care about me at all. He started acting differently when his brother died a couple of ...

How do I get her to slow down in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So I'm with this gorgeous woman for a little over a year. We are both very sexual, but she is the first new partner I've been with in a while. The problem I am having is I don't orgasm quickly with her, and in fact, I don't feel like sex with her ...

My girlfriend has been slowly distancing herself from me, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Im getting conflicting messages from my girlfriend. We have been together for 4 years and for past 3 she has slowly, bit by bit, distanced herself from me. She tells me she loves me, but only when I ask. However her body language tells me somet...

Is it wrong to feel tempted by the opposite sex when you are in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Is it right to get attracted to a member of the opposite sex even though you are in a relationship that is going well? And when this happens...is it wrong to feel tempted? ...

I keep finding texts on my husbands phone, am I flogging a dead horse here or should I try and make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - three weeks ago i found some texts on my husbands phone (he had been out drinking all night with his mates again, and obviously got careless and forgot to delete them) they were not text that i would send to just a friend. "I would give anything to ...

Is it fair to request that he deletes his ex-girlfriend's phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My fiancee has an ex that he shares a long history with. They were off and on for years and he cheated on one of his girlfriends twice with her as well. It was about 5 years ago, and the girl he cheated on was crazy and he wasn't in love with her. ...

I cant deal with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hi there my girlfriend and I have been living together for three months, and in this period of time our relationship has fallen apart. I want to move out, but I feel that will wreak havoc on my schoolwork and that I will have to finish the lease and ...

He broke up with me because he thinks he was a bad boyfriend! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he was a bad boyfriend and he did everything wrong? erm a couple of months ago our relationship was a little rough because he cheated on me and was texting other girls, i got fed up of it and he got fe...

I feel doomed to a very lonely sex life at 36!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have the most thoughtful and loving partner i've ever had (Except in the bedroom). We've been together 2 years now and it's gotten worse. He's 34 and does a very physical job for a living, has a long drive there and back and does get up very ...

I have an issue with cum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I honestly do not like cum. If i look at it, taste, feel or even think about it too much, i gag and feel like i'm going to vomit. I've always pushed past this feeling of nausea, and just dealt with it, i've pretended that it didn't bother me. But it ...

What's the best thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - hi guys can anyone tell me how to sort this out ? ive worked with a guy for over a year im really fond of him and we were very close friends. he was in a bad way when i met him and viewing him as a good friend i did all i could to help him. i help...

Why has our sex life become so bad? I know he isnt cheating, so what could it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Help! I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and our sex life has become non-existant. It started a year ago when I realized he was never going to go down on me, despite the fact that I give him fanastic BJs everytime. (Really - I could suck ...

What have I done to deserve the cold shoulder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 3.5 years and have been living together for 2.5 years everything was going well until out of the blue he told me he didn't love me anymore. When this happened i felt lost i didn't know where our future was going. He then ...

Why doesn't my new partner want to see my ex wife's child when I raised him as my own for 8 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i am wondering if any one can explain why my new partner doesnt want me to see my ex wifes child even though i bought him up for 8 years since was one and he is my sons half brother ? confused...

We've been rather distant recently, I'm worried I might lose her!

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30 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone I'm new to this whole asking questions about relationships and stuff kind of. But yeah anyway there's this girl I met online from las vegas and I'm from chicago. we met while I was in highschool my freshman year and we've been frien...

He only seems to talk about sex and forgets important dates, am I right to doubt him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i am in wierd situation i am in an affair from past 2 years but we are not been on any date together from 2 years as my boyfriend stays abroad and nowhe is coming to india .he has a plan to meet but still i am not sure he love me or not because h...

Now that I'm knocked up, he's nowhere to be found!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I Am 6 months pregnant by a man i've been with for years. We had the perfect relationship before the baby,(so it seemed) but now NOTHINGS the same. Im finding out things now he did when we were together. He ignores me constantly and even broke it ...

Should I invite my enemy to lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi there is this woman at work who invent s things against me and what not. accused me of screwing her husband and always spreads bad rumors about me though everyone I talk to does not like her. I wondered if I should simply invite her out to see ...

How do I learn to be ok with this? My partner wants to become a woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year and a half. serious for about 10 months. we live together and he gave me a promise ring because neither one of us is ready to get married but we are committed to each other. he is very sexual and ...

Does she miss me? Does she just want to be friends? What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So, I was dating this girl during the summer. She's 2 years younger than I am, but we had a lot of fun together. I was serious about dating her, even though it was never "official." Anyways, we ended up having Her First Kiss. A few days later, she ...

While we were on a break she kissed another guy, and now she wants me to be friends with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I Really, Really need help and advice here! So here is my problem: my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and during that time we separated for a month. We had been having some problems and she decided we needed time to clear ...

I'm scared to break his heart, I'm the only person he trusts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months, he is madly in love with me but i just have never felt the spark in the relationship. its a secret from my parents and is just too hard trying to find ways around them and im sick of disappointing ...

I cant stand the idea of not being with him, but then again I know deep down it is the right thing to end it.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a confused state. I've been with this guy for two years. Our relationship has been far from fairy tale, but we made each other happy. So we've been in a long distance relationship for the past 8 months. Its been really hard. He questio...

Why did my married lover walk away from me? There are so many questions left unanswered!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm newbie here. Anyways, I just wanted to share my story, a story which I held it for a long time since I don't have no one to talk to..This is gonna be a long one, but i'll try to make it short as much as I can. I hope you guys will understand ...

24 reasons of why I should break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok so I've listed the things my ex has done during our 6 month relationship. What would others say/do in response to this kind of behaviour? 1. Leaving me outside in the cold waiting for him while he continued to drink with mates and ignore me...

Is it possible people are shying away from me because of my stress and anxiety?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am 29 year old single guy. I have been suffering from depression for last 8 years. I feel extremely anxious at workplace and cannot concentrate on work. I generally avoid contact with people and i want to stay way from them. Same thing happens ...

I'm entitled to explore my sexuality but I don't want my boyfriend to join in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I love, but.... I've always wanted to try being with a girl. It's something I want to do on my own, so would it be terrible of me to do this and tell him afterwards? I came close to doing it last year when I first entered ...

My curfew is causing problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - What is going on? Should I break up with him? We have been dating for nearly 5 months. I don't want to say that our relationship is perfect but we hadn't been through any dramas or fights. He is a year older than me, much more mature but has a...

Why is this guy so mean to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a tennis class with him and every time I do something, he criticizes me. I barely even talk to him! I don't even GLANCE in his direction. I'd walk around with my tennis racket, he'd call me a loser. I'd hug my friend and he'd call me gay. I'd ...

Women: Actions Speak Louder Than Words

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - Warning:(The following contains broad generalizations to illustrate a point, there are no rules nor concrete all encompassing truths in what I write, there are always exceptions. This applies to men too) I've been on this site for a while now and ...