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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a ...

Did he go too far or is it my fault? I feel somewhat violated although we did not have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Ok this is kind of an awkward question to ask but I need to know. Today I hooked up with this kid. I'm really not very experienced but this seemed odd to me. The minute we started kissing he tried to unzip my pants and made it clear that he wanted ...

We used to argue a lot, now we've split up, but he still wants to continue to see me on weekends, I'm not happy with this, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - my husband and i have argued for several months now on and off, he has now left saying hes wants us to have a break, this i am not happy with. he wants to get his own house and just see each other on a weekend, how can this work for us?? also i am ...

My hubby is into swinging amongst other things, but we rarely have sex, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My husband is into dogging and swinging - we hardly ever have sex, when we do it is always after he has been stimulated by the internet or chat rooms,pictures, web cam etc. I always have to go on top and he never comes? We have been to swinging...

I found hair in our bed that is NOT mine, my boyfriend won't explain, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I've been having some problems with my boyfriend lately. we've been together for quite a while now. He's been trying to make up what he did to me, and we've been seeing each other and trying to get our relationship back to normal. Just yesterday we ...

I felt a strange sense of achievment when one of my childhood bullies appologised, but how do I truly forgive them when the memories are resurfacing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - how do I forgive them? When I was at school, I was bullied indecently, I dont know why, but once one started the rest followed like sheep. I have tried all my life to put those 5 years behind me, but its always there. It wasnt just a few kids eit...

She dumped me and is with someone else but says she still loves me, do I try to move on or try to get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - ok, I am not together with my girl anymore. she has gotten into something with another guy and everything. she broke it off with me. I still love her and i want her back. I could let this go, but she's not letting me. she still wants to talk with me ...

Don't men still do old-fashioned things for the women they love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm a little irritated with my b/f. For two weeks, I've asked him 3 times to air up the tire on my car because it looked low. Each time, he blew me off saying, "Yeah, yeah, yeah..." and then doing nothing. Today I had a flat and he was pissed at me ...

My friend just doesn't put in the efforts to our friendship..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Hi My friend is being really annoying. Whenever i ask her if she wants to meet up, she is 'busy'. But her definition of busy is sitting at home or going to her dad's house. She's great when i do see her, and a good mate, but i wish she would ju...

My BF doesn't like kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a not-too-happy-but loving relationship for 4 years, with a 1 year distance relationship at the beginning. When I have finally moved in with my boyfriend our sex life became cooler after a few weeks. Now (3 years afterwards)he ...

My husband's dog, is driving me crazy! I'm pregnant and having a hard time...any advice?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I waited my whole life to find the "one" (got married this year for the first time and am expecting a baby). Life is good! However, there are a few big stressors in my life that I am having a very hard time coping with. My husband and I li...

Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship? Could this make you more open to abusers? At what stage is it safe to let someone know that you were in an abusive relationship? ...

He dumped me and now I find myself...going past his place everyday to see if he's in...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Ok you lot will think im a complete idiot here but im not. I was kind of seeing this guy he was a few years older than me and to be honest ive never before had a relationship and this guy was so special i was so happy to have a guy like me. anyway c...

Help me..does it sound like he really likes me or is he playing/using me once again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, When I was 18 I really liked this boy a lot and we ended up having sex but then after we did have sex he ignored me and I noticed he flirted with another girl. Then some time after I found out I was pregnant I tried te...

I'll do a lot to make her happy but I feel our relationship slipping away..help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - hi, im 20 and my g/f is 19. i have been with her for just over a year now. i really love my g/f so much and i would do anything in this world to make her happy. if shes ill i do my best to bring her things to make her feel better. if shes unhapy ...

My boyfriend is really bossy and overbearing-what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is really bossy and overbearing, he constantly tells me what he thinks is the right way to do things, and if it is not done like this then i am wrong. i am always changing how i do things to make him happy. but he always seems to find ...

Upon meeting up with him--I got shy and awkward. I think it put him off! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Well, this old classmate and i who never talked back in school recently started talking online. we got quite close, it was quite apparent we liked each other's company, although until now, i was convinced both of us just considered each other just ...

How do you get over an abusive relationship when you're being framed as the crazy person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me. This relationship has lasted over a year. It was at first the greatest thing I had, but became abusive - I seemed to be blind and held onto it because I remembered his kind self at the beginning and hoped he ...

How do I help her see that she's going to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - One of my good friends is friends w/ benefits with one of her guy friends, and she really likes him. And she told him the way she feels, like everytime she sees him it makes her day better, etc. etc. And he said "well that's nice to know. i'm ...

How do I ask her to decide and not jepordise future positive experiences??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - To cut a long story short, I've completely and utterly fallen for a girl during my first term at University. I am led to believe that my feelings are reciprocated - we've had wonderful times together doing things that match our many common ...

Who thinks I am being played for a fool??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hello all. Here goes: I'm a 37 year-old woman who's been dating a "separated" man (he's 41) for 8 months now. He has 2 minor children (ages 5 and 7) and has been married for 8 years. He lives alone. She lives w/another man. I know it sounds i...

Am I being paranoid thinking he had another girl over??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I don't know if i am being paranoid or not. My b/f of three years bought a new toliet seat cover and it was laying there for awhile. Meanwhile--in the three years that i have been with him--he has never really straighted up anything(like placing ...

My wife says I neglect her and that God wants to end the marriage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My wife over the last two years says I did not show her any affection. We have two children and after a days work and looking after the kids when I get home I am so tired that I have obviously overlooked her needs. She later confessed to having a 5 ...

Let's admit our faults and learn from our mistakes! A faster way to reaching a solution.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 276 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - This is just a little note to all the readers out there reminding you that nobody is perfect. although sometimes our selective memories block out all the bad things we have done and we to us it can seem that we are always in the right. Sometimes we ...

Should I smile because we are friends or cry because that's all we are??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, Me and this guy have been through so much together. We've been out twice and even when we wern't going out we were still close friends. The first time we went out he dumped me but the second time i ended it. And yeah i regret it. I still lov...

How could it happen that the next day after asking me for reconciliation, they declared their love for each other and became a couple?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I decided to end my relationship with my alcholic boyfriend 3 months ago - we were together over 5 years, living and working together 24/7. He spent a week in hospital early in 2007 where he underwent detox and suffered the most dreadful ...

I moved with my family in Turkey to be near my bf. He has proposed to me but the fact he at times ignores me for days is confusing to the point I'd travel back to UK. Your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Ok before I even start I know I am stupid for putting myself in this situation but I dont know where to turn or what to do. I have been with my turksih bf for over a year. we are living apart however i moved to turkey just over 3 months ago with ...

I love her very much but am scared we have been living a lie.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My wife and I met 20 years ago and it was love at first sight. She and I had both had lots of lovers before and I had been married. On our first date she said something to me that I took with a pinch of salt and thought she was joking. "I am a ...

My long distance boyfriend is living like a single in a constant party when I'm not around. I feel it hard totrust him, am I too controlling or what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I am currently on a long distance relationship and what is upsetting me right now is that my bf is like living the single life when I am not around. He goes out with friend to bars to drink and have fun. I do not mind that he goes out but, there ...

She's very indecisive about us and whenever I try to talk to her about it, she just says "I don't know", what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Right, so i met a girl back in october, and we both liked each other at the time, but she had a boyfriend, so we did nothing about it. That relationship then broke up, and me and her just got really close, and things began to fall into place. We j...

How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it ...

All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...

My pregnant girlfriend dumped me and blame it on her hormones, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - my girlfriend is 20 weeks pregnant and she has dumped me , she says its her hormones and that she has done it so that she can sort her head out but she has wanted to see more of me ever since she dumped me is this normal....

He lied to me so I broke up but I still love him, how can I forget him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where ...

We had a little scuffle of a fight. Should I end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - i've been dating a guy for 7 months who's going through a divorce. until two days ago we had a normal relationship with its ups and downs but were doing fine then he had a little to much to drink and we had a physical scuffle. i only got a scratch ...

How can I get over how he used to be when he was drunk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My partner was an alcoholic. He used to be abusive when he was drunk. He has now stopped drinking and is doing really well. My question is how do I forgive him for the things he used to do?? I find myself still being angry over things - especial...

My boyfriend has been cheating and now possibly has 2 other children beside our son. I'm really tired and confused now, how do I work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been on and off for alittle over 4 years. We've both cheated and forgave each other and I thought we moved on but a few months ago we moved out of town together and he cheated. Then I found out that he may have two ...

He's not ready to get married but that's all I want. What should I do to get him to that commitment level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 4 years. Have been living together for the last 2 years. He's not ready to get married but that's all I want. What should I do to get him to that commitment level?...

We have jealousy issues on both sides and fight constantly, what do I do about this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - i really need help.. this might sound stupid or whatever but i just don't know how to deal with it.. so i go out with this kid.. i reallyreally like him. but there's jealousy issues on both sides. we fight constantly and shit and i just get mad ...

She says I ruined her Christmas and any chance I had and now I'm confused and don't know what to think or do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Sorry if this is a bit long, it is a developing story that I have been posting to here about... Well, My girlfriend of several years told me she needed time and space. I gave her some, but tried to fight for her back. We were back for a short w...

My boyfriend drinks and can't stay away from other women from his past, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is 12 years younger than me, we have been living together for a year. One of the issues that I have with him is that he drinks every day. When he drinks, he says mean things to me and we fight. Another thing is that that since th...

My troubled girlfriend is devoid of affection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - My new Girlfriend has a lot of history, Drugs,Drink+ abuse by partners and other issues that at the moment i'd like to keep private. I have accepted all of this but I find she is devoid of affection, rejects compliments and hates her appearance. I ...

Has this relationship reached the end of the road?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - My partner and I split up in February. We didn't live together or anything but we had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split. Things hadn't been good for around 6 months before the split and I felt we were at different points in ...

I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...

Should I fight or give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Been in and out of this relationship for 19 years. He was my first love as well as I was his. We have a 17 year old together. 2 years ago he finally proposed and we have been scheduled to be married Feb 2008. I have been there with him through drug ...

My boyfriend and I fell out over our Xmas arrangements!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are home from college for Christmas break. We pretty much live together at school and are about 12 miles apart here at home. We have been going out for more than four years. He got home five days before me and spent that time ...

How do I improve this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and we have both decided we want to move in together. However, realizing our leases were up at separate times, mine being up 4 months earlier, we talked about me getting an interim place, bigger ...

I am hurt and confused because he told me he visited an ex who is in prison "for no reason."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I am in this relationship with this man I love so dearly. He just told me that he went to see an ex that is in prison. I asked why, and the only answer he gave was "No Reason". I am hurting and confused right now. What should I do?...

I found out my bf has another gf since 2 years and now I'm all confused, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - i really dont know what to do.. i suppose you could call me a total bitch an slut for what i'm doing, and i am actually starting to feel like one...but im worried. I've been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend. I have done for 3 months now...

I've been in a relationship with my cousin for the past 4 months but now her family is getting argumentative about it, what shall we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my cousin for the past 4 Months'. We're very happy together. But her family is getting very argumentative about it now. I was just wondering if anyone can advise me on what I should do?...