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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How to deal with this situation of possibly dating a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hello I was angry at a guy who is my colleague and did not talk to him because I thought he wasn't nice to me. Today the guy asked me:" to be friends and see where this will lead, also he said that we can meet each other outside our working plac...

Dating 5 months, 4 months pregnant and we're not happy!

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25 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I'm 4 months pregnant with his baby. Everything has moved so quickly!! Sadly we just don't seem to be happy. In fact we just seem to argue most of the time. I do love him but I am not sure that he ...

He is either red hot or ice cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - pls help, i'v got involved wit an old flame he is just out of a marriage i am just out of a long relationship. he has said from the start he doesnt want a relationship. he wine's n dine's me,takes me to club's pub's away for weekends treats me like ...

Do I give my ex bf another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I asked for advice at the beginning of this year when i had split with my ex boyfriend. I was in heartache and agony and was spiralling out of control, i had lost over a stone in weight when i discovered he'd been texting other women. this all ...

How are we supposed to date if he wants won't contact me...should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - To make a VERY long story short, Me and ex were together for 2 years...so in love...moved in with each other...relationship went downhill, I had my own insecurities and I was clingy and jealous. He has his...needs video games, sports, friends, etc. ...

In love with her but she's not ready! How do I get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Hey, if anyone can give me any advice on this situation I will be incredibly grateful - its screwing up my head and my life and I need to do something to sort it out. Sorry this is such a long post - Im trying to sum up the most eventful six months ...

I treated him so badly that he went to another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - what do i do when ive treated the one i love so badly he turned to another girl and doesnt know if he even wants me back now!!! ive been cold and distant and he has tried so hard to love me and now i know what ive lost please help me!!...

Why do I feel jealous of his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ok, today my boyfriend is going to hang out with some old friends, and I feel uneasy about this and jealous. I know I shouldn't, especially since it will probably be just the three of them. One of this guys lives in town, and they don't see each ...

How can I help him without giving in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - so i just broke up with my boyfriend about about a week ago. i did it because i dont think im ready for the kind of relationship we were in, plus i just graduated hs and really want to figure everything out which i couldnt have done if i was with ...

A check into his emails brings up many inappropriate texts between him and his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - What to do? Last night in a fit of temper following an argument with my boyf, i decided to go through his SMS inbox behind his back. at the time i justified it to myself by telling myself it was ok because he had done this to me in the past, and...

I think he's trying to decide if he wants to be with me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dealing with wach other for 4 years now. I have held the title as his girlfriend for 3 years. Hes 22 and im 21 and he recently mentioned that he was ready yo start a family, I personally dont feel that neither of us are ...

Who's right? Him? Or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Please help me out...Recently I asked about my relationship. And now my boyfriend wants his question answered.He wants to know is it right for me to text or call him like every 3 hours when he is not home..But here is why I do In the first part of ...

We love each other but don't make each other happy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so I'm gonna try to condense the past 5 years into a few paragraphs! haha So my boyfriend and I met in 2004 when we were both much younger and immature (18 and 20), we practically lived together and dated for 6 months, then broke up. We wer...

Am I just not being assertive enough? G/f walks all over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Hi, Im not a very assertive guy, and i feel that i have let my gf walk over me a bit too much recently, i have let most of my past flames controll me and walk all over me, i do not like to upset people and often go out of my way just to make peo...

Is it silly of me to dwell on the fact that he hasn't bought me a birthday present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been going out for four and a half years, and for my birthday this year he told me he was taking me on holiday. 2 weeks before my birthday though he broke up with me, he said he needed space, and lots of time apart from me. I ...

She is afraid to have a relationship with me in case she loses her support system

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - I am friends with a girl. I haven't known her long. Just under a year. When we first met we talked about getting together but she was just trying to get out of a bad 5 year relationship. Since we started hanging out as friends she would tell me ...

He's never given me any reason to doubt him but I cant get over his past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hi, my partner of five years is 62 and I am 53 hence we have a lot of life experiences between us. When we first got together he told me a lot about his past and if I'm honest I was shocked as it consisted of 4 unplanned pregnancies, 3 abortions etc ...

My girlfriend wont let me pleasure her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - I am currently having problems with my girlfriend. A little background info: She is 18 and I am 24. We met online when she was 15 and after about 3 or 4 months things started to blossom and she admitted she loves me. So once she turned...

Is my boyfriend falling for his roomate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has moved in with our mutual friend, who is a girl. They are also living with two of his guy friends. They have been getting really close. They are extremely flirty. In fact, they are closer at this point than I am with him. The...

Which guy will bring me the most happiness? Who should I trust the most?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - last night my bloke asked me to sleep with him, i said no, by sayin no resulted in him pushin me right by the stairs. i nearly fell down them. do u think he would ever hit me? also i have been reading his comments and it appears that he is meeting ...

I'm the one showing all the love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - hey. so i hope anyone can help me. I dont know if my boyfriend loves me. He says he does. But i feel like im the one showing all the love. See i had to leave him for three months and i promised him i would call him. I feel bad cause im always the ...

Why do I get upset when my boyfriend masturbates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am wondering... why do i get so upset when my boyfriend masterbates? Why does it bug me he watches porn... i get so jealous as if he wants to be with those women on the porno and then he tells me sometimes he doesnt need porn and that its in his ...

What do I do about my alcoholic wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - my question is about my alcohol wife Im married 15 years and the stories or horror stories I never thought that an alcoholic can create so many serious problems, dangerous and destructive. I got to get out of this situation I tried everything to ...

Even though he's been going behind my back, I don't want to leave him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My husband had a realtionship with another female for years. I was with him first but it started before we were married. Then We all started having threesomes together. I did not know that they were doing it behind my back. I just recently found out ...

Shall I go and talk to him even if he's a jerk and a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - What is happening ? I and my boyfriend we are together since 2 years , recently I noticed that he became different person , he changed , like he doesn’t want me , if I hug him he said I hate hugging If I want sex , he said I hate sex , if I wanna ...

Caught in the crosshairs between best friend and her boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a friend who I had been friends with for over a decade and we fell apart over a serious issue some time ago. I love her though she's the only person I care about (platonically) the way that I do. Now she had this boyfriend who treated ...

He didn't tell me how old or sick he was, and I've me someone closer to my age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am 62 years old (but a very young 62). I'm active, I exercise 5 times a week and everyone tells me I don't look my age. I'm in good health and take care of myself. Six years ago, my husband of 32 years passed away. Three years later I met a ...

How do I overcome the bad boy syndrome?

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25 September 2009 (F) - help i do have a thing for fallin for guys with bad repuations like cheatin lyin etc.. but when this one guy in particular who has told me he is attracted to me even with his cheatin past isnt showin me attention cause i "played hard to get with ...

When do I say enough and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ok here goes, I was married for 17 yrs.to a physical and emotionally abusive man. Finally got the courage to dump him and 4 mos. Later began a relationship with (A). We fell deeply in love but cause of my past didn't trust him. We moved in ...

My boyfriend gets mad if I wear matching bra and panties when he is gone

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gets mad at me for wearing panties and bras that match when I am not with him. Is this out of line? We have been together for almost two years. I have never been unfaithful to ANYONE. HE has....

I feel my boyfriend's mother is overstepping a little with our plans for the baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if i'm thinking to deep into this matter or wether or not i have some valied resson for concern. Me and my partner are expecting are first child in a few months but frew out the whole pregnancy I have had some concern as to wether or ...

I thought telling would make it better, but it didn't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - ok i had cheated on my bf a while ago and today just told him and he take it the way that i though he would. He hates me and i know it and i derseve it and and im a loser and cheater and i hate myself. he had ask me once and i told him i didnt...

My boyfriend thinks I don't support him, I can't argue or I'll lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - OK, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I really love him and we have a good sex life. But hes so immature at times. and the problem I face now is nearly losing him. Today he had an argument with my best friend, my best fr...

Visit my son in jail? Or write a letter telling him how his behavior is affecting the family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My son ended up in jail, after several probation charges with shoplifting and others, to support his drug habits. Now it is the 10 th year of this struggle. We tried to help him,many many times. Right now ,I'm hesitating if I should visit him in j...

I needed a hug, not a French kiss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - is it normal that a girl would just want a hug from her boyfriend rathar than a french kiss ,,you see ,2 of my friends died at a car accident, and i was crying so when we met , i hugged him and i started crying he hugged me back but then afterwards ...