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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other...

Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate and they leave you...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have ...

My relationship with my brother in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been wi...

Why does she keep breaking her word and backing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I have a big problem with my gf, she tells me one thing and then does another, she builds up my hopes and then crushes my hopes all the time, it has been more often lately. I am a travel agent and with work I get to go abroad 3-4 times a year, ev...

My wife has changed recently, do you think I have lost her, I love her, what do I do now?p

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - my wife and i met about 9 years ago. we were both getting out of serious relationships at the time. we are in our late twenties now. for some reason i didn't feel in love with her until 7 years after we were together. that is when we got married ...

Do I follow my heart or my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Do I follow my heart or my head? I was coming out of a relationship which I was not happy in and it had been 2 months, I started going out with my friends having a good time when i kissed a mutual friend of ours. I am a hindu he is a muslim. I...

My long term boyfriend went to a strip club, got a lap dance...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Long Term BF went to a strip club, got a lap dance (2 actually) sat around chatting with the strippers and says it's harmless. Let me give a bit of background, both divorced, in a ltr of 3 years, we've got a great relationship, very direct and ...

Boyfriend is suddenly distant, haven't seen him in two weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost six months and I have been exclusive since nearly the beginning of our relationship. We usually see each other once or twice a week, due to our work schedules and the fact that we both have kids. Last week he went by himse...

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

I don't want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - me and my fiance and had a baby 1 year ago and since then i havent wanted to have sex or do anything sexual at all! i can count the amount of times we have slept together on 1 hand! my partner was understanding at first but now i can see hes star...

The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he ...

Curiousity killed the cat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he ...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...

I work in a man's world here and I feel my work and accomplishments, are overlooked! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - This is not really a romance question but I know there are some people here who could maybe help me with this. I am working on a government committee and I have written some resolutions which were voted the best in the area that I live in. I ...

Why is he being grumpy and cuddling another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, but recently hes been really moody and grumpy im not sure whether this is related to his new job as he has to get up early for. I am also worried that he is going off me, as last weekend he had a ...

Love or just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hiyah..well this is kind of embarresing but i need to ask sum1.:S well to start of with the first time i had sex was when i was 14 with this lad that i am currently having sex with now.i am now 15. i feel like i love him.. but the problem is...

He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a ...

My fiancee isnt affectionate at home, just when we are out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is very sweet. I love him and I know he loves me. We are getting married nov2208. He isn't very affectionate. Well to me he still holds my hand and puts his arm around me. He wants me to go everywhere ...

I'm a married woman, but can't stop e-mailing my online man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am a married woman now for 17 years with three kids. Recently I met this married man online. We have talked now for like three months straight. Only of course when he's at work. I sit and wait for his emails day in and day out. Someday we talk all ...

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a ...

Things are moving so slowly... does she just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...

He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...

We get on great but lately I've been feeling this distance from him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We always have had a great time together, I make him laugh and I thought that he might be the one. Lately however, I have been feeling this distance from him. Intitally it was just him not ...

Do I continue to tell him how much I love him or do I just let him go and figure this out by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and in this 5 months we have only spent about 2 weeks apart! He is different from anyother guy I have ever dated. Well his wife in which they have been split for 2 years has started causing us ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

I love her so much but am not totally happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love me girlfriend very much and I feel she loves me, but there are things in life that I want that she doesn't share, she doesn't share my ambitions in life and doesn't see our future as I see it. Is this something that we can get over or is i...

Is he losing interest already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 or 3 months and I'm having the time of my life. It seemed that he was too, but over the last 2 weeks or so he hasn't been sending me the cute little messages he used to or giving me compliments when we're together. ...

I have become insanely jealous! I know this isnt normal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - The fact is, I've never loved anyone before - but I am most definetly in love now with my amazing boyfriend. He's lived in my street for a few years and from the moment I laid eyes on him I knew I had to be with him. He was gorgeous; tall, dark and ...

My wife can't get over my past...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the ...

He hasn't called after 2 months so I've told him I'm seeing someone else (which I'm not) have I done the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So, I told him I was seeing someone else because 1. I wanted to let him know that while he was gone, I wasn't stuck on him and 2. that I am worthy of meeting someone who wants to be consistent with me. Thing is, that statement is only half-true. ...

This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...

We're having a lot of arguments about the way she dresses.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love this girl we are dating for a year and a half now she is soooooo sweet adorable lovely caring beatiful hot everything a man would want in a girl but lately we have been fighting a looooooot about the way she dressses... now I know it's silly ...

I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for almost two months and have been on couple of dates. The thing is that I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.. A couple days ago we were texting and he said he didn't want to be kissing me if I wasn't his ...

3 years together and she doesn't even think she's ever been in love with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend moved out of state and asked me to join her which I did recently. She lives with her family and I live alone. We have been together for 3 years and a few months. She has been going to school full time and working a few ni...

In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...

I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...

I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give them back to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I want to leave my husband! I can't live like this any more and I told him today. He didn't really care that I was leaving but said I'm not taking the kids they're both 6. I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give ...

The pain will never stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my current girlfriend for exactly 6 months now. I love her more than life itself, and she's everything I could ever ask for. However, there's one thing that absolutely tears me apart on a daily basis and feels like the pain wi...

He is very angry and says I don't care about him...what more can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My 20yr old boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for about ten months. over of which he has gotten a dui and lost his license for a year. i moved 4 hours away from him, for school that offered me a scholarship, about 3 months ago. i have been ...

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

How can I forget my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I want just to forget my first love because she is getting married! What can I do please help me? ...

How can I help support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - He is upset with how his life is right now with working and lack of money? How can I help and support him? And what is the differance between emotionally connected and mentally connected? Because he told me that he connects with me emotiona...

I just want him to know how much this is hurting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been on and off with this guy for almost a year now; and about 2 weeks ago we broke up while i was away, but he didn't really give me a decent reason. - so then I was major sad, trying to figure out why he finished things when it was perfect ...

Should I believe he really has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met a gorgeous guy about a month ago. We instantly hit it off but i wanted us to take things slow and i told him i wasnt ready for sex. He understood. The problem is that now i feel things are moving just too slow. We only s...

Does he still love her...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Please help me, I dont know if my boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend? We have been together for 5 weeks now, he is never sentimental with me. When i confronted him about this he got angry with me and told me i was being stupid, ...

When things get serious I always back off, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - what is wrong with me!!??? I've never had a relationship with anyone. I've been on dates etc but when things have started to become serious I put myself off the person that I'm with. I tend to like a person for ages and then when something fin...

I dislike my good friend's husband and it's ruining our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - hi, i really need some advice. i moved into a new area about a year ago and my three children started a new school. my youngest son made friends with a little boy and his mother and i have since become really good friends. i value her friendship and ...