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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What can I do about my clingy friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (?) - I'm not sure what to do. I have a clingy friend and I've been able to tolerate it for a couple months, but now it's to the point where I'm tired of it. If I don't pick up when she calls me, she repeatedly calls me back until I answer plus she texts ...

I'm the smotherer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months now and I think that whole honey moon phase is coming to a crashing halt. And well, I don't like it but I'm going to get used to it because I want to be with this guy and that's just how ...

He knows I don't like him talking to his ex but he does it anyways!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - i just need some advice. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and were both young. hes a senior and im in college. his ex girlfriend has been spreading nonsense about him around his school making it hard for him to make any friends....

I worship her like God but she's married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - I am in love with a married woman. She is one of our teaching staff in our college. I don't know when it started but now I can feel that. At First I was thinking that its just an infatuation,and will go out of mind after some time. But it didn't. I ...

He thinks we should take a break to purse our lives and not stifle one another

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. We both love each other very much, we live together and have made plans to share the rest of our lives together. We have had the usual fights and differences in relationships, up until ...

I feel second best to her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship; in November, we will have been together for two years. She started grad school recently, and she says that she wants a change of scenery because she's been sitting around the house lately ...

He asked for a break, slept with someone else and now is on a year sabbatical..where does that leave us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - HELP HELP HELP I have been with my fiance for 7.5years and have had fantastic times with him. We have beenn all over thw world and had amazing times. The only problem is I can only ever spend the night on a saturday night. He is not married,...

Is it a good idea to stop taking his calls so he can decide if he wants this relationship? Or will ignoring him just drive him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up after a 3 years relationship. I was devastated. We didnt speak for about a month and then he starts calling and sending me text messages to say lets meet up and talk. I relented after a week and met up with him. He said ...

Do you think she regrets "settling" while she was so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - I fear this may be a long post as I have a lot on my mind at the moment. My situation is as follows: I have been happily married to my wonderful wife for the past 7 years but our relationship dynamics have changed drastically over this ti...

What can I do to ignore their taunts and stop them from aggravating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have been working at my job sincee 1999. A lot of guys that worked there had tried to talk to me, but I was never interested. Many of them seem to be up to no good. I have always tried to carry myself in a respectable manner and treat people like ...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years(we are both 26). We bought a house 3 years ago and until 12 months ago were happy as ever. 6 months ago I began mentioning that I thought it was time we got engaged. He always changed the ...

Unsure what to think of my wife's talk and actions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - some advise plzzzzz. from my previous posts you may remember my wife and i had separated awhile ago and she had played around. now back together and all seems good, but my trust in her is little if any. what i would like some advise with are ...

Husband/daughter clash and how do I work this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - myhusband is angry with one of our adult children for what he feels is lack or repect , when in fact it is mostly just his strong personality and our daughter being of same personality,and would rather not spend any more time with her unless its ...

I got talked into having sex and now he says he's not ready for a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I having bee seeing this guy. He went to ontario for a month then came back on sunday in which i picked him up from the airport and paid for his plane ticket. My truck died on saturday so i had to pay for a rental car to drive him 3 hours back to ...

Torn between 2 girls, part of me wants them both but know I can't do that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - Hello all, I'm really in need of some impartial advice. I am 24 and I have been going out with a girl for over 3 and a half years now. Due to our locations and the hours we work we have only been able to see eachother once a week for the whole time ...

Dating a man, and developing deep feelings for him, but the no sex thing has me confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for 6 weeks. He is very nice and I'm beginning to have deep feelings for him. The problem is, I don't know if he feels the same. He told me that in the past, he has had a tendency to get very involved very quickly. The ...

What will make him come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been growing apart. he no longer does cute stuff anymore and hardly hangs out with me... when I asked him what was up he said he wanted to be in the relationship but sometimes her doesnt... he also admitted to me that he's ...

His ex is a destructive monster!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - Well here it go's. I'm married to a man I love very much. For the past four years we have dealt with his insane ex wife that is a parasite for his money. They have a son I adore but she has braine washed him to be distant from me. My husband has ...

If he wants me back so much why would he have let me just like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - He was my best friend and we sometimes kissed knowing we were only friends. I got feelings for him and eventually asked him to be more serious with me. He declined saying he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I took it well and decided he just ...

Why does she seem determined to make me feel bad about everything I say and do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (?) - We've been friends for 10 years. The entire time, this gal always tries to debate everything with me. It seems like she tries to put me down on purpose. For example, she'll make comments about my hair and how I have a "big forehead." When I wa...

I can't cope with seeing him! I'm still sick about this break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - My ex broke up with me a few months bk now over a txt and I have been trying to get over it. I refused to go back to him when he begged me to take him back. He was abusive, used to kick bins punch walls have jealous rages when i mentioned other boys ...