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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I end this relationship? It hurts me to end something that has so much potential and beauty to grow

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma. I come from a very traditional Pakistani family but born and raised in the states. I grew up wanting a Pakistani guy who looks like me and has similar values and upbringing because it's so complex and detailed. An...

What do I do? My BF refuses to stop talking to a girl he had a crush on before meeting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - So I moved in with my boyfriend in the end of OCT . It was love at first meeting and a very quick move in together. He moved me in on his birthday of all things and said I was the best birthday gift ever. Well since then Ive had to wade through ...

Did I make a mistake when I decided to let him go? Broke up last night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - i really don't know how to express myself still i will try. Its been 2 years since i am dating my boyfriend. Both of us are in our late twenties and this is the 2nd relationship for both of us. We started dating in 2014 before that we were ...

Am I a woman who just can't help herself? I've fallen in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - He is married, I have fallen so deeply in love with him I can't let go. My feeling is since we both can't and don't want to let go we should just ride the situation that we are in and see where it takes us. Every man who is single only wants to sl...

Deal breaker? Should I end my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - I'm really heart broken and disappointed. I am in a LDR realtionship for 3 years and my fiancé is going to come where I live and get marry this summer. It has been an extremely difficult pat to get here. We both are divorced his wife moved to an...

I don't want to be fired but feel uncomfortable with what my boss is requesting me to do

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I started my job yesterday as an administrative assistant, at a private accounting firm. My boss told me today she wants me to call tomorrow a credit card company and be her and ask them to waive a fee for her. I feel kind of uncomfor...

Is it wise to confront him with all that I have found out about him in contact with his ex? We have been together for 12 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with this man for 12 years I just recently found out that he has been paying for his ex bills though their kids are grown Found out Thur text on his phone with texting and calling each on it the daily found text where they are send...

Is he wasting my time? Am I kidding myself, for considering that one day he may want to get married?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend (hate that word at my age) for almost 2 years, he moved in with me a little over a year ago. A while back we had a conversation about commitment type things and he said he had a four year rule, that he wouldn't...

Will his friend be thinking I am an absolute idiot to still stay with him? I think my husband took another girl's number while away with the army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - Hey. I need to know if I'm being silly or not. Last month my husband went away abroad with the army to malta and while he was there got girls numbers etc to be honest Anyway he wants us to go out with a guy and his gf, the guy we are meeting wen...

Truth or fake? Wish I never catfished him. Do I tell him the truth and end up with losing him, because he feels betrayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - So I had this crush and I found his boyfriend on online. I started talking to his boyfriend but used him to get info on his now ex. As it turns out me and him click I really like him as a friend and now after nearly 4 months of talking I feel bad...

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotiona...

He's asked for a second chance and I said no. Should I let him back? He's so jealous.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy and at the beggining everything was great.it was my first relationship so i was really excited so was he. he was really in love with me and after a month he first told me he loved me. BUT he was jealous all ...

How can I stand tall this time without letting him back into my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - Hello and thanks for your help. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years. His attitude isn't good to say the least. He dictates how long I need to stay when I'm with him. If I can only stay a couple hours he argues. He wants me to cons...

Husband is complacent, and I am fliriting with a co worker.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have been married for 3 years now and I love my husband very much. There is a problem and I do not know how to overcome it. I have been gaining feelings for a coworker and I know that my coworker feels the same, we are always flirting and I cannot ...

My boyfriend is a dad, and the child's mother hates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone thank you in advance for helping me I am having an issue here and need advice desperately. For the last 5 months I have been dating a great man who has a 4 year old son with his ex fiancé, a woman who he still remains close wi...

Tips, please? How to deal with a rude much younger colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - when a work colleague ignores you? what to do? you say hi at start of work, they ignore you or say sharply "hi" or blank you and say nothing but talk and smile (and hug at times) and say hi to others you've done nothing wrong you work with th...

Boyfriend ghosted and I'm trying to move on, but always anxious and unhappy with life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of three months ghosted on me one and a half months ago. We had an amazing relationship and I was shocked to the core. I feel that it's been more than enough time to get over him but he's always still fresh on my mind. I've given up ...

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

My unemployed wife does very little around the house

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

27 March 2016 (M) - My wife gets so little housework done and I'm fed up of living in a dump. She's a sahm with a 6 and 11 yr old and really doesn't enjoy being a housewife. We're comfortable enough on my income, but not living a life of luxury by any means. She ...

I cant deal with my boyfriends irresponsibility

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - hi, i need an advice regarding a bad situation between my bf and i. we are together for 2 years. in february he was in a car accident and needed some financial help to cover the expenses. i didnt have any cash at that moment but my $1000.00 credit ...

I try to love my friend's child but it's just so hard! He's incredibly rude and I hate spending time with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I'm not sure how to express myself on this one or even what my exact question is or even if I HAVE a question.... all I know is that I feel really bad about this. My friend and I have known each other for over 10 years now. Her son has just tur...

I'm Sexually innexperienced , does it affect my chances of meeting someone ? (Bi)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - Dear People of dearcupid.org Let me start off first by writing about myself. I am a bi sexual male in the early 20s , living in Europe. I don't prefer any gender over the other. I work out regularly and I like my self the way I am. You could ...

We are always fighting and he says I push him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 6years now we met @school l love him so much and I don't want to lose him but the problem we always fight,he tells me am pushing him away and I don't know what to do...l Dnt want to lose him he means a lot to ...

Dumped by a cowardly text!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi I am hoping for some guidance with something that has happened to me this week. My boyfriend of a year dumped me by text. It was literally a line saying lets call it a day, following a couple of harsh texts between us. Ironically, I act...

Did I jump the gun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - So I have worked with this girl for about 2 years now and well we get on well and I do fancy her but have not let myself fully like her . She is very flirty physically and emotionally I know she can be with another lad although she says she seems ...

I lost 42 pounds and gained confidence. Why are people now so mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm struggling at the moment as I'm quite a sensitive person and I've always wanted to be liked by everyone. This means that sometimes I give people more effort or time than they would give me and I take comments people make quite perso...

Should I marry him knowing what I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and carin...

I think I'm turning into a bunny boiler! How do I explain things to my ex and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Help - I think I'm turning into a bunny boiler!! How do I reverse this and make people trust me again? Without going into too much details - I was dumped by my ex, blocked and given no explanation. He wouldn't answer my calls or explain what I'd...

I accepted his proposal, but I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and carin...

My boyfriend has turned into a jerk since taking sick leave

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone! My boyfriend is currently in a difficult situation - he is 41, a barman, and has been off work on sick leave since last August. He had an operation on his back in January and his sick leave ends in the middle of April, so basically he ...

I feel like the rebound...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ok so I've been chatting online to a guy for the past 3 months casually enough but then we decided to have our first date, that's about 6 weeks ago now and we're now on date 14. I'm a very shy and insecure person so this is a massive step for me. H...

Should I be concerned? My fiance takes her phone everywhere and I think she's hiding something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

24 March 2016 (M) - So I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years and engaged for a couple years now. Recently things have changed her personality she's bitchy and nasty then other times it's how things used to be. She still says I love you and kisses me good bye. The ...

Boyfriend is angry because I'm not ready for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - my boyfriend and me are in a relation since last three years. he says he wants sex but i am not ready. he got angry when i said so. I really love him and i dont want to lose him. but i am really not ready for sex. he is really angry with me when i ...

I called my boyfriend's parents house several times and he reported me to the police

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - I did something wrong today. Last night I got into a huge fight with my boyfriend because he never has time for me and always makes me feel second to everything. I was still mad and we argued again today. Not only did he not admit he was wrong, h...

Boyfriend hasn't been paying the agreed amount and now I am in debt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. I am in love with him completely and he is in love with me. We moved in together after a year and a half. We have no issues living together and love being able to spend that much time together. our ...

Is it right to stay in a relationship when your partner indicates that someone before you was his ''perfect match''??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I would really like some opinions about my situation and I'm not sure if I'm being an idiot staying with my boyfriend or if I should leave him. I've been with him for three years and from the second date he started talking about a female friend qu...

I feel scared that I'll be tempted to cheat again. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Hi all. I am a 37yr old married woman no kids. Have been super happily married for a few years now, but I am seeing my usual relationship pattern starting once again. And the pattern, which has always started after a few years into any of rela...

Should I trust and feel reassured by my Boyfriend's remarks considering he cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on me and it has affected subsequent relationships. When I said to my current boyfriend that I always want to be his only one, he said to rest well knowing I am the only one he thinks about. Would this be reassuring ...

We broke up but he wont leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Hi, My ex and I broke up about 3 weeks ago and I thought it was mutual, both of us acknowledged that we no longer get on like we used to and have tried to make it work on multiple occasions over the past year. Basically it was one of those relatio...

Should I help my son financially?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - My son is 28, and has basically never worked. I'm soooo disappointed in him, I can't begin to say. He hasn't spoken to me in over a year.He doesn't respond to phone calls, emails, texts, or anything. He thinks I belittle him because when I was i...

I hate my dad! My mother is away and tells me to be patient! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - I feel so upset right now. I hate my dad so much that I wish he was dead. He's so selfish and self centered. He doesn't even have any respect for his children interest. He only does things that suits him alone. I'm so angry now cause he being ...

Where is the passion? Can the passion be revived? We have become platonic friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together 10 years. He is 9 years older than me. at first we were always making love but its got less and less over the last few years, and we have not been intimate since last year, Recently I found flirty texts bet...

When people say they are ''not ready for a relationship'' is that just a line to discourage the other party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - I was seeing a 25 y.o. woman over a month ago. She just lost her mother due to very complicated circumstances so she went through a very hard time. I took the 'not ready for a relationship' line as sincere. I didnt pursue but was open to go on mo...

Am I sick to think this situation shouldn't be happening with the guy I'm dating and his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for 4 months now, he seems really sweet and just the perfect gentleman he's Romantic and very caring. He rents a one bedroom and his cousin 14-15yr old girl (pretty, nice little body) comes to visit him and I was on...

What should I do if my fiance’s parents kick him out of the house after he confesses to them about his gambling problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles.. i posted a question some times ago about my dilemma regarding my fiance was gambling and want me to help him with the problem by asking me to lend him money. From all the opinion and advices given from you, i choose to reject...

Troubled relationship and me being told I'm over thinking everything!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - I am in my 30s and am in my first relationship for 3 years. I have never got into a relationship earlier because I tend to have a high expectations of people and my insecurities. During this time when I am in a relationship, I realized that I have a ...

Sleeping with my teacher, what will happen ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Hello,so I will start by saying this isn't a sordid affair. I am 21 and have been at university for two years. (I started at 19, as I had a gap year) Anyway, I have been dating this guy (who is much older than me) since June 6th 2015, so nearly ...

Should I confess the details of my secret messages ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Should I tell my husband all the details of my relationship with an old friend ? My husband has always had a high sex drive and never had a problem with performance. But since he found out about us sharing some very explicit texts, he has ha...

Why is gestures of affection so scary for me even though I want them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - I apologize in advance im typing this on my phone.Anyways I am not a touchy feely person.I am offered hugs by ny friends but theyre cold and I dont hug back.I dont enjoy having to worry about them hugging ne whenever they want.I try and wear long ...

My ex has filed for bankruptcy and the house I was awarded in the divorce is being included! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I got divorced a few years ago. In my divorce I was awarded the house with my ex husband paying the outstanding debt. My property stood good for the mortgage but my name isn't on the mortgage A few months ago my ex decided that he was filing b...