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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend will not stop groping me in public!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - this is slightly, well very, embarrassing, I'm posting this out of sheer desperation, so please serious replies only! My boyfriend is um, rather disinihibited in public. This includes mainly groping my bum, breasts and talking about sex in ful...

He moved in with me, and our sex life died

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has recently moved in with me. Before this happened, we saw each other mostly on the weekends because of the distance we lived. Our sex life was great. However, it completely stopped once he moved in. After battling the many reasons ...

My boyfriends best male friend calls him all the time, even at night. Am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2yrs and in that time his best friend who is a boy calls him upto 10 times a day, whether he's at work with me, anytime even at night he calls him. Its really annoying, am i over reacting ?...

He left me for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - my bf and i've were 2gether for a year and half and i love him i do i really do but he says that the feeling is not mutual he likes men.... he is gay.... i felt like i wanted to pass out. what am i going to do he left me for another guy! am I that ...

Relationship where we've never had sex, he's never said I love you

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi I am a 28 year old woman and have been in a relationship with a 32 year old guy for over 3 years now. He has never said I love you to me. Also he will not have sex with me- we have never even slept in the same bed. He always has an excuse and we ...

I had to invite myself, now I don't know how to discuss it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I started dating a friend of a friend. Before we became involved, I used to always ask him what was up on the weekend and he'd invite me to go out to the bar with our friends or sometimes just his friends. Last night I asked him if we could get ...

How can I keep his attraction for me long term?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'd be very grateful for some suggestions from women out there on how I can remain attractive to my man in a long term relationship. I sense he is very dissatisfied with me - disgruntled to the extent of having low self esteem. He doesn't ...

Why do men and women make it so hard to build a relationship together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - Ok so this is really a question for men who have been through the same thing and women who have told a guy this and what it really meant for them. I'm in love with this girl for quite some time now. She is my best friend. so much so that I dont ...

Ex "disappeares" again and again! Did sex made things worse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid- Sorry this is so long but it requires every detail....Well, in January of this year, i met this guy "matt" at a club and we exchanged numbers. Soon after that, we went out on a date to the movies. We continued going out like this for...

B/f is friends with his first love again, I feel jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - when it comes to my boyfriend's ex i never really used to have a problem with her. before me she was his first love and as teenagers they were together for about between 18 mths to 2 yrs. they broke up and it just happened that i was his shoulder ...

He only seems interested in the television and computer. Is this normal in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Good morning to all... I am writing for some advice or just another opinion outside of the one that I have within my relationship. I have been living with a man for nine months now and would like to think that my intentions are good. I do my ...

We've split up, but he still phones me everyday, calls me "babes", and tells me he loves me. What is going on in his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up a few days ago. I ended it with him because he had started to have feelings for this other girl and wasnt sure what he wanted anymore. i've been in bits ever since. the thing is he still phones me everyday, calls me ...

My partner of four years is driving me insane!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - my partner of four years is driving me insane, we have had some very great times and some very bad times, he had to move out becuse of problems he is having and i speak to him horribly, he has lied to me, gone behind my back and mad me feel like ...

Is it wrong for me to get back at her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Ok so i havent been here in a long time life has been going good with me lately but now i have a major problem. A month ago or so my cousin came here to cali to live with our aunt so everything was going great with her i was being good with her and ...

Blew me off and then is talking to me again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi all... am back talking about the guy who blew me off 2 months ago ..... he now has called and asked me out again! What should I do?...

Confessions of a Sexless Union, what do I do from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't had the desire to have sex with me in 2.5 years. I don't believe he's cheating on me, he's just gone off sex and affection. He's incredibly depressed about his station in life yet seemingly has no desire to better his position. ...

He hasn't called for about a month now, but I'm too proud to call him first!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi Guys Here's the deal. I recently broke up with this guy, we have been what you would say best/very close friends before we got intimate. We were close but as with all relationships we had our ups and downs. When we broke up, it was my do...

Part of me wants to beg for him to come back...but is this actually for the better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm desperate for some advice other than what my friends have been telling me. I've been with my boyfriend for around 2 years now. Our whole relationship has been pretty rocky in that we are completely different people and so our pers...

He didn't bother telling me he wouldn't be able to meet as we'd arranged! He is wrecking with my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - ok im starting to get really f***ing annoyed right now im in my last year of school doing my a levels and so is my boyfriend we spent a lot of time together in the summer an grew alot closer staying over in each others houses etc were back to s...