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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My b/f says it's the baby or him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi I am 14 wks pregnant and been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son together. My boyfriend is not happy about this pregnancy and says he doesnt want anymore kids and is forcing me to choose between him and ...

My girlfriend's past bothers me so much, and I think it might affect our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is the best girlfriend I have had and think I ever will have, but it's just her past that keeps bugging me! See, my girlfriend 15 and lost her virginity at 12 to a 13 year old boy who she no longer speaks to. She said they did it b...

Tired of Video Games and Thinking of Leaving.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I am 24 he is 27. I am starting to lose respect for him for a few reasons. He plays online and console video games A LOT. Meaning the days I wake up at his house I can pretty much expect to sit ...

Since getting back together over a year ago, she hasn't told anyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, she is 24. At first it was great, we saw each other all the time, we kissed and held each other a lot, we had lots of sex, we talked about the future and getting a place together. After a year and a hal...

I want to change my negative behaviour, and fix our marriage, but she won't change too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - I think I am verbally abusive. I have caused a lot of pain to my wife and a lot of problems in our relationship. I used to blame her for a lot of our problems because she would never follow through with what she said she would do and she would ...

What does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - been seeing this really nice guy i liked for ages, been seeing him for about 8 weeks now, everything was going great. he was texting me every day, seeing me every sat night until something changed.. i haven't seen him for 2 weekends because we've ...

I am having trouble being able to tell if he cares about me or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - A few months ago my friend introduced me to this guy who worked with her, and we started hanging out and hooking up a lot. He is from Harlem, and not to be racist, i am just trying to describe him, but he's very hood. He says that there is no ...

I feel so alone now my boyfriend has left me so soon after having his baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, i just had his baby all he wants to do is go out with his friends and telling me he wants space. I tried moving on hangin out with friends taking care of the baby by myself but i feel so alone like ...

My friend is mad that I started dating a guy she used to have feelings for! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I recently got out of a bad relationship, my ex was always demanding sex and using mind games to make me feel like s**t. I found hope in another guy, he's amazing and always telling me how perfect I am. He listens to my every problem and never asks ...

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to have that feeling of distance between us for a few months now. For me- it seems as though he is just comfortable and doesn't feel like he has to try anymore. I believe the two most important things in a relationship are ...

Boyfriend has pushed me to the edge - do I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 17 months now. It's pretty serious, we're getting a flat together and everything. I try not to think too far ahead because all manner of things can go wrong but I'm pretty sure he's the one. But this last ...

My boyfriend of 8 months just started an account on a dating website

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing an older guy for almost a year. I've been living far away from home for most of it, but I go home to visit on the holidays. Also, I'll be returning home for good in a few months. Everything seemed to be going fine until I was snoo...

My girlfriend accused me of cheating while she went off to a club with another man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (?) - I was late to meet my girl. I fell asleep on the recliner, as it happens. She was convinced I was off with some other woman. No lie. I talked her down from that for over 2 hours or so of patient painstaking work, then she revealed something to ...

My difficult boyfriend calls me and everyone else a 'loser'

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Can you please help me! How do you define a 'loser'?? My BF calls me a 'loser' (we've been together for 5 years) and he also calls his exes and my friends 'losers'. It is really upsetting me because I don't feel as th...

Torn between myself, two men and two kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So I have an issue. I have a husband for 4.5 years now. We get along fine with eachother's family, and we have two kids. Just like in every relationship he has promised me many of things and only a couple where fulfilled. Like the movie "The ...

My best friend has told people she never thought of me as a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - She already told other people that she never thought of me that way. I can talk to her about any and everything. We both consider each other our closest friends. This is the strongest i've EVER felt about a girl, and i think i love her. Should i ...

Uh oh, I have a boyfriend but think I am in love with my best girl friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I think I'm in love with my bestfriend. I have a boyfriend of almost two years and I am very confused. She often teases me saying she is gonna rape me and other stuff but I'm not shore if she is flirting or not. She calls me boo baby tells me she ...

Why do I keep liking a guy who is mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - How do I tell a guy I don't want to see him again (nicely)? I met a guy I really fancied through a dating site approximate 8 months ago. We went on a few dates, but it didn't get serious and he subsequently told me he was too busy for a relat...

Will my ex ever realise True Love isnt the same as Being in Love

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28 February 2010 (F) - I have an ex who I loved very much. He feels the same about me in a way. But we differ on one thing. I rarely if ever just fall in love instantaneously, but he is different. I do not necessarily trust the feeling of being in love. He can only be ...

Distance forming between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - If a couple's interests change and drift apart over 11 years to the point where they share very few personal goals, can they still be happy and fulfilled together? Do any of you who have been in long relationships have insight into this? I ...

I feel like the only reason he stays with me is because he feels he owes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together 2 and a half years. we always been one of the closest couples you can meet. the last few months he doesn't seem to talk to me as much or want to be around me, almost as if he's fallen out of love with me. o...

I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey ppl so ive been dating this guy and well we had never had sex im a virgin and well i think its time to please him can u guys give me some tips to please him mostly with my boobs :) -thanks...

Was what I went through admiration for a teacher, or just a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - It’s almost been a year now that I first met my coach I would soon grow to admire and still do to this day. Here’s my (long) recap: Before tryouts, I had no clue what to expect from him, but I’d heard that he’s pretty fun to be around, etc. (He’s a ...

He has a girlfriend but gets jealous when my friends give me a hug

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long... A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he love...

Before you all roll your eyes, I love my teacher like a father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - You all are probably so bored of hearing this topic! I am in love with my teacher! But before you Scream out in anger, its not in the way you think. A teacher at my school who has been here for about a year and a half maybe two years, taught ...

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to ...

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...

Oh, what a tangled web we weave ...........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now. We have know eachother sense we were 12 and started dating when we were 15. our relationship was great until the last year of it there was a serious lack of affection and intamacy on ...

How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(...

I have two men in my life, how do I choose which one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I am a 30 year old attractive and smart female. I was a former Ford model in teens and early 20’s, and after graduating college, I am currently a VP in pharmaceutical sales. How do I choose? Here’s some background on the men. Guy #1--We’ve ...

It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be ...

How can I find out if he is still interested without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and he asked me out a week after we met. We got really close very quickly after we met but then he had some family and health problems going on so he was distracted so we didn't really get to see each other, ...

To top off a very bad day I think my relationship is over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hi guys, I've not had a good day. Yesterday I went for an interview to apply for a 3rd year at university. My day started a 7am, from there I had to pick up all my friends who had an interview that day, take my girlfriend home, catch a boat in ...

Dating for two years and now having to take a backseat

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27 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and now all of a sudden he got his daughter living with him and don't want a serious relationship he wants to be single again but yet he tells you that he loves you but not in love with you but on the other ...

On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I ...

Should I protect other women from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way ...

I don't know if he is playing mind games or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) - basically i met this guy in july.hers a description i found which basically sums him up because writing the whole story would be tooo long The first few weeks or month is sheer bliss. This guy starts off real aggressive, hot and heavy. He can't ...

He wants me to wait for him while he 'finishes things' with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I apologise in advance that this is so long! So me and my ex split up 6 months ago. We had been together a year and a bit, and saw each other loads. Towards the end he became distant and I knew there was something up. He confessed he had feeling ...

I am gay, and eveytime my male friend kisses his girlfriend I die a little inside

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - ok let me introduce my self my name is kevin i am 16 i am a boy and i am gay but no body knows that i fell for this guy damn it he's so hot we're in the same class we're best friends and just my luck he got a girl friend recently and whenever we go ...

My ex is threatening me with "truth" tablets, do they exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Ok everyone Im still in contact with my ex. The thing is my brother done something not horrible to him and my ex thinks im involved in some sor of way The other day he said something o me over the phone about hes ordered somehing on lin...

I like my brother's friend so my brother stopped me seeing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - ok so i like my brothers friend and he likes me he told my brother and now my brother dosent let me see him and im 16 and hes 18 and if my dad found out he would be pritty mad and i cant stop thinking about him i dont know what to do any help??...

My friend is pregnant again, and I don't want to have to help financially again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I'm probably going to get alot of backlash with what i'm about to write so I want you to read this post properly. I have been mates with this girl for about 10 years. In that time she has has 2 children that were accidents 1 of which I'm god...

I want to move out of the friend zone and into being boyfriend material

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hey every one, ive got two quite big problems that have been bothering me for a while.. i go to a college in london right.. im 18, and (not being big headed) im a good looking guy.. well lots of girls like me.. im REALLY friendly.. sometimes TOO...

My boyfriend is studying too hard, how can I get him to talk dirty to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i m in a comitted relationship.well my bf is a bit frustated because his parents constantly scold him.the reason is bad performance in acaedemics.stdying hard,as well as devoting a bit time to me.but i am bit sad because he has lost interst in ...

I am starting to think is it my fault by boyfriend becomes abusive when drunk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 24. the thing is he is quite horrible to me when he's drunk. I don't really like to drink, but he'll have a drink of vodka in the house every weekend. I don't know what it is but we really don't get on when he's drunk. ...

Our friend is depressed because she can't pass her drivers licence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Morning, I desperatly need some advice. My friend who is 28 is trying to get her drivers licence, she has failed a few timesand after each test she is becoming more withdrawn. She hardly comes out with us anymore-infact my birthday is coming up and ...

I am "too large" for my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after ...

I don't want to be romantic with a boy who likes me, I just want to get dirty with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - So this boy likes me but I think I just like him because I want someone to make out with and have fun with. I've known this boy since middle school and he liked me in middle school too but I NEVER even thought of liking him. Now we're in hi...

How can I make my boyfriend realize my worth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for seven months now.my boyfriend and me both love each other a lot.of late, he has started taking less interest in me, he even lied to me once but i forgave him.we even broke up once but patched up within ...

My adult daughter's boyfriend "gropes" her in front of me... How can I deal with this?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently welcomed a young adult daughter back home after she started self harming because her same age boyfriend was disregarding her sexual wishes. He wanted to do some things she did not and forced these things on her. She is still his girlfr...