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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My b/f says he "never" wants to get married, and I've accepted that... or have I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1310 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years now. We have a son together but he has always said he is never going to get married. I have accepted his decision as I have been in a bad marriage before and that relationship only went bad ...

I'm second-choice... after his friends or his sport. Why can't we have time together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1310 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for over 3 years and have always had to put up with feeling second best to either his friends, football etc and he always starts shouting if I ask why he won't spend at least one full day on a weekend with me. He always ...

Family always comes first with him... even before my feelings (long)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1058 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I have been dated this 25 year old man for more than four years and seven months. We are two every different people. He and his family are very old fashioned Mexicans. He was born here but mostly raised in Mexico. I am 22 years old I was born and ...

Should we stay together, even though we fight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - If the bad times outweigh the good, if there is more arguing and fighting than anything else should a couple stay together? We have two kids and I love my partner more than anything but I can't take much more of the emotional abuse!!...

I want to get back together with him, but I'm worried about this other girl and him alone together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I left my son's father in January b/c we were having problems and I thought we needed some time apart. Then it came out where he slept with some other girls. Now we want to get back together. I came over this week so we could talk snd try to ...

After our "one nighter" the girl I love fell pregnant, but she doesn't know how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1129 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I had a one-night-stand with my best friend, and now she's pregnant. I've been in love with her since we were 15... and it's seven years later and she still doesn't know. I was so happy when she kissed me. Then she told me it was a 'one time thing' ...

Everything about my new man seems to good to be true. I guess I'm waiting for it all to end...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1309 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - HI I have had a couple of relationships that ended due to them cheating on me. Last time it was with one of my friends. I've never had much luck with relationships. One of the guys even used to call me names telling me I was fat, which I'm not; h...

My boyfriend's parents don't like me and he takes advantage of me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 731 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend's parents look down their noses at me because they come from a posh area & I come from a rough area. My boyfriend has let them treat me like crap (he doesn't even get on with his family). He says he can't wait to move out of his fami...

The way he keeps changing his mind, I don't know if he loves me or not...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Can someone please tell me if it really is possible to live with someone who doesn't know whether they love you or not? My boyfriend has told me before that he does love me but when we argue he says that he doesn't know and now I'm not sure whether ...

We're close in so many ways... but I still don't know if we're friends or more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1288 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Hi I'm needing some advice. I'm a 24 yr old female & have a close friendship with this 31 yr old guy. We have known each other for a number of years but only in this last year or so have we become quite close. We spend all our time together, ...

Because our relationship is a secret, I can't show how I feel in public. Do we continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1306 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm seeing a guy, and we're keeping it secret. It's making it extremely hard to get alone time. I have been thinking that yes I really like him, but if I tried to end it, he'd be horrible, because he is to everyone... very arrogant, but is lovely ...

I'm 7 months pregnant, but my boyfriend left because he needs "time to think"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1311 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I am 19 and have been left 7 months pregnant and my ex says he doesn't know what he wants and that he needs time to think. I have now found out he is back with his ex and me and my baby don't count. He hasn't even tried to contact me. He has ...

I'm uncomfortable with her sexually-active past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1293 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - My partner has had numerous sexual encounters with different men to the extent of reaching 20-30plus. I find her past hard to deal with, especially knowing some of the people and especially when meeting them whilst socialising. This usually en...

My husband is never passionate or even affectionate... All I want is a kiss after work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1311 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I am so tired of trying to get my husband to be passionate towards me. We have talked about it a hundred times and he is not doing anything to change like he said he would. I feel like I am just here to keep him company and keep his shit clean. He ...

When I argued with him he said he "loves me less" and threatened to leave...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1313 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend tells me that he loves me less when we have an argument. In fact, I am not really sure that he does love me. I have had some difficult relationships and I want this one to work because I love him so much and we do get on very well and...

Even though I love my b/f, I'm just not sexually attracted to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1313 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid... What does one do when they really, really love someone but they are not in love with that person? I love my boyfriend to death, but he doesn't turn me on. I once heard that after your sex life is gone, your relationship is doomed...Is ...

I have to stay in touch with my ex for my son's sake. Did we do the right thing splitting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1313 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - My son's father has a mental health problem and we have been having a lot of ups and downs. We decided to split after a three-year relationship, I want to know if we have made the right choice, as we have a child together and need to stay in conta...

With school and housework, I'm helping all I can, but my b/f wants me to get a job, too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1313 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I have been living with my boyfriend for 7 months now. He works and makes enough to survive. I am an international university student so I can only attend school, not work. Lately hes been pressuring me to find a job because I had a part time ...

Since we had problems, we talked and agreed to make changes, but I'm the one making them all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1311 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - My partner and I have been together for four years, and have a son. We have been having some problems, and recently managed to discuss things properly for the first time. We agreed we both needed to make some changes. However, it seems like it's ...

The sex is poor, he doesn't treat me well, he drinks... and I feel lonely...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1314 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - It's hard to explain my situation in short question. I am 41 years young. I have been with my partner for 4 years. I feel very lost and lonely. The best time we had together happened within the first couple of months. We had good sex for about a ...

My fiance says there's nothing going on with his business partner, but evidence shows something else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1311 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I need help!! I am very insecure about myself. I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years and am getting married next year. He has just set up two new companies and the last one he has done with two others. The woman who is a partner in the b...

I feel differently - not as strongly - as he does. How do I respond to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1314 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I'm not sure how to word this question. The man I'm seeing has recently told me that he loves me, I, however do not have the same feelings for him at this time. My feelings for him run deep, but I don't feel that I love him and also feel that love ...

An ex wants me back... but I'm not sure of my feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1314 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Hiya please help I was recently seeing this man, but we finished. We've got on quite well even though, and even though we probably won't, I always hope we get back together. Anyway this other man who I went out with a few years ago has always ...

We always have had a "complicated" past, but now he just doesn't seem to want to talk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1288 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I've got a friend that I was seeing a while ago. We have been friends for years. We both had told each other we had feelings for each other but it never really progressed into a relationship (he wasnt ready for one), so we split, deciding to just be ...

He has work, college and me to deal with... He said I was too much "drama" and dumped me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1315 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of almost nine months broke up with me 2 days ago because I gave him too much "drama." The supposed drama I gave him was pressure to be sweet to me and to not snap at me constantly. We have been so good for each other and so happy un...

During sex, he called out someone else's name... and I know her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1093 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I'm totally crazy about my boyfriend and thought I could trust him. Now I'm not so sure. A couple of nights ago he called out a girl's name while we were having sex. I know the girl, he always told me that he just thought of her as his mate's ...

My brother has chosen his druggie girlfriend over me, but I miss him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1316 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - My brother is living with a girl I can't stand. He was sent away for 8 months for drug rehab and has now been clean for over a year. His girlfriend is also a recovering addict. They were involved together before he went away and she told him she ...

She flirts, I drink, we argue, we split. We do this again and again. Do we quit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - Me and my partner have been together for three years off and on. We argue because she flirts with guys. She is possesive, she tries to control everything I do. I normally start drinking, as am an alcoholic. I go to mum's and then stop drinking, ...

I don't want to let my girlfriend go, in case she doesn't want to come back to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1212 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - My girl friend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. For the longest time in the relationship everything was perfect but recently it seems that something is missing. We both realize this but can't pinpoint what the problem is. We als...

Want to forgive my husband for his lying, but there's someone else I can't stop thinking about...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1316 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I have not been getting on well with my husband, he has let me down really badly 3 times in 2 years (lying). This time was the worst but on parental advice I agreed to 'forgive' him but for the last time. Shortly after this I went on holiday ...

Most of the time my fiance is wonderful... but it's those other times I worry about.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1317 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - My fiance and I have been together for about three years and recently got engaged. I love him and I believe he loves me, however, since we decided the relationship was extremely serious I feel that the relationship has alienated me from my friends ...

I know I was an idiot, but can I fix things with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1318 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I messed up badly with this girl I really like. I got really drunk and acted like an idiot and now she hates me What shall i do????...

After our argument, he lost confidence in our relationship, but I want to win him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1318 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months (Tuesday) and we got in a huge fight about 2 weeks ago. Things were fine and we were talking about moving in and starting a life... then this huge fight happened because I think that he ...

Too drunk to remember why, but I woke up next to a pretty redhead. Should I confess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1316 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - A couple of nights ago, me and my girlfriend were having a real big fight, and she suggested a 'break-esque' thing, some time apart, and I thought she meant we were breaking up, so I went to a bar and got really drunk... and all I remember is waking ...

Our engagement announcement was postponed when I discovered her cheating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1318 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - I'm 26 and have been with me Girlfriend for 8 years now. She once used to be my sisters best friend and as we got to know each other we found there was so much deeper stuff between us. Life’s been dandy (don’t get me wrong there have been some real ...

Six months ago he went from being a wonderful partner, to a threatening, angry, unhappy man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1318 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - I'm 36, have 2 teenage kids from previous marraige. 5.5 years ago I met this wonderful man (on the internet)who treated me and my kids fantasticly.I fell in love with him and moved 350 miles away from my friends and family to live with him. We...

When we argue, he calls me hurtful things. Am I at fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1318 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been having problems latly, and when arguing, he starts calling me fat, lazy, messed up and other hurtful things. I have got a bad attitude problem. Is he saying all this stuff because I make him??...

She likes him, but I like her and the other likes me and...What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1315 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - There are four of us in our group of friends. Two guys, two girls. We always go out drinking together. 1 of the girls fancies me, the other guy fancies the other girl, but i fancy this other girl as well. Nobody else knows i fancy her, but i cant ...

I've always had a crush on my best friend's brother, even though now I have a boyfriend...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - I am 18, and am with a lovely man of 25. We have been together for 10 months, and everything is fine. The problem is, I have always had a crush on my best friends brother. I have been best mates with this girl since i was 10, so i have got pretty c...

He makes me feel worthless, but he doesn't think I can change to suit him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1319 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and it's been very difficult. I like him a lot but he doesn't like the way I dress and gets angry at me when I say stupid things - basically he's made me think twice about opening my mouth in case ...

My fiance wants to spend all his time at the pub and not with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1301 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I'm getting married in four months time. I do want to get married and so does my fiance, but lately he hasn't made me feel needed. He seems more interested in going to the pub most times, even though he isn't an alcoholic. How do I tell him how ...

Should we end it, since he doesn't say "I love you" any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 yr old. We have been dating for 6 months. I really like him and we say 'I love you', but lately he's been acting weird. He doesn't say it any more and he said people only say I love you if they have sex. I know this is ...

My partner is so focussed on her son that she's lost interest in me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1302 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, and we were living together until her 15 year old son ran away from her ex-husband. Her son decided he would live with his gran and my partner followed. She said he was her no 1 priority. I did ...

A text to my partner from another woman has taken the trust from our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1294 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - My partner & I haev been together for nearly 12 years. About 4 years ago he had an affair and this caused us to split up once I found out. About a year later we got back together and tried to put the past behind us & bring up our Son in a family ...

Why did he want his ex's child, but asked me to have an abortion with ours?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1305 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I have been seeing my boyfriend now for nearly a year, and recently had an abortion. He already has a 3 year old child with his ex partner and said he wasn't ready to have a child with me, as he wants us to go on holiday together first and live a ...

He's been gone working... but I don't miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1320 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - Myself, husband and 6 mth old baby relocated from the Channel Islands 4 mths ago to set up business, leaving our friends and family. It's been tough. No work came in, making us argue. He was bad tempered and being a full time mum I was very busy ...

He thinks $20 a week is enough for me, but I have to buy maternity clothes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 806 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I am 37 weeks Of pregnancy and I am only 17 years old and my "boyfriend" is 21. I've been having a problem lately which I don't know how to solve. I was working before I got pregnant but he told me that he didn't want me to work during my pregn...

My boyfriend is really confused & says he feels "stupid"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said that I am too good for him and that he is not sure if I am the one who he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Last year he was making plans for us to get married but all of a sudden changed his ...

His ex-girlfriend manipulates him with their kids and I hate it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1142 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - MY BOYFRIEND HAS AN EX GIRLFRIEND THAT WILL ALWAYS BE IN HIS LIFE DUE TO THEIR 2 CHILDREN. HIS EX GIRLFRIEND ALWAYS HAS A PROBLEM. LAST WEEK IT WAS HER HEALTH, THIS WEEK IT IS HER CAR. I DO NOT THINK HE SHOULD WORK ON HER CAR BUT HE THINKS THAT AFF...

Our little arguments are stupid and they make me depressed. How do we get beyond this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1320 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - Hi I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now and I know we are deeply in love. We can't get enough of each other, but the only thing is recently we have been having arguments about stupid things, like I don't want to gi...